Would like to have my hand held someone to be nice to me. Seeking a platonic companion whom I can pay hourly to do either. No sex. I'm married, also ugly and crazy and lonely.
So confused
No worries! Everybody has to start somewhere. 🙂 Basically you can use the Cuddlers link at the top of the page to search for folks to seek a platonic companion. You can filter by min/max age, gender, location, or numerous other criteria. There are both pro cuddlers (who charge hourly rates) and enthusiasts (non-pros who cuddle for free) that are available. When you find one who interests you, you can click on their profile and send them a message.
Here are a couple of resources on how to get started:
How The Site Works FAQ - General
Good luck and feel free to post any follow-up questions or if you need more help figuring out how to get started! Happy cuddles! 🤗
@steelmarshmello As The Cheshire Cat said, "We're all mad here." @KingsportCuddle linked the best resources.
Being "ugly" doesn't matter on this site, because it's about platonic cuddles! Being "crazy" doesn't matter, unless it's the harmful crazy. And we are all lonely here. Welcome to the community!
What @Jova114 and @stormydaycuddle said. It's also worth mentioning that there are numerous cuddlers who are married.
You may also find these threads useful:
How To Choose Your Professional Cuddler
The Perfect Opening Message (to a professional)
Ten Things Your Professional Cuddler Wants You to Know
How to Save Money on Professional Cuddling
Just be clear on why you are here with yourself and your fellow cuddlers when you reach out to them. The rest has already been shared by the community. Oh don't get emotionally attached to Pros.
^^^^ what he said. volunteering at community events also helps loneliness. Sometimes.