How do you end your session?

So I've had enough visits to different pros both who work on the site and off site to notice all sessions are ended differently.

I've had good experiences to where time is up and while my cuddle time is over im given a final embrace. I change into my street clothes, given a bottle of water and a final hug on at the door. I don't feel kicked out but I don't linger either.

All the way to watching a movie during a two hour session and there being 8 minutes left on the movie and im booted out instantly as the timer rings. To everything in between.

I host the majority of the time and for some reason, pros don't seem as in a hurry to leave when they're at my place. When I go to a pros house however, they generally boot you out the instant the timer goes off... kinda like there's the door, don't let it hit you in the ass on the way out. This is one of the reasons I prefer to host.

There's a pro in LA who after every session will post a pic on social media of all the money that clients have given her and make crude comments about them.

greenearth2

What the heck ? That's kind of rude.

Woah that went from 0 to 100 real quick. Holy moly @Morpheus that's.......I don't even know what to say about that...like...what? Who does that? 

Side note: Do you think ending the session by instant teleportation is a bad idea?

Well there's a pro in LA that does that lol and I'm not the only one who has seen it.

@Victoria92 has been trained by goku and puts her fingers to her forehead and teleports out after a session ahah.

Ninsiana

I wish I had instant transmission xD, or any ki base power in that regard. But yeah, I would say a natural de-escalation of the session should occur so it feels as natural as possible and not like you are kicking the client out the door. That is just plain rude

4cuddles

Erm the detailer of client's payment etc isn't still working as a pro? I hope!

I'm actually confused how someone gets away with that. In disbelief with too many questions..!

Well the reality is the cuddler has every right to send you on your way once the time is up but it always feels a little crappy to end a good thing. If there's 8 minutes left in a movie you're watching though, I would like to think she would let you finish lol

That could have been solved if the timer started after changing and laying down not entering the room. But hey we have plenty of others to choose from.

Ninsiana

I dunno, it would make me feel crappy, and the last thing I would want to do is make someone else feel crappy.

I've been curious about that @Alternis - when does the clock start?  When you walk in the room? Or when you start to cuddle? If it's at 1pm do you show up at 12:55, get ready and THEN start?  That'd be ideal.

I had a session one time, actually it was a double cuddle. We put in a movie and with about 20 mins or so left in the movie the timer went off and they paused the movie. I was then escorted out and they continued watching the rest of the movie without me. That is NOT a good way to end a session.

Ninsiana

I dunno, just surprises me that there are some pros out there that are so rude and discourteous. The fact we are offering a paid service, we can at the very least show basic courtesy and respect in ending a session. I understand that it is business, but in a business about customer service and satisfaction, you gotta live up to some basic expectations. Like people generally want to feel appreciated and cared for. Hastily leaving someone or kicking them out, to me, is always I uncalled for. I probably sound like a broken record at this point lol xD

I feel like a broken record too @rei that really did happen to me though

4cuddles

I agree with Morpheus, curious to hear from pros who finish exactly on time.

(8 mins to a movie aside) I'd find it more confusing if a pro is flexible with time. It would cause an expectation for that flexibility all the time which would still feel crappy, the day they actually adhere to their finished time.

The temptation to try to push further and further for a delay would be too strong (An issue that could become hard to manage since there is a pattern of people wanting pros to be friends etc). The flexibility MAY be led to more dissappointment in the long run than when someone becomes familiar with the routine of the specified routine. (Kinda of reminds me of the importance of time boundary with a therapist)

I think it's more on HOW the session ends than WHEN it does.

Sorry @Masterofcuddle, @Greenearth and I didn't mean to kick you out before the movie ended. We can have a re-do anytime. Let's fork ;-)

Can I join? I prefer chopsticks.

4cuddles

Is it me or everyone talking about food related things?

Yes you can join @alternis....my first 4 way cuddle lol.

@annie85 Mmmm eating buttered muffins with chopsticks....

4cuddles

Masterofcuddle. I will reserve my comment for when u have man flu. I'll cry a river for now over a lack of muffins (American or English version)!

@alternis Just imagine, you are cuddling with someone on the couch. You are completely relaxed into them as you watch tv. Suddenly you hear a *DING* and the side that was once as warm as the noon day sun goes cold as night. You feel the air brush against your skin as you slam into the couch. The person who you were cuddling with is no longer there. They had vanished into thin air. OMG I JUST THOUGHT OF SOMETHING!!! 
How to know your S/O is a super hero:
1. While cuddling you will feel sudden chills on this/her side for only a brief moment.
2. They wear clothes one size too big.
3. They often try to look natural and fail.
4. You have to sew on new buttons to all there collared shirts

AutumnLovesYa

@Alternis Thant sucks! I'm sorry that happened to you! For me personally, I don't use a timer. I don't think it is necessary. There is a clock by my bed and if the session goes over 10-15 min then oh well. Lol  I think pro cuddlers shouldn't be in such a hurry to kick you guys out. Especially if the session was hosted at their house. You guys spent the time, gas, and money to see them, at least they should be respectful towards you. I appreciate and respect each of my clients and I think they should do the same.  

Ninsiana

Gosh, I always get hungry when @Alternis, @masterofcuddle, @greenearth, and @Morpheus are on a forum...too much food and forking lol xD.
But, you do have a valid point @Annie85, how you end as opposed to when you end is more important. I was stating my time restraints for me personally. I am not too picky about exact time

@Rei You think @Alternis, @masterofcuddle, @greenearth, and @Morpheus are bad, have you seen @chococuddles' posts? All he talks about is food. It's ruining @Annie85's life

Ninsiana

@Victoria92...I know >.< I am dying every time I delve into the Forums. My unending hunger can never be vanquished...ehhh. like pizza and cuddles sounds so effing amazing. You see, I am morbidly obese in the inside lol.

How do I like to end my cuddle sessions?  One time I ended it with a triple Linde off of the foot of the bed. I stuck it too. High marks from the judges. 

snuggle554321

LOL OK.  You guys are crazy! LOL  so funny! HUGE HUG!!!!