Opinion.

Andy1996Andy1996
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So I would like the communities opinion on this. So one of the things that I enjoy doing during a session with a Pro cuddler is having my teeth rubbed.
Some of the people that I have met with have been OK with this. While others either have not been OK with it and block to me. I understand that some people may have felt uncomfortable. But I was willing to explore other options with them if they were not feeling comfortable with rubbing my teeth. My question is if you were asked to do this, would you do it? Also I would provide gloves to the cuddler.

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  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel
    edited December 2020

    Well, goodness gracious. That is unique. I think all you have to do is ask. The answer will be yes or no most likely. I would think that some would. I know of some cuddlers who do about anything to make their client happy and that request seems within the TOS.

  • FlyingToasterFlyingToaster

    For some things that are not so common, like that, it might be good to develop a good rapport with someone, if possible, before mentioning it so they get to know you better and understand you aren't being creepy.

  • Andy1996Andy1996

    I have definitely can met with some that have been willing to do this. In fact a few weeks ago I met with one who actually was nice enough to provide snacks in his truck.

  • quixotic_lifequixotic_life

    Huh...? Would I rub someone's teeth?

    In order for me to consider that desire reveal/request would have to come once a decent amount of rapport had been established. And even then might laugh, thinking you were joking.

    So I agree, give it a bit, and for sure don't lead with that.

  • Andy1996Andy1996

    Thank you all for your comments so far. Usually I let them know that I would like to do this a couple of messages in after I have introduced myself. And when they say no I usually ask them if they are interested in exploring other ideas

  • misternatureboymisternatureboy

    Do you take your teeth out or leave them in?

  • Andy1996Andy1996

    No, my teeth are permanent.

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    @Andy1996 Was Hermey your favorite character?

  • littermatelittermate

    Now I have indeed heard it all. I never knew there was such a thing as rubbing someone else's teeth. I personally wouldn't be into it, but I applaud you for putting it out there and for finding people who are into it. Bravo!

    For me it's kind of the same as how I like my pets - fuzzy. I don't want an iguana. Same with cuddling -- I'm in it for the flesh against flesh, not the flesh against teeth. Even though many of you will respond to this with, "Huh?" I'm leaving it here because the weird way my mind works making associations is quite entertaining for me and I might just meet my weird-brain-soulmate if I leave it up.

  • Andy1996Andy1996

    @littermate. Most of the people that agreed to do this for me I’ve been very nice about it. Believe me, it is not something I share with everyone. Because of things like judgment and rude people that are close minded. But I feel like in this community it is a safe space for me. Do you think I should be careful?

  • LyleLuvsHugglesLyleLuvsHuggles

    Well I mean it's not the weirdest request I've heard, so I guess I could wrap my head around it... dammit now I have pondering to do. sigh

  • supernova22supernova22

    I'd be down 🤷‍♀️ why not. It's definitely unique though and i understand not everyone might be here for it, it's not a typical part of cuddling. May I ask what satisfaction or pleasure you get from teeth touch? I'm curious this is news to me

  • [Deleted User]AshleysEmbrace (deleted user)

    I agree with @quixotic_life in the part where I'd probably want to build a rapport before I felt comfortable. I already felt eased up when you mentioned gloves. It's definitely different.

  • hugonehugallhugonehugall

    @Andy1996 Not sure if you’ve been keeping up with current events lately but to catch you up to speed there’s a whole damn pandemic going on right now so sticking fingers in some dudes mouth is probably not going to be at the top of a pro cuddler’s to do list

  • Andy1996Andy1996

    Whenever I do with this I always make sure to bring a pair of gloves with me and hand sanitizer

  • SashamcgeeSashamcgee

    That's definitely a new one. I'd be curious about the intentions behind it and the type of benefit you're receiving from it. The definite only way I'd do it is if I was in a committed relationship or if I happened to be a pro being paid for the encounter, even then I'm not sure.

  • Andy1996Andy1996

    @supernova22. It is a form of sensory stimulation.

  • Mike403Mike403

    You must look forward to going to the dentist.

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel
    edited December 2020

    Sounds like you are taking care of all the safety precautions Andy. I would just avoid any cuddlers who indicate they are a proctologist. Would hate to see leftovers from that job on your teeth.

  • LyleLuvsHugglesLyleLuvsHuggles

    @FunCartel it could be worse you would not believe some of the things I pull out of the machines at work lol (of course they make us wear LAYERS of gloves, mmmm kevlar)

  • Andy1996Andy1996

    @mike403. I do like going to the dentist.

  • pmvinespmvines
    edited December 2020

    No I wouldnt do that for somebody and you likely aren't having as much luck as you would like.because something like that can come off as a fetish type behavior and also does come across as kinda weird.

  • Andy1996Andy1996

    When I have met with someone to do this I always make sure to ask them if they are OK with it.

  • Mike403Mike403

  • quixotic_lifequixotic_life

    There's supposed to be someone for everyone right...?

    My favorite cringe inducing weirdness request, was an ask to use my tummy as a pillow, while probing my belly button with their finger. Lol! No thanks, but good luck buddy.

    And no I didn't report him, because who am I to judge what others find comforting and maybe there'd be someone here down to participate...

  • [Deleted User]Mmart (deleted user)

    @Andy1996
    Not anything I would be interested in doing or having done but I respect other people's choices.

  • LyleLuvsHugglesLyleLuvsHuggles

    @quixotic_life Okay the tummy pillow I get that's comfyness right there, but the belly button thing? Yeah that's a bit odd to me lol

  • CuddleDuncanCuddleDuncan Mod

    Weird?? Unusual, perhaps ..... but if you think teeth rubbing is weird I .... can only congratulate you on your ignorance. And why would you say that to somebody who has come to the forum in good faith to ask for help?

    Anyway, congratulations @Andy1996 on maintaining your composure in the face of such an unpleasant comment.

    The belly button thing sounds like it might be a recreation of a childhood experience. Not in a cuddling context, but I have come across quite a number of people who like belly button fiddling - that's completely ordinary. I can see why you might not want to do it in a cuddle session though.

  • LyleLuvsHugglesLyleLuvsHuggles

    @CuddleDuncan yeah that's why I said a bit odd. I've certainly had much stranger requests, and that's not even counting things that would SHATTER the tos lmao

    Not from anyone here obviously as I'm new lol just to calm anyone's nerves at that comment.

  • CuddleDuncanCuddleDuncan Mod

    @NightShift39 I genuinely laughed out loud - well ok audibly chuckled - at your use of capitals for SHATTERING the TOS! =) =)

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