@craig12345678 ~
How sad and small and alone you must feel to be acting in such a way. I hope you can find a way to dig into that pit of pain and use it as fertilizer to grow.
~QL🕊
As much as you think you are one of the best options for enthusiast women to choose for cuddling, maybe you’re one of those “nice guys” who thinks you’re amazing but this “1-5%” of enthusiast women see through that. You wouldn’t see that though so You assume women should flock to you. It’s certainly not up to the site to force women to cuddle you. If they don’t want to cuddle you, don’t blame them. If you don’t want to pay a pro anymore, then I guess you have no options. Start looking in the real world. With COVID I can’t see any good results, but you’re choosing a bad time to say women should view you as a perfect cuddling specimen. You clearly don’t want to be on this site anymore and trying to be some kind of leader pushing all the men to agree with you isn’t going to happen. You aren’t the only one to feel the way you do but the reason people say you are acting entitled is probably because you’re splashing anger towards those who aren’t at fault and assuming you’re owed the world because you’re a “nice guy” that’s good looking. If you’ve given up on the premise of this site and have lost patience, then leave. Stop creating new profiles to troll and force others to have the same views as you.
@Sheena123 Right? An truly decent guy doesn't expect anything in return. Since he's not posting from his real account, it's clear he doesn't want people to see who he really is. It's hard for men to get attention on sites like these, so I like having the option of paying a pro.
Not trolling. I’m trying to make you guys open up your eyes and make you all realize that we’ve been fooled and cuddling is a lie. If it wasn’t, women would want to cuddle just as much as men do and for free, and I wouldn’t be here in the forums protesting.
@craig12345678 What you are doing is the definition of trolling. If this site isn't for you, then leave. Cluttering up the forums with your bickering isn't going change anything.
@Mike403 you say “the option of paying a pro” like there’s really any other option at all. It’s sad how you’ve been brainwashed into believing that it’s ok for you to fork over your hard earned money for something that’s supposed to be mutually enjoyed. What if you didn’t have money? What would you do then?
@Sheena123 You are a pro that gets paid to cuddle. You don’t understand the monumental disadvantage me and thousands of other men on here have to deal with. How would you feel if you had to fork over $80/hr to cuddle? Let’s see you do it! And to anybody reading her comment, THIS is CuddleComforts true colors! All I did was simply exercise my first amendment rights to expose CuddleComfort for what they really are, a BUSINESS, not some warm friendly inviting utopian community that they advertise themselves as with endless possibilities as an enthusiast. I mean she even said so herself! “If you don’t want to pay a pro, then leave” which basically equates to if you can’t pay a pro because you don’t have any money, then leave. But I’ve seen this for a while now, all I did was expose it
@craig12345678 Why aren't you posting on your real account? If this is how you feel, you shouldn't care if you got banned. Every website on the internet has to generate revenue somehow. Even dating sites have fees attached to them. This site makes their money by collecting from pros. Where I live, there is a 50/50 split of pros and non-pros.
@craig12345678 plenty of women want to cuddle. For free. Just not with you. That's what you are mad at. Not the fact that @Sheena123 and other pros are on here. Its that they are on here and aren't chomping at the bit to spend time with you . And why would they ? You are seething with so much animosity . I cant imagine how anybody would find that appealing. The problem isn't that there are pros on here . The problem is that you are mad about not finding a non pro. but again I ask , why would a non pro or a pro want to spend time with you when you are acting this way ?
@pmvines I doubt a dog would want to cuddle with him.
@Mike403 never doubt the power of peanut butter and belly rubs
@pmvines ~ So true and I'm one of them!!!
@Mike403 & @Sheena123 ~ I totally agree and hiding behind a fake account is all kinds of wrong - IMO!
@craig12345678 ~ What you're really exposing is that you're unwilling to consider a point of view that doesn't somehow frame you and other men as being victims of women and the CuddleComfort community at large.
You came here by choice, you've expressed your displeasure, people have weighed in and things will be remaining as-is for the time being and into the foreseeable future.
Right now you're again able to make a choice - Stay or Go. It really is that simple. At this point, your staying shows you wish to be a part of this community as it is. If you go it shows the opposite. But either way, choose and make peace with it.
Bye Felicia
@quixotic_life Actually he's just trolling. If he had a genuine concern, he would be posting under his real account.
@craig12345678 "if a woman wants to cuddle, I like to believe that I'm among the best choices she has out there."
You have chosen to make a new account ( or more ) so as to make statements from a hidden identity, with the intent and result of deceiving anyone who only knows the "public" face you show.
Cuddling requires mutual trust. What other deceptions should a cuddle partner expect ; perhaps that your expectation is non-platonic ? If a female were interested in appearance and the other characteristics you mentioned, they'd probably be on a dating site instead ; and maybe you'd have better luck there.
If a non-pro female asked you for a cuddle session, would you admit your deception to them ? What if someone that I try to connect with, thinks I am the author of your secondary account, with those unpublished views ?
CC doesn't promise a cuddle buddy of a specific gender. Most men choose to cuddle platonically, with someone of the same gender as they would choose for a sexual relationship, but say that the two are completely different experiences ; I've never understood that. I'd rather go without, than cuddle with a man, but that's my choice ; and probably yours.
I don't get non pro women wanting to cuddle with me either .... I assume it's my looks ... My musical taste , the fact that the big toe on my left foot is bigger than the big toe on my right ... I don't know. But I'm blaming anyone.
@hugonehugall lol it’s definitely your taste in music 😹😹
@hugonehugall based on your profile pic you look pretty damn majestic!
@Sheena123 Thought so ... No one appreciates the classics anymore
@pmvines I'm sure the fact that I identify as an ancient pyramid does bother people
I'm just gonna say it - I can voluntarily clean a stranger's toilet, walk their dogs, drive them somewhere, or cuddle them for free but if there are people who will pay to have someone do this service and I can earn money doing it, why would I do it for free? This is why you see more pros.
"smear poo" @pmvines heehee
I hear the frustration. It's not really too much to ask to want to find someone who wants what you want. However, I'm not sure what CuddleComfort can do for any of us besides provide the platform. CuddleComfort can't keep us women safe and non-groped. CuddleComfort can't help me screen to find someone who really is interested in platonic cuddling (the latest one didn't want to continue chatting with me if I didn't want to chat in a racy sort of way - so freaking sick of this crap on a platonic site). CuddleComfort can't make sure everyone has a buddy.
As for the pros - bravo. They have entered an arena with a lot of demand for something that nonpro women don't have the stomach for. I sense you have no idea what it's like from a woman's perspective, which is why you sound entitled. I think the reason @pmvines is popular on this site is partly because he really gets it, sincerely and honestly and earnestly gets it ("it" being things from a woman's perspective). That goes a long way.
Damn right you'd have to pay me to cuddle whoever messaged me.
I want to see his real profile so badly...