I always wear a bra under my shirt
...and Superman wears his underwear on the outside and Batman wears his on his head.
@Mike403 I prefer "the confused" to "the creeps." IMO, they are mostly human men doing their best to connect, albeit in conditioned wonky ways that don't generally work for women on a platonic cuddling site. @geoff1000 References to severing men's genitalia elicit cringing and deep sadness in me. How about just gently and firmly educating, redirecting, setting boundaries or keeping distance as a start? We don't need to violence men any more than they've already been violenced. I hope this tendency for you to advocate chopping is not a reflection of your own feelings about your manhood. If so, mercy there dude! You guys are alright. Just need some education and redirection and well, maybe some therapy. Occasionally incarceration. @FishCuddles @FunCartel hee hee
@littermate - It'll be kinda weird if there was non-human men contacting you.
@littermate I did once think relationships would be much easier, if we men could sometimes leave our genitalia at home ; like putting one's cellphone and car keys in a locker, before ice-skating. It saves getting distracted, and reduces the risk of harm by carelessness or stupidity.
@geoff1000 - If we left it at home, how would we pee?
@Mike403 Like the girls do. Not so easy outside on a cold day. If "Mulan" can manage . . .
@Mike403 Haha. I'm just talking about fallibility. I'm open to cuddling platonic respectful aliens though if they should inquire.
@geoff1000 Well, an occasional curbing of the sex-focus might serve ya'll well when approaching and relating with us, but sheesh, where would we all be without the glorious boner? None of us would exist, except perhaps the test tube babies among us. And curbing and chopping are two very different things!
@littermate Perhaps some kind of bayonet or screw fixing ; like for light-bulbs, or multi-head gardening tools.
I remember a woman suggesting breasts should be inflatable ; one size for jogging, another for when applying for a loan at the bank.
Maybe psychological control is best. As an analogy ; we like our security forces to be armed, perhaps even when off-duty, but we also want to be sure their weapons will only be used when appropriate.
@geoff1000 - Breasts are like toy trains. They're meant for children, but grown men wants to play with them anyway.
@Mike403 In the movie "Witness", Harrison Ford is trying to milk a cow, and the Amish elder is laughing at his poor result. "Haven't you ever held a teat before ?" "Not one this big."
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@geoff1000 Hmmmm.
I feel uncomfortable when I’m asked if I live alone. Enough info can be found on my profile that will come close enough to answering that question. It makes me wonder what they have in mind that no one else can see?
I can think of valid reasons to ask, but it still makes me feel uncomfortable.
@ebnb As an recluse introvert I get that. It’s enough anxiety meeting someone new to cuddling and vulnerable, but with more unknowns increases the anxiety. On the receiving end, completely justifiable to creeped out or worried. Can’t be too safe especially when it comes places like this.
If only there was some quick way to prove intentions. But then life wouldn’t be the challenge it is.
Do we have to wear clothes? Some sort of sexual interaction even though it may not be penetration 😝
@geoff1000 coworker that literally gives a screw to all new employees ...hilarious 😂
@AlecAwesome introvert here too. That would be a cool superpower, not only for protection but also for giving and receiving insight.
The trouble with one's intentions being visible, is that there are many points on the range. If I'm cuddling with someone, my mind might wander off along a non-platonic path ; but that doesn't mean I have any intention of starting the physical walk along that path.
@geoff1000 I’d be happy with knowing just the initial intention.
@geoff1000 You make a good point there!