Age that professional cuddlers should retire at.

March 2017

I have noticed some professionals beyond their forties in this website. Personally I think that pros should be young women between the ages of 18-35. Agree or disagree?

Brandi · March 2017

There is a jack for every jill.

Brandi · March 2017

and age is but a number. Not to mention there is lottts of older men on here. I dont see anything wrong with older women. if you still got it, you go girl! lol

March 2017

You are certainly entitled to your opinion. And maybe I would feel that way if I were 28. But I'm not. I'm twice your age. I wish there were more women north of 35 on this site.

I will have more in common with a woman closer in age to me. We will have more similar life experiences. Our conversations have more potential because of that. We share many of the same interests in music, television and movies. Perhaps we have raised children or are in the midst of raising children and share that common bond.

I wonder if your comment has to do with physical attraction. I can understand how a guy your age wouldn't be attracted to a woman north of 35. But let me impart a bit of wisdom an older friend shared with me. "One of the good things about getting older is that older women become more attractive to you. All those little imperfections that come with age become unimportant. As you age, those women north of 45 start looking really good. And of course, the younger women still look really good too." I recognize some think physical attraction should play no role on a cuddle site, but of course it does.

Anyway, as opposed to your comment, I would love it if MORE women north of 35 were to join this site. I think there is more demand for more mature women than you think. I know I would be interested.

March 2017

I'm a younger dude and Bella6 is 41 and can contend with much younger girls in terms of looks shes gorgeous.

Looks aren't everything though so if they can provide a great session why not?

Brandi · March 2017

Yesss. See. he is said jack for a jill ^.^

docgatorb · March 2017

I don't know, cuddling is very hard work, those old people might hurt themselves, they should check with their doctor first or just retire on those great medicare benefits.

March 2017

^^ Lol. Nobody wants to cuddle a grandma unless she bakes good cookies and serves good coffee.

Brandi · March 2017

Rude, and Rude. But based off the other conversations and forums, you cant really see other perspectives so Im not surprised. :I

March 2017

I've cuddled a Grandma, she's pretty hot actually.

March 2017

Pic ^^ I want to see (:

March 2017

It's all about chemistry for me.

Heck, today I saw a mature woman with all-white hair at Whole Foods. She was voluptuous, stylish and obviously north of 50. She looked better and had a warmer energy than all of the younger girls in there today. Would love to cuddle with her and hear about her life.

docgatorb · March 2017

Grandma wins again! It's like the hare and tortoise race story.

greenearth2 · March 2017

Really age is a number. Limiting pros to young girls is kinda weird.

buffyswan · March 2017

Yes @greenearth and @Brandi . It's weird to limit by age

SnuggleWyrm · March 2017

Honestly saying pros should have an age limit seems to me like sexualizing it which is definitely not what this site is about. I think anyone at any adult age can be a pro.

4cuddles · March 2017

I'm not sure if this post or some responses were in jest...

Given some of members experience of feeling excluded based on their age. It's perplexing that this post was started. It's one thing to have an opinion but "shoulding" when pros should retire seems unfair as well as unreasonable.

One cuddler won't generate businesses for every pro so can't set the rule or ideal for pros. ..
To quote BrandI ".. a jack for very jill"!

If this was to provoke ..erm it slightly did.

One the age issue, I've found my own age limit challenged from reading on other people's experiences. I'm slightly more opened to younger buddies than I was.

So if this post wasn't in jest, guess I'm saying u may be surprised..

JFGreen · March 2017

Age is not and should not be a factor. It's all about attitude, openness, and caring. I have no issues with spending time with a 50+, 60+ or 70+ pro cuddler if she is warm, caring and cuddly. We need more like that.

March 2017

My pro cuddlers were different ages. The one was in her 30s others were like 19 and 20. The 19 year old was nice but seemed rrally young but the 20 year old seemed much more mature. So only a year different but very different experience. While the 30 something was very good at conversation.

