Women, do you consider offers of massage from potential male cuddlers a good thing or do you consider it a red flag that they are looking for more than cuddles? I’ve seen a few guys mention in their profiles that they like to massage women while they are cuddling, women tell them they are good at it, etc. OR I’ve had a guy, in maybe a second message, tell me that he’s interested in doing mutual massage. That message was accompanied with a shirtless photo which made an even worse impression.
Personally, because of my life experience with men using offers of massage as a means of seduction, I distrust any man who says he’s looking for platonic cuddling and brings up massage. Sorry, guys, but I can say that every single man who has ever offered to massage me was looking for lots more than massage.
I’m wondering if most other women feel similarly or if I’m just more cautious than most after all those past experiences?