That’s pretty wonderful @Envie the fact that you travel twice a month (I don’t even travel twice a year lol) shows that your life is an adventure! What has been some of your favorite places you have traveled to?
I’d say go for it @ buy a mobile tiny home 🏠 the word will be your backyard : )
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Thanks! I feel life is too short to be stationary. Right now I'm enjoying Miami FL ( I love art deco and art ) St Pete is a close second.
Chicago architecture is unmatched as well as the ridiculous diverse people I met there. The food... Well... 🤤🤤 Tampa for the empty theme parks and no lines. Cincinnati for the incredible people I met while there.
I think a tiny home is in my future for sure.
Hey I'm in St. Pete lol and tiny homes rock I've built 3!
I travel for sessions as often as possible. It’s fun to get out of town, explore new places, and meet/snuggle with new faces.❤️
@NightShift39 I love that story! Thank you for spending your break writing it!
I've never travelled for cuddles. I do know that when I'm in Mexico, the culture just generally feels more physically affectionate, and that's one of the reasons I like it there.
@Envie yes I would love that too! If I had an rv I could cuddle everywhere 🤩
@xelda you're most welcome, I'm rather fond of it as well. Lol It certainly contributes heavily into the pulling my of teen aged head out of my rear in regards to how I view and treat women. The fact that it set me down the path of cuddle life is just a happy bonus, because looking back I REALLY needed that wake up call smfh.
@NightShift39 tiny homes rock .. yes they do . A couple things that rock a tiny home I’ve noticed ..
Cooking odors seem to permeate every nook and cranny of your rockin crib
Laundry closet noises too .
And the best part is , your sitting at the dining room table with everyone else at your tiny thanksgiving feast , someone gets up and walks two steps to the bathroom door , and shuts it and goes about business of course all the noises escape farts and flushes and then relieved person comes out of course all the smells come out too lol
@cuddlerforu24 Well to be fair as in all homes you get what you pay/prioritize for. Noise reduction in a tiny home is very achievable, it's just not very cost effective. Sound dampening materials that WORK in such small spaces are pricey. In a full size house you can just at a half inch of space to the walls and used formed styrene sandwiched with foam matting. (Which also does WONDERS for your energy bills) tiny homes require a denser material due to lack of space, though you can SOMEWHAT reduce the noise pollution by simply filling all the walls with spray foam. Adequate ventilation of the restroom (and just in general) should be in the top of your list of considerations in such a small space but I find most adventure hearted people tend to choose less practical but more fun things to focus on. Honestly a well planned Mobil Tiny Home should be built on a big enough trailer to allow for an out door cooking space, but that's just my opinion.
@Nightshift39 agreed . Small house savings ( less taxes, less heating costs) put that into structure , close fitting solid core doors helps, do you eat a lot of eggs ? Save the egg cartons their shape alone attenuates sound waves you can use that as wall infill . Start off on the git go at design stage , don’t place utility rooms that will communicate directly with public living spaces . Yup small house rocks
I have traveled for cuddles! Usually not super far but a few hours away it’s nice meeting new people.
!! Question for anyone who can help give me some advice!! I have some one I'm currently thinking of booking my appointment , he lives in another state from me and said to come see him he would purchase tickets for me to go to him ( which is so amazing) but I don't feel comfortable giving out persont information for him to book the flight himself ... How do I go about this??!
@Emmmy24 I would have him identify the flight he recommends. Then ask him if he’s willing to transfer funds for you to purchase directly, explaining that it’s a matter of safety and personal security. There’s no way to purchase a flight these days without revealing personal information. If he declines, then you’ve probably saved yourself from an uncomfortable situation. It’s important to proceed cautiously and with a healthy dose of skepticism. Of course, I don’t know the level of communication that’s taken place between the two of you. But I hope it’s a whole lot.
That's a tricky one @Emmmy24 I'd have to be VERY comfortable with someone to give out that info or send money out. Of course if I'm offering to fly someone out to me in the first place I likely feel a pretty solid connection. Suggestion, have them get a prepaid card and give you the details for it, that way they can dispute any charges that are not said tickets and at least maybe get the money back a safety net of sorts for both of you. (The swerve amex cards at Walmart for instance can be used right out of the box with out filling out all the sensitive info online) hope it works out for you guys and a great travel cuddle story unfolds!
To be honest , if you are concerned about giving personal info then how is it that you aren't concerned about getting on a plane and flying out to I presume the home or hotel for what I presume is an extended session or overnight or possibly longer of an internet stranger who you are concerned about giving your personal details to ?
They likely might be using miles/points to book the tickets, and giving your info out is inevitable. Just be very thorough in your communication before hand. If I’m comfortable enough traveling to someone for cuddling, I’m comfortable enough with them having my info too. I’m actually much more comfortable with that than with people locally having that info. Haha. But if he’s comfortable enough with you, he may not have a problem sending you the funds to book your own travel. You can always try that route first! It may help flush out any red flags.
I have and planning to again in the near future to see a very talented and sweet cuddler.
Yes, I'd travel to cuddle.
I’m afraid I cannot since I must stay at the manor I work at.
@1hellofabutler You work at Wuthering Heights?
@Emmmy24 Ask yourself why someone would fly you out to them when there are likely closer and cheaper options? You're new, he knows this by seeing your join date. I'd definitely question motive here and it goes beyond him having your personal information.
Treat cuddling just a cautiously as you would with online dating.
While I do travel, I do it on my own dime. It keeps me in control of my settings and not at the mercy of a stranger.
Please reach out to me if you'd like some tips on how to navigate traveling safely.
@Envie Sage advice yet again. I am beginning to think you are the wisest person posting on these forums.
@FunCartel i 2nd that!
@FunCartel Awe thanks, wisest not sure about that. Lol There's some truly smart and wonderful pros here that would have surely chimed in the same advice.
Usually when someone offers flights , accommodations etc to a newbie it's because she's seen as potentially naive and easy to bait.
I used to be an art model and traveled the country extensively. I learned very quickly that photographers who wanted to fly out models when they have girls with the same look /rates/ experience in their own backyard usually, not always , had ulterior motives for such proposals. I heard a few too many horror stories during this time to know if it's too good to be true, it is. The same rules apply to cuddling.
I would not travel just anywhere for a cuddle. I am always open to meeting enthusiasts in the Cincinnati/Northern Kentucky area when I’m over there visiting family. I usually go for about 4 days. That’s more than enough time to visit immediate family, attend a single extended family gathering, and even see my two childhood friends who are still there. I’d love to meet an enthusiast in the remaining time than just sit around with my devices and watching TV with my parents.
I was last there from 6/27-7/4/2020. Due to draconian COVID restrictions in my state that won’t be out of effect in time for 12/26/2020 I canceled my flight originally scheduled for that day. Now I won’t be over there again until next December since my parents are coming to visit me in my chosen area in the summer of 2021.