I've been on CuddleComfort for almost 3 years now. I am a typical non-pro male cuddle enthusiast who has cuddled with dozens of women pro cuddlers (and they have only been pros, I wonder why $$$$). I love and am fond of each of them, but at the same time know better than to get too emotionally invested into any of them, especially since there's money involved.
Before I get into this, I want to point out a couple of things:
This is not my real account. This post could get me kicked off CuddleComfort and I don't want my real account getting banned and to lose all my karmas.
There are some women who are really good at cuddling, and I can see why they charge for what they do, because they are prominent figures in the community and their service is just that good.
I understand a lot of women are hesitant to want to be engaged on a platform like this and meet up with other guys they don't even know. It's a scary world out there and a lot of guys can be shady. They don't know what these guys motives are. Women may fear for their own safety and lives when it comes to meeting men on here that are total strangers, wondering what if I get kidnapped, what if he might god forbid try to murder me. So trust me, I get all that.
Now, here's where I have a problem:
I joined CuddleComfort to find a good, solid, non-pro woman to cuddle with on a regular basis. For as long as I've been on here, I have not found that. A method I've heard quite often is to book sessions with pros and receive karmas. The more you have, the more trustworthy you might seem to be to non-pro women. To no avail, still have not been able to book a non-pro woman.
As I mentioned earlier in my post, I'm using this backup account because I don't want my real account getting banned and to lose all my karmas. But then again, why would it matter even if my real account DID get banned? Acquiring good karmas hasn't helped at all to entice non-pro women so it really hasn't done anything for me.
Here are rough estimates of CuddleComfort's "demographics":
99% of the men on here are non-pro enthusiasts.
95-99% of the women on here are pro cuddlers.
They're not exact, but you get the idea, you get the trend at least.
Why is this? Why do so many women want to get paid to cuddle while the men are willing to do it for free, or even pay for it? Why do women have this kind of power over us?
I'll tell you why. Because when all these women sign up, they think that they can all become "pros" because they see all these desparate suckers on here like you and me that are willing to fork over our hard earned money on here for something that is supposed to be a mutual feeling. Men like you and me are desparate suckers. We see these videos on facebook and other social media that manipulate men about how great cuddling is and its "health benefits" and all this other stuff. Is that stuff really true? Or have we been fooled into believing that we "need" to cuddle? For all these years before I even joined CuddleComfort, I've never been in a serious relationship or even knew what it was like to cuddle. Was life perfect and was I happy? No, but I always got by just fine.
Cuddling is supposed to be a mutual feeling, in which neither party cares about money. Or at least that's what I've always believed. But instead it has become a business. And CuddleComfort should be ashamed of themselves for enabling this behavior. Us men are being manipulated, we are being taken advantage of by these women, and we are just blindly allowing ourselves to be robbed and this to continue. This is not what I signed up on here for.
If women really wanted to cuddle as much as us men do, don't you think there would be hordes of them on here willing to do it for free just like us men are? And I know I pointed out earlier how women may fear for their safety and lives when it comes to meeting strange men on here, but there ARE a lot of women on here (albeit 95-99% are "pros"). And no, the reason why women take money for this is not because that's the price men have to pay for how risky of a business this can be for women. Money is not a factor when it comes to the potential dangers of meeting strange men on here. If a man has bad intentions, no amount of money you charge is going to save you from that. That's what exercizing good judgement is for.
And to the guy on here that made the post in the forums on here the other day, saying "I'll give $10 to the first 10 women on here that message me. Buy a cup of coffee on me! It's my way of giving back and saying thank you!" Dude, where is your dignity at? You don't owe anybody ANYTHING. What has this site given to us? It's we that have given to this site, our hard earned money, or at least 15% of the money that we just blindly give away to these women like candy.
And I understand this site DOES need some form of revenue in order to keep themselves financially afloat. But how much do they really need for that? CuddleComfort is making a killing off of our wallets. If they really cared, they would find a way to try and bring in more women that only want to cuddle and it not be about money, but they've shown me that they really don't care. CuddleComfort sees how vulnerable we are and are laughing at us, all the way to the bank. They’re doing absolutely nothing to bring in non-pro women cuddlers (if they even exist) and only care about profiting off the men who are just blindly being other women’s ATMs. Shame on CuddleComfort.
Let me ask you guys something: what are your goals in life? What do you ultimately want for yourself? Chances are, if you're just like me, you don't want to just continue to fork over your hard earned money to cuddle week after week, month after month, year after year, with no end in sight. You would eventually like to find a girlfriend/wife, but that might also be difficult for you. I just want you to know that I see you, I feel your pain, and you're not alone.
While I wish I had the answers, CuddleComfort is NOT the answer. They are crooks, a scam, and a conspiracy.
If we, the silent majority (men) all stood together in solidarity and said "You know what? I REFUSE to be anybody's ATM anymore", imagine what we could accomplish together. It would at least be interesting to find out.
And if you are offended by anything I’ve said, then I am offended by the masses of men on here who do not question the way we’re being treated, manipulated, and just flat out robbed.
And I will conclude by saying this: if it really IS true what is said about cuddling, that it has all these health benefits and lowers heart disease or whatever, then as awful as this might sound for me to say, I think I would rather die of heart disease than to continue to be somebody's ATM and be stripped of my dignity. Knowing that women don't want to cuddle with me unless I pay them money. Just think about that. We shouldn't have to pay to cuddle. It shouldn't be a crime to have to want to cuddle for free, but apparently it is on here.
No woman wants to cuddle with you unless you pay them money. Just let that sink in...