Is Cuddle Comfort a place you keep to your self as your little secret, or do share it with friends / family /significant other ect?
Depends... it is just for me but for safety reasons my sisters no where I am. I vet like everyone else but it’s initially scary meeting someone you don’t know in their home or hotel room.
Completely understandable @lovelyhugs : )
I’ve told some strangers online about it, plus just one in-person friend who I know won’t tell anyone. Aside from the one friend, I haven’t told any close friends or relatives.
I haven't mentioned it to family or friends (not sure how they'd react).
Thank you @HugAnEwok
I get it @FlyingToaster ... i know exactly how they’ll react : )
I keep it secret from most.
I have my safety check ins with a couple different friends before/during cuddles.
Recently had to “come out” about my cuddling to my brother because my other safeties weren’t available. he was not pleased.
Which is why i keep it secret.
I don't keep the fact I cuddle any kind of thing remotely approaching a secret. where and how I meet some of my cuddle friends I don't share that, or who they are. Not everyone is comfortable with people knowing their business and I respect that. Also trying to explain to your typical guy that yes s/he did spend the night/weekend with me and no we are not sleeping together (like that at least) is just a headache I'd rather take a pass on.
Hate to be that guy, just am recommending OP to search the forums cus there are a few really recent threads about whether you tell people about cuddling etc . Okie carry on
@pmvines thanks for pointing that out, im pretty sure it will be inevitable for me to ask something similar to what has already been asked before. when I make a post/thread it is literally of what I’m thinking at that very moment, not because I’m trying to disregard another thread that might be similar/ or even at some point the same ... if I have to search to see if a question has been asked already, I may get lucky & find it right away or it may be time consuming , I’m also sure that there may be a post/ thread that may inspire something I want to ask ect, but again it is just my thoughts at that very moment, plz feel free to skip over my thread in such case.
@introvme no worries and I'm not complaining I have enjoyed your threads and the participation. I was just pointing it out in case you weren't already aware that you can search different topics on the search button so if you are curious about something, or if you want to continue an already existing thread by adding to it. Carry on.
@pmvines as you were... soldier, I thought you meant it the same way you described, but I felt that sooner or later I will eventually make a post that is similar or the same as one that already exist, so for purpose of understanding & avoid a repetition, I decided to clarify... & thank you soo much I really appreciate that @ enjoying my threads & participation, I figured I’ll try to make the best of it /fun / & interesting since I’m here 🍻 👊🏼 You’re kindly dismissed.
My family and friends are fully aware and are very supportive albeit they think it is strange. lol
If my dad found out that I paid to cuddle someone, he'd disown me...lol
I love being a cuddler! I cannot hide something that brings so much light to another persons life.
@Mike403 i really wish there was a way to like a comment or give ‘best answer’!! lol I’m totally with you there! Some of the reactions I’ll get from my circle of friends/ family ect (in no particular order) are as follows- 😅 / 😂 / 🤔 / 🤦♂️ / 😬 / 🤣
Everyone i have met on here already knows.
I definitely keep it a secret. I would feel weird seeing anyone I know on here. Now if it happens accidentally then it is what it is. But I like to feel that this is my safe escape. If I knew someone that was in the same type of situation I found myself a couple of years ago, I would def share to help that person possibly find what they need emotionally/psychologically.
I don't keep it a secret, but I'm not out telling people unsolicited either. Not that I've cuddled anyone from here.
I keep this a secret from everyone except my closet friends.......
I keep this a secret from my cuddle partners that I find on here.
I haven't told this to family or friends because I don't think they would understand since they are all in relationships or married and I'm not.
I have told some and some I never will because they assume it’s anonymous sex.
Most people have never heard of this....and sometimes can assume it's one thing which it isn't...
@Invisible_Touch @FunCartel Yeah, it might be good not to tell cuddle partners on here that we cuddle..
I tell family, friends and strangers, I mean when it is appropriate to do so. Never had a bad reaction.
The only people I don't tell are clients, and that's only because as a matter of policy I reveal to them a lot about my character, but almost nothing about my lifestyle or circumstances. I want to be very present with them. Who am I, in the room here and now, is very important: but what I did at the weekend is not.
