"For those who don't have the privilege of cuddling with other enthusiasts, it's just... unfortunate."
Say that to a past female client of mine who was assaulted by an "enthusiast". It just makes me angry. I think it's awesome for people to find enthusiasts if that's what THEY ARE LOOKING FOR. But a lot of people aren't. There are people who have serious past trauma issues who need someone serious about boundaries and consent, someone they can trust. There are people who really aren't looking for a relationship and want a no strings attached, no risk of developing into a romantic relationship situation, no needs to manage with the other person after the session is over, etc "relationship." People who are married and want no risk of anything more happening in the "heat of the moment." People who don't have a lot of time and just want to pick a professional, schedule a session, and go. There are a TON of reasons for someone to only seek a real, legitimate, experienced professional. There are a lot of people who only seek an enthusiast. There is nothing wrong with either choice. No shame. Be kind and compassionate towards people who may make a different choice than you. They are both legitimate choices.