@Blue54 are you ok with your potential cuddle partner leapfrogging from women cuddler to women cuddler even pro cuddler then when he feels like it he will cuddle with you ?
I was two feet tall, when I was a baby.
If this community does not want me because I view cuddling differently than you do as a community, Then I am happy to show myself out.
No, no, no, please stay! I think it's much better with you here. (And I truly mean that, I'm not being ironic!)
@Blue54 there are many walks of life here for various reasons . Even those of us who might get a little heated with each other on the forums dont actually dislike each other and have respect for our humanity , at least that's the way I feel about it. There is nothing at all wrong with your view on things and I appreciate your presence.
Seconded.
And if @pmvines and I are agreeing, then .... well then it just has to be true.
@CuddleDuncan just dont let it happen again ok
@Blue54 - I think you're awesome. Don't let anyone bring you down just because they don't agree with your opinion.
@Blue54 I think your viewpoint and opinion is valid, and I hope you find what you are looking for.
@cuddlerforu24 I am not a big fan of the “leapfrogging” from provider to provider. However, I understand that people are always looking for the right fit. I’m definitely not interested in one time cuddling with someone. And if someone I cuddled did become close as a friend then I would ask if they wanted a different type of relationship. I know myself. I struggle with jealousy and feelings of never being picked as someone’s friend. I feel left out a lot.
@Blue54 Frankly I fragging LOVE your attitude. People who are just blunt honest and completely themselves are a rare thing in my little world and I cherish every one of you I come across.
And the struggle is very real for the tall women, at 5'8 I'm the runt in my family most everyone else is 6'2 and up (women included my aunt Rhonda was a moster at 7') so I've seen it first hand most of my life. I'm sorry your having a rough time right now and agree with other comments I'd miss you if you left.
Alright everyone. I wish you well. This is not a place I feel safe to express my needs without attacks or the ability to defend myself. Goodbye
I'm confused. It looks like almost everyone here is supporting you.
Thank you . Good answer
@NoThankYou
I feel like the gentleman here still don’t really understand what I am expressing. Let me show you someone who has been trying to communicate with me for the last seven-ish days.
What exactly makes you think men don't understand this? Believe me, 99% of women are terrible communicators too. The vast majority of my communication with women on dating apps has consisted of her giving me one-word replies and putting zero effort into the conversation. (And then disappearing on me after 3 messages.)
I only want to cuddle one friend at a time
Honestly it sounds like what you want is an exclusive romantic relationship that doesn't necessarily include sex. Which is fine, but I don't think most people on this site are after exclusivity.
No confusion here. This was apparent early on that you were dealing with someone who didn’t want to be fixed or understood and was perhaps misanthropic and reveled in it. What I did find interesting is how much rope many of the males allowed this poster when if it had been a male poster they would be saying “just stop”. There seems to be a suck up mentality among many of the males who stop calling a spade a spade if it is a female. At least @hugonehugall and @pmvines had their critical thinking caps on. But it was an interesting case study. I think the thread should be closed now.
FUN CARTEL HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD!
@FunCartel - It was her own thread giving her own opinions. You didn't have to agree. It wouldn't have matter if it was from a male or a female. It would have been different if she was hijacking somebody else's thread.
Closing this thread per multiple reported flags and requests to do so. Folks, lay off the personal attacks and baiting. Thanks, and have a nice day. [-Sid]