When setting up or seeking out a cuddle do you prefer to be guest / host / public or hotel & why 🛌

cuddles_ndreamcuddles_ndream
edited December 2020 in General

Everyone has their own place of cuddle preference & the reasons vary .... this is true regardless if you’re a fellow cuddler seeking out a cuddle / pro or enthusiast ... some prefer to be guest / others host / some public & others prefer to get a hotel room for the time. For me it depends on different variables, so there isn’t 1 single answer for me, i would say it is circumstantial, what about you what’s your preference & why?

  1. What is your cuddle location preference?38 votes
    1. I prefer to be guest
      52.63%
    2. I rather host
      26.32%
    3. getting a hotel room
      18.42%
    4. Public
        2.63%

Comments

  • LyleLuvsHugglesLyleLuvsHuggles

    This is very situational for me as well. First meetings are of course public that's just a given, everyone needs to feel safe after all.
    I'm a traveler by nature so hotels have seen at least half of my cuddle meets, not everyone has a home situation that is conducive to cuddle sessions. I my self live in a rougher neighborhood.
    While I may be a decent enough guy, most of the time. I look how I look, live how I live and tend to show up places in leather and on my bike so I fully understand people preferring I not show up at their home lol
    That being said when I had my house I was happy to host when possible, and I've never minded being hosted by others at their home. (I'm equally socially awkward anywhere lol)

  • cuddles_ndreamcuddles_ndream

    Thank you @NightShift39 for the insight, your first responds are always appreciated lol 👊🏼

  • LyleLuvsHugglesLyleLuvsHuggles

    Well you know what they say never be the first to eat the red berries, berries buttons all the same to me lol besides it's my first friday off in a year and I have no life what else am I gonna do lol

  • cuddles_ndreamcuddles_ndream

    Lololol I hear ya 😝

  • TheMidnightOwlTheMidnightOwl
    edited December 2020

    Video first, then public, then host or guest for subsequent meetings depending on various factors. Trust built over time and awareness of gut feelings and looking for any red flags. So I’d prefer to be the guest until trust has been built but hasn’t worked out that way so far. I’ve always been host so far after public meetings.

  • Sheena123Sheena123

    I put host. I’m happy to cuddle anywhere, but it’s a lot easier for me to cuddle in my own home. I can set up the room how I believe it would be comfy for my cuddler, spend less time driving and my cuddlers don’t need to put money towards a hotel. ☺️

  • LyleLuvsHugglesLyleLuvsHuggles

    Yes when I've re-stabilized my life and build my next dwelling I'm totally putting in a cuddle grotto lol

  • SideonSideon

    For me, I like to meet in public first. If we both want to move forward with cuddling, I prefer a neutral place like a hotel.

  • Sheena123Sheena123
    edited December 2020

    @Sideon oh yea definitely prefer to meet in public first! I love to give a free half hour or so right before the cuddle session to see if we feel comfortable with each other. A nice little ice breaker ☺️

  • LyleLuvsHugglesLyleLuvsHuggles

    Yep first meetings MUST be public in my book.

  • cuddles_ndreamcuddles_ndream

    @EGio @NightShift39 @Sideon amazing answers ty!!!!

  • [Deleted User]vernnyc (deleted user)

    So far I have only really cuddled at cuddle parties. These are nice because they establish rules and a safe space up front.

    If I were to do something other than that I would like to chat and meet in public first, and then maybe try a neutral space to start. It might take me a little while to graduate to hosting or being hosted in someones home.

  • LyleLuvsHugglesLyleLuvsHuggles

    @vernnyc a perfectly reasonable outlook and response to the situation:)

    @introvme ya gotta stop thankin me mate I just tell it as I see it, But I thank you :) It's nice to know not everything bouncing around the squirrelicane of my think meat is COMPLETELY insane lol

  • [Deleted User]CuddleMeLater (deleted user)

    It's interesting to see how many prefer to meet in public first, even apparently pros and clients.

    Of the dozens of people I've met from this site (all pros), none has been interested in a public meet beforehand.

    In general I prefer to host. But I'll be a guest if that's her preference.

  • herby357herby357

    Public cuddling and cuddle parties are not for me.

    I look for pros with health care or holistic healing backgrounds because they generally view cuddling as I do, a therapeutic pursuit. And most of them host.

    I have hosted at a Hotel on occasion as I'm currently in a community living situation and prefer peace and quiet for my sessions...

  • [Deleted User]tjalex (deleted user)

    I'm open to whatever. Whatever makes the other person comfortable. If we meet at their place, I just want it to be safe and clean.

  • [Deleted User]APV (deleted user)

    I like to host the pros and I’d gladly host an enthusiast. When she met me in 2018, @MissX found it interesting that I live in a rented RV full-time.

    Even if I pull off my goal of purchasing a mobile home in my chosen area, I plan to continue hosting cuddlers there. After all, I’ll own that place 😎

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