@CuddlesWithCat Make a police report if you can. Feel free to DM me if you need to vent.
Please don’t tell victims how they should respond to assault. Not sure how I put that the first time. I hope this is clearer.
yes, this is why I do not have a lot of cuddles either.
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@RozByAnothrNaym Me too. 😊
Blahhh dude smelled like he never brushed his teeth. He basically kept trying to touch me (also an older East Indian male) in my ears and between the legs, chest. I told him no multiple times.
@CuddlesWithCat 🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮
Then he was like ok, and then started saying how he wish he could do xyz.
With that DUMPSTER you call a "mouth", Dudebro!? EWWW! 🤮🤮🤮🤮
I want to smash it
@CuddlesWithCat Hopefully over his head! 😠
@CuddlesWithCat Definitely sorry about that happening to you, and yeah definitely revamp your Safety Protocol routine and vetting too. 😊🫂
I reject a lot of "cuddle offers" because of horror stories like these that I have read here and elsewhere. Be safe out there! 🙏💗
I thought about it but I have no info about them nor proof and as someone who’s tried to report someone for the same behaviour it didn’t go to court..
@CuddlesWithCat How I vet and MY WAY of doing Safety Protocols, is I chat with them on CC for a few days usually the chatting doesn't last no longer then a day. I also don't keep "intiating contact" either.😏 Conversations are a TWO WAY STREET with me, therefore they have to put in effort to stay in touch with as much as I do. Period! 😁
Usually after ONE DAY of messaging, they vanish and I am good with that. Therefore I delete their messages and move on with my life! 😊
If they appear (usually 2 weeks later, 6 months later...Lol! Seriously they have "reappeared" like this after lengthy periods of no contact 😆) after I deleted said previous message exchanges, I don't bother responding back and delete again and continue to move on with my life. 😊
Now if, and that's a BIG IF they manage to stay chatting with me here on CC for a few days WITHOUT DISAPPEARING then I will ask about exchanging phone numbers...Like that's a BIG IF, as most don't CC chat with me longer than ONE DAY! ☝️😊
So we continue on chatting offline, if it gets weird offline on their end. Then I can just simply block them, but most of the time they just disappear altogether any way...Which is still good! 👍
Now others has suggested video chatting before meeting, I don't do that. I suggest meeting