My first cancellation

[Deleted User]Unknown (deleted user)
in Pro Cuddling
I was set to see my 20th pro cuddler today but she text me late last night and cancelled. She has no karma and previously had bad karma for a no show that was removed. I decided to give her a shot anyway. She was super nice in messages and texts. I'm disappointed because I can only host a couple days a month, today being one of them. I reached out to a few other pros this morning and none of them are available so my available host day this month is most likely wasted. Do you all think I should give her another try in the future or does it sound like bad news? 

Comments

  • timmyleftwixtimmyleftwix
    It would be nice of her to offer a reschedule at a slightly discounted rate. If not maybe it's just best to move on. 
  • MailleweaverMailleweaver
    If her reliability doesn't match the limits of your schedule and you already have others whose reliability does match, then don't use her. That's not a judgement of her as a person; it's just practical scheduling. Other clients with more flexible schedules can give her a chance.
  • [Deleted User]Unknown (deleted user)
    edited April 2017
    Like said above :
     I  believe it says in the cuddler contract , that , should the cuddler , cancel within 24 hours , we ask that a discount be given on the next scheduled session . That's not word for word , but something like that . Doesn't specify how much of a discount , sounds like something you can work out . That is , if you want to .

    Since you didn't incur any damages , I say no harm no foul . Does sound like a habit is becoming , with this pro , cancelling sessions .
    Me ? I would see if the pro would do a discount , for a future session , since you like her messages .  Never mind the pattern Of cancellations , it was what , two times ? This could be accounted for : first time she had a bad day ( what's wrong with that )
    second time with you it was just the "luck of the draw", that she had to babysit something , the day of a cuddle .
    Propose the discount , an unacceptable answer would be " oh no I can't do that "
  • [Deleted User]Unknown (deleted user)
    I ended up having another cuddle session that day with a girl that I met offsite and it was beyond amazing. She charged me $80 for one hour and stayed for over two hours at no extra cost. I'm completely over the girl that canceled. I'm not mad at her but if she continues to cancel on people, she will be eventually get bad karma or will be removed from the site. I'm over it though. 
  • [Deleted User]CuddleBandit (deleted user)
    Here's the thing that I don't like about pros. They want to butcher you when you even mention the word cancel, but it's alright for them to cancel all they want. I suggest that you don't reschedule with her again. Teach her a lesson. 
  • BrandiBrandi
    Ive had several no shows and flakes but would never expect an extra tip or something... It really is a common occurance on both sides. Sorry that happened to you though.
  • [Deleted User]Unknown (deleted user)
    "Teach her a lesson"

    wow. 
  • [Deleted User]Unknown (deleted user)
    I really don't think that me not booking her again would teach her any kind a lesson.
  • [Deleted User]Unknown (deleted user)
    Also, just to clarify because it was asked of me privately. When I said I met a girl off site, I meant that I did not meet her on cuddle comfort. 
  • [Deleted User]cntrydance68 (deleted user)
    edited April 2017
    I was supposed to have someone from here come over Wednesday morning at 10am.  She didn't show and didn't message me letting me know.  I saw that she logged on about 3 hours before our scheduled time.  I still haven't heard from her.  Oh well, life goes on.  I just hope nothing bad has happened to her.
  • greenearth2greenearth2
    Flakes make me sad.
  • [Deleted User]TeYa (deleted user)
    Curious... are you guys only having contact through email/text or actual phone or skype/facetime conversations before you meet?   I think it helps to have actual conversation.. more personal and only speaking for myself I can usually get a better sense of a person after a live conversation. Sorry you had that negative experience :(

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