March 2017

You can already filter according to an age range you feel comfortable with. Banning pro cuddlers because they're outside your particular comfort zone is completely senseless to me.

March 2017

Why would age matter? You mean if i were to seek out a young 22 year old I'd be thought of as a weirdo trying to relive my twenties. And if I wanted someone in there 50s because I can talk of music or find some wisdom, I'd be considered to have daddy issues. I suppose it's whatever human instinct you should act upon in a mature manner. If you are looking to cuddle some hot young thing then your homones play a "huge" (thats my funny remark, ha) part of why you are looking for in a cuddle buddy...you are looking for a potential life mate. If your level of comfort is a nice person consoling you for whatever the reason, I'd hope it was because of the mere fact that everyone likes to touch and be touched. Same reason you like to pet a cat or a horse or a dog and I'm sure you have preference on what type of animal that would be for your choosing. Everyone has a preference though. I prefer someone i am intellectually attracted to.

MsClickers · March 2017

You're never too old to cuddle

quietman775 · March 2017

OP's question reminds me of that song by the Who entitled "My Generation." In it, Roger Daltrey famously sang, "Hope I die before I get old." Roger is now 73, and likely has a different take on age. Christina Hendricks is 41, Tyra Banks is 43, Sofia Vergara is 44, Jeri Ryan is 49, Salma Hayek is 50, and Halle Berry will be 51 this year. If they were all professional cuddlers, would you turn up your nose at any of them for being over 40? I wouldn't. Now I'm gonna go watch Logan's Run. LOL

Scarlette · April 2017

I realize this is an old thread but I feel I must comment. I'm blown away by the ignorance of some people. This site is about positive vibes and well-being. It's about non-judgement and acceptance. To read women condemning other women due to their age makes me think they probably should re-think this profession. I've been a cuddler for a long time although I am new to this site. I am 49 years old and am a very proud "Grandma"! I am educated, loving and kind. In addition, I'm confident enough to post a real-life pic of me and not a pic of a drink. So to all you other "Grandmas" out there...Snuggle away!!!

Scarlette · April 2017

Oh and by the way.... I got 4 message within my first 10 minutes on the site with sessions scheduled. Just sayin'

April 2017

Nope. I once dated a beautiful woman who was 51. Age is not something that should be a factor here.

funandadventure · April 2017

@Scarlette, Dear Scarlette you go for it girl, I have purposely stayed out of this thread as it made me feel so ????????, I wonder what life will be like, when a vicenrian now becomes a septuagenarian in the future. One thing we all hope to look forward to is we get aged with fun and adventure.
By the way CuddleBandait is male and I think Annie put it in a nut shell trying to be a Shock Joc for huma.
Nice to see you on here, love and distance hugs from John and his trees, Auckland NZ

Scarlette · April 2017

I'm new here so I was thinking I shouldn't "rock the boat" on my first day but I'm glad I did! Thank you all for the comments and messages in support of us "grandmas". It would be a pleasure cuddling with you all. I'll even bring the homemade cookies! Lol

April 2017

Scarlette welcome!! As you can see for yourself, there are a handful of people who either don't have any clue how abrasive and off putting their comments are, or perhaps they don't care ( or maybe between them they think their odd brand of immature humor is funny to anyone but themselves?), but they are certainly not adding to the majority of awesome people in this community. I'm really looking forward to talking more getting to know you better in real life. The more I get to know the local people in Maryland and surrounding areas, the happier I am to know that we have a truly awesome group of cuddlers in this area!

I think it was an old lady who once said… if you don't have anything kind to say, kindly don't say anything at all.

Oh yeah it was my grandma. And as far as I'm concerned 104 years old and older is "old". Everything else is just a number, judgment or a lack of empathy toward your fellow human beings.

Peace and love to all of you non-haters out there.

pmvines · April 2017

We are only as old as our souls, not the skin and bones that we occupy

April 2017

@pmvines ... exactly!

I would love to catch up with you today after my three hour cuddle session this afternoon. Hugs my friend!

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