The Perfect Opening Message

CuddleDuncanCuddleDuncan
in Professional Cuddling

Professionals, please will you post an example - real or written by you - that you have/would like to receive as the opening message from a prospective client.

The idea is to create a little library of perfect messages so that new members can see what they are supposed to write. Thank you.

Comments

  • Sheena123Sheena123

    This is one of my fave ways to receive a message. In this pic I’m attaching, this person introduced themselves, said hello, explained what he was looking for in a cuddle, gave me dates and times that worked for him, gave me a little compliment and answered a question on my profile that’s at the very end. Now, I have a very large profile. Some people don’t like that but too bad. Lol. It answers a lot of repeat questions I get and working in two different locations makes it more lengthy because I have a different cuddling situation in both places I live. By him answering the Pet question, it showed me that he had respect for my long profile and took the time to either fully read it or at least skim through. That means a lot to me. A lot!

    I would say this is one of my best opening messages I’ve received from someone who was an incredibly respectful cuddler!

  • CuddleDuncanCuddleDuncan
    edited June 2023

    This thread is about initial messages to professional cuddlers.

    Here is a link to a different thread about initial messages to enthusiasts:

  • xandriarainxandriarain
    edited June 2023

    I like this one, its short, sweet and to the point.

    • the name is blacked out for confidentiality
  • ArmsWideOpenArmsWideOpen

    My preference is to receive a message with a name, photo, Booking Proposal, date, and how many hours.

    Client:
    Hi, my name is _____.
    I'm interested in cuddling with you in the evening for 2 hours. I have submitted a Booking Proposal, but if the 14th doesn't work, i am also available on the 15th.
    I don't have a profile picture, so have attached one here. I prefer CashApp.

    Optional: I love when a client provides me with a little insight to what brought them to Cuddling. For example:
    -- I am a recent empty nester, and really miss being held tenderly by another.
    -- I am married but lacking affection.

  • NatureLuv47NatureLuv47

    Second that @ArmsWideOpen has given as an example.
    I prefer a message with a photo, name, brief intro to what they're looking for in a cuddle session or what drew them to my profile and a clear booking request with dates/time options they're looking for. It helps me understand them better when there's a little context or conversation!

  • LadyVelLadyVel

    Best message is one where they introduce themselves, list possible day(s) and/or time(s) they are considering as well as possible session duration. What type of session (if they are hosting, public, virtual). Include a recent selfie, and tell me a little about themself.

    Example of a message I received:

    Hi Kat,
    My name is _____. I live in (outta state) but will be in Nashville next week for work. I will be staying in a nice hotel near the airport.
    I really liked the (content) of your profile. I have Wednesday evening Jan 13 where I have time to cuddle next week. I wanted to see if you would be available and interested in cuddling that night?
    Btw here are some recent pics of me.

    Nice and straight to the point. I don't mind chatting with people and I would still exchange several more messages outside of this but it helps keep from wasting their time if I'm unavailable during the days they are considering if they have a small window of time (like with travelers).

  • WestsideMarcWestsideMarc

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