The last of my couple of RL friends have almost ceased to exist. Trying to hang out with them is as bad as trying to find a cuddler here. I have had an ad on CL on and off for most the better part of last year looking for various but mostly hiking buddies. I've gotten very few responses and most of the ones that I did get were lonely women that wanted someone to talk to and not actually hang out and do anything.
I put out an ad this past Friday and I have already gotten three emails already. The difference was I posted in the male section instead of the female. I have yet to write these men because I'm a bit intimidated as I have never done this before. All of my male friendships have always been organic, and as I've aged, mostly through work. I don't know how things are going to go with this experiment. And if there's some interest on here, I'll keep you updated.
What I am saying is, maybe we do need to stop depending on women so much. Maybe part of the problem is we are always running to them. Then crying about how they mistreat us and take advantage of us. Before I get flamed by women, other than guys being pervy, what other complaints do you have about men? I don't really see a hoard or angry women on here. And quite frankly, this message is not for you anyways. What is really clear to me is there are plenty of lonely guys out there wanting friends. And maybe they lonely because they too have always tried to find companionship in women. I will certainly ask at one point.
As I said before, I can't claim 100% success but I've certainly seemed to have gotten more of a response from my new ad. I invite other guys out there to give it try and let me know what happens. Because you are going to be highly disappointed if you think that you are going to find a cuddle buddy here without paying for it. Looking forward to Morpheus' response. lol