ahh.. I didn't demand anything and the last thing I'm doing is applying.. I'm not even a worker here. And um.. @Zundar, with respect to your age.. and please no I'm not here to argue with you, and hope you can grow into a great understanding of the world that has laid out a better situation for you.. you called the crazy card with a lack of understanding. This is a site owned by men, moderated by men, patroned by men, with codes of safety that have nothing to do with protecting people from assault that is directed at protecting patrons from credit card fraud (laying a foundation of suspicion on the workers/largely women). So.. my assertion that there is a gender bias, could be assumed to be true.. because this is the environment that.. you, for example, seem to be comfortable in, and it's not for me. I may get a kick out of calling it out, but I'm sure not resting in it.
@BooksnTeas Then get off the site if you don't like all of the men on here, the site being made by a man, and being run by men. Then make your own site that is only for women and see how that goes.
She is out of molotov cocktails so this is the best she can do
@camperdude989, notice the last resort you came too. If that was the answer, then there would actually be ways for women to thrive, but we live in capitalism, a complex system that needs a critical mass of people to shift.. no man is going to give up power, when they can force people to earn less on the dollar. And I'm certainly not put on this earth to make a cuddle site. I come on her now and find women to read stories with.. often people who also need to escape the stress, that this site isn't really helping them with (surprise?).. want me to leave them too.. or can I stop in there and chat about things instead?
I just want to say, I have a penis and it is great to have!
Penis pride peeps!
@BooksnTeas does it count for anything that more than one female on this thread has commented that they're perfectly fine with the current moderation status. And that they feel safe with the current leadership or are you going to disregard their input because it doesn't fit your narrative ?
@hugonehugall, no it matters. I'm wondering if they would have moved my suggestion to a separate thread without informing me, and then retro informed me, leaving no mention of it on the original thread.. but yes it matters. I think they should get paid for their input, but.. you're right, that's my narrative, I'm grossed out that the owner, moderator and terms of service are all male centered. Additionally, I have read complaints from women that were disregarded.. I've seen requests on the prior thread that were not taken into account.. if they were, this would be more representative of a space that is designed with the sensitivity of what women in general experience. @snuggleme123 , I have zero problem with male anatomy, it's generally your minds that I take issue with. But touche on the molitav coctail comment. You're right, I waste my time here. In my defense.. we all gotta blow off a bit of steam somehow, and this is better than reruns for me, whenever I do stop in.. though it can get addictive and then I stop for months.. it's one of those things.
@BooksnTeas
This is a site owned by men, moderated by men, patroned by men, with codes of safety that have nothing to do with protecting people from assault that is directed at protecting patrons from credit card fraud (laying a foundation of suspicion on the workers/largely women).
The site doesn't collect payments from clients on behalf of the pros here. It's on the pros to collect payment directly from their clients, and they're later charged for booking fees. Pros are allowed to accept any method of payment they see fit. Also, nobody is forced to operate as a professional cuddler on this platform.
I'm wondering if they would have moved my suggestion to a separate thread without informing me, and then retro informed me, leaving no mention of it on the original thread..
It wouldn't be the first time. Normally, when I see a topic develop into its own discussion in a multi-topic discussion, I split it off into its own discussion without warning.
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@BooksnTeas: Rather than long for the day when this or (m)any other male-owned platonic cuddle site is “turned over“, perhaps you should just start your own and do whatever the hell you want with it without any interference from the peanut gallery. If Mark - I don’t even know the guy - isn’t deserving of that much from you, then why do you continue to torture yourself and some others with your misery? Someone warned me privately about you months ago, but, I don’t visit the forums often enough to take it as the gospel truth. But, after reading your comments and responses today😬
@RTL1970 I don't think that @BooksnTeas is going to make her own site. There would be no penis swinging men to yell and bitch at!
hahaha! ahh... rtl, the forums are for upsetting just the kind of men I don't want to have a connection with anyway. Barring one exception, who can probably vouch that when I'm one on one I don't talk about these things at all, so.. it's just for entertainment. Camper, not fair game, remember you're very young.. Im going to let you take some time to learn, I really am trying not to respond directly but you are being quite the problem towards me, and that's your initiative, I'd appreciate you backing off.. But.. for the record, bitch is a gendered insult.. try to stay away from it. There's no such thing as reverse misogyny, so don't go there. And once again, I do not mind mens bodies.. you need to understand that.. you're confusing things.
@BooksnTeas The last time I checked I can say whatever I want because I'm protected under the 1st amendment (free speech) in the U.S Constitution! It doesn't really matter if the word bitch offends you or not. Plus, you are not that much older than me. If you were 80 years old. Then I can see. I like learning about history. I've been to Auschwitz concentration camp in Poland. I would go back to visit to learn more. My grandparents worked on a slave labor farm in Germany during WW2. So you don't know how good you have it in the good ole USA!!! Both sets of my grandparents came to America after the war and made a good life here! So you don't know what I know about things. You have to open your eyes and learn.
hon, free speech and hate speech are not supposed to be the same thing.. but that sure is an american idea, this is true. But it's not something we need to keep, and it's not something that more civilized countries conflate. It's clearly causing some problems.. I mean.. look what you just tried to stand behind. Come on, kid, please please please just stop.
You don't have to agree with hate speech. I don't like it either but it's still protected under the 1st amendment. Other countries that don't have the right of free speech and other freedoms that we have. They either get imprisoned for speaking there minds or sometimes they get put to death.
That's it for this discussion. The last few comments have veered off the intended topic.
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