Sounds like this activity should be on page one of "Cuddling for Dummies".
@geoff1000 why you romantic you.
@Sideon nailed it!!
@BrianL a scalp massage. Still amazing.
While I don't have any hair due to shaving my head, I still LOVE having my head rubbed and caressed. I also know how much many women enjoy having their hair stroked as well.
@cuddlestogive how do they get through your red pointed hat ?
That’s actually kinda what happened with me. I was touch-starved for so long. Then I had a friend who would scratch my head. It felt great, but not being used to touch also meant that I was extremely sensitive. It felt so good, but it hit me all at once. Kinda like when you don’t eat anything for a bit and then you eat something sweet and your taste buds get overloaded. That’s how it was for me anyway
When I’m laying on someone and they play with my hair I feel cared for and cherished. Just like you stroke an animal to love it, I feel noticed and appreciated when someone takes the time to tend to me that way. It’s a passive way of communicating an otherwise intangible connection. I like feeling like the person stroking my hair would protect me, just like I’d protect a pet or child that I’d have lay submissively in my lap as I stroked their hair.
That’s just how I feel when it happens the right way.
@PlayWithMyHair Sounds like you picked a good username. 👍😀
I used to enjoy being a taxi-driver, when people would tell me exactly where they wanted to go, because it was then easy to make them happy. "Just drop me in town", was too vague for me, especially if I then watched them walk off to a place that I could have taken them.