Why Are The Guys Here Wanting A Booty Call???

Hi everybody. Im joining Cuddle Comfort for the second time since last year. Ive spoken to five different men. The men I spoke to wanted to show me pics of them nude after a few messages or want to come over after saying "Hi". The latest guy was wanting to meet me and NEVER asked my name or anything. This makes me feel that the majority of men are ignoring the key aspect here...to just cuddle and make a good contact of being friendly and watching a movie or chatting with the cuddle time. I, as a result didn't meet any of them for a cuddle.
Im open to hearing from anyone who wants to talk.

Mailleweaver

There's always going to be a few of those no matter where you go, and it only takes two or three of them to make a dozen so they'll always seem overwhelming in numbers. It's sad for the rest of us that they chase off decent people. Either do your best to ignore them or report them; that's the only way to win against them.

Block and report

Mailleweaver I didn't think of reporting them. That is an option though...Alternis,I am not a professional.

Reporting any kind of scandalous behavior like that should be reported.  Probably before blasting men on here.

Over-generalizations never do anyone any good.

Best of luck!

greenearth2

really!?
You have guys messaging you for sex ?
Did you report them ? I mean the admin is very fast at banning people like that.
Reporting them will be more effective than this general post aimed at noone in particular.

Yes please report and they will be deleted

The two sexes have a lot to learn about each other. Both genders are completely different. I am used to seeing on Tinder and dating websites, "not looking for sex", "no hookups" on women's profiles. If it was women wanting sex and not men then that would be an interesting alternate universe. 

The point a few of the guys were trying to make in the comments about is that lostsnlkke this lead to an over generalizing of people, namely the men on the site. Posts like this really do no good. As the guys above have said, it's best to report anyone that's inappropriate and let the admins of the site handle it.

@Spiritbaby Please change the title and include the word "some men" instead of generalizing all men. 

Ninsiana

Most of the guys I have talked to you have been very respectful and kind, the admins do a great job at trying to insure the respectable individuals are on the site. Definitely report and block any kind of contact like that. It only takes a few to have a negative impression, which I am so sorry you had to endure . Met a couple of those kinda guys too. One was too much, but he was taken care immediately. The admins try their darnest to keep this site legitimate...as the cuddle industry already has a a somewhat shaky image.

@mark can close this one too

Seconded @mark y mark and the funky bunch. Feel he vibration! Cmon cmon. Sweeet sensatioooon. Don't be coy. You know you danced to Marky Mark back in the day. 

I wonder why the men are using intimidation and stating I have no right to speak on my experiences? I do have the right. You can't tell the admin what to do and what posts to close down.

greenearth2

Hmm what men are using intimidation and saying you don't have the right to speak ?
Just as you have the right to speak we have the right to comment and say this post is not very helpful or useful.
Reporting the users who message you would be more effective.

@Spiritbaby What was the point of this thread?

To be heard? To complain? To get attention? To get an answer? Congrats, you got all of them.

It's important to have a voice but please be careful about who you throw under the bus while you're voicing your opinion. The thread title alone gives the site and the men on CC an undeserved bad rap.

I don't see intimidation, I see people asking you not to over-generalize. Which you did.

Thank you ^^ Choco (: 

@Morpheus Agreed. Mark should close it or delete this. 

Doesn't look like like Mark agrees with you guys :-)

Mark

It doesn't matter what website you go on, there are troublemakers. Anyone joining and making non-platonic requests will be banned very quickly once you report them. They are absolutely not representative of this community.

Please report them and you will be helping this community greatly. Thanks & closing.