Cuddle Buddy in Los Angeles, California, US

Kabocha

31 - Man - Los Angeles, California, US

"I like to cuddle while practicing good boundaries"

About me

{Last updated: June 05, 2019}
Thanx @Lovelight
(For correcting some of my grammar)

In descending order: About Me, Availability, My Boundaries, What Cuddle Time with Me is like.

APOLOGIES in advance: If I message during odd hours or early mornings.
(Since not everyone lives in the same time zone)
Please excuse the bad grammar I will fix it eventually
-------------------------------------------- ABOUT ME -------------------------------------

I’m NOT pro cuddler (Someone just brought this to my attention)

Also looking for Platonic Touch revolves having good boundaries.

My pronouns are he/him

Hello! I am a guy still figuring out myself.

One of my hobbies is learning from others. I enjoy learning languages, and other skills to expand my knowledge. I can teach how make to make a Oragami crane

Most recent trip was to: Mexico.
Date: end of April. 2019.

I would like to make meet others.

--------------------------------------- AVAILABILITY -----------------------------------------------
I’m pretty limited and my schedule can vary every so often.

Ideal more likely to be free second week of each month.

Before having a cuddle session, I would like (prefer) to meet up at least once in person for a drink, or a light meal like pizza/salad. ?

Best way to contact me is: on this platform.
I apologize in advance if I take a bit of a time to respond. I will respond as soon as possible, usually within 72 hours to a week.

Also I have been know request FROM Pro Cuddler for future Cuddle sessions more than 90 days advance so please be aware that rarely book pro session less than (3 to 12) weeks unless there a Cuddle enthusiast. Even then odds are still low. I’m like a “shiny” Pokémon if you get that reference.

-—------------------------------- MY BOUNDARIES ----------------------------------------------

What I can’t do:
-I don’t spoon (either big or small)
-no face touching at any capacity normally not my thing unless familiar with you

What I can do:
-Light back scratches
-Be a listener
-Hold hands and/or give hugs
-if your comfortable and make a request I can do light shoulder rub
-Do non-touch activities like play board games

------------------- Me, as Cuddle Client or as a Cuddle Buddy ---------------------------

If your new to Platonic Cuddles check out
bottom part starting with: ***
(If you would like to do so)

My experience:

Before joining cuddlecomfort I have already attend Group Platonic Cuddle Events in California and I have met & have had Cuddle session with Pro cuddlers.

So I have a basic understanding what good healthy Platonic cuddles looks like.

So far in my journey in Cuddle space/Industry .. It takes a lot skills to be a good client.
Also similar skills to be great Cuddle buddy to someone else. and I like the idea being able create safe space to open a line communication. Regardless if I meet cuddler that is professional, Enthusiast, and a person that doesn’t want touch necessary, but would like someone spend time with them. I just like idea giving when I can or when I would like to do so.
(Life for me is about making balance and adjusting our time and effort to all our roles and responsibility)
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As of Monday, May 20, 2019 (check for updates and ) Agree for Client Service Agreement

I typically prefer cuddle session Morning time around 11am.
Length of time: For me (1) hour plenty & maybe sometimes (2) hours max is my ideal limit.

I’m naturally introverted and not really super touchy person.
I typically prefer giving touch than receiving touch.

If given the opportunity/privilege to have Cuddle sessions with a person.

- I will have taken a shower 12 hours before meeting you
I will be unscented meaning I will not use perfumes or body spray,
But will have used lotion just keep my skin hydrated
and have my hair soap, wash and clean (of course lol).
(I’m pretty conscious about people having sensitivity to smell)

-I make sure verbally request for only healthy touch. I’m perfectly okay with you saying NO so I encourage you speak up. Let me know if you ever feel uncomfortable and I can make adjustment.
No problem~

-I prefer ask a lot question when first meet someone... that’s one way I explore the world around me. To me cuddling is definitely intimate. With saying that I don’t Cuddle people right away. Kinda want hear and see what kind person you are first. I hope you can be okay with that?

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BONUS:
Here is a code puzzle:
(-hint: it’s is a single word)

~~~8468448385~~~
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ε=ε=ε=┌(;￣◇￣)┘ FREE╰(*´︶`*)╯♡HUGSヽ(￣д￣;)ノ=3=3=3

***THIS PART: If this is your first time doing Platonic Cuddling with complete stranger.
(Here are some advice...)

-Have a safety buddy
(let close friend or (only if have to/have no other option) at least one online person you trust know where your go to be)
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-Learn speak up for yourself say NO with confidents, but respectful when possible.
(For example: If your uncomfortable particular way someone put their hand side of your waist. You can say that doesn’t feel good. Can you move your hand a bit higher.? You don’t need say no necessarily.. BUT use your words. What I’m trying to say.)
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-Also with saying no, learn ask for what you like or want. Especially if you are hiring a Pro cuddler I’m assuming your getting touch you need. Isn’t going against pro cuddlers boundaries or breaking client agreement here.
(Example if your getting your hand, head or back massage, ask if they can apply more or less pressure)
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-Enjoy the moment, but be aware of yourself not to form unhealthy attachment to people.
(This one is a bit tricky to explain: Once you find amazing cuddle buddy/pro cuddler. Understand that they made time to be with you for that moment.. Then they go back to their own lives fighting Dragons or what not. We all have to learn to live our own life and understand cuddler has their own life as well.. Doesn’t mean that cuddlers aren’t Authentic or not giving people. Just remember cuddlers are friendly people, but most likely not typically your friend. I would like to think of it like open work relationship with limitations, but they really do care about your well being.. from my personal experience the good ones do.)
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-some people get “oxytocin high” aka goffy/lovely dovey...
It’s side effect really great cuddling.
(I recommend After Cuddle session spend 5mins or so to “ground yourself” meaning re-focus so you can be able drive/get yourself home safe)

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Facts

Join Date	April 2019
Orientation	Straight, Asexual, Heteroflexible, Questioning
Status	Single
Cuddles	Everyone
Can be	Guest, Public
Preferred Days	Thu
Preferred Times	Morning
Preferred Age	24 - 100
Fav. TV Show	Survivor
Location:	Los Angeles, CA

Height	5' 8"
Body Type	Overweight
Drinks	No
Smokes	No

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VonDutch
11 months ago

Super nice and genuine guy. Excellent conversationalist. Really enjoyed getting to know Kabocha. Highly recommend!

deleted cuddler
1 year ago

We finally met after all these years of talking. And wow, he's pretty cool. He's hella respectful, loving and giving. And oohh yes straight up too, but I like that tho. I felt like he is more of the pro than I was. He taught me so much. And how he massages is amazing too. I'm glad we met. I felt comfortable with him from the start.

zelgius
2 years ago

First bro cuddler! He is very respectful, patient and honest. Has good boundaries and will make you feel at home. (Even though I was at home lol.)

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2 years ago

I had a wonderful cuddle session with Kabocha! He is incredibly genuine, respectful, communicative, and kind. He is well-versed in platonic cuddling practices and even taught me a few techniques! He has a great sense of humor and is a very insightful person. I look forward to the day our paths cross again.

CozyCloud9
3 years ago

Kabocha is an extremely respectful and genuine soul and I am so happy I was given the opportunity to meet them. They are a perfect role-model of cuddle etiquette. Anyone could learn something new from him! They are kind and empathetic and a great conversationalist. I definitely felt comfortable meeting him and am happy to know he is a part of this community. 🤗

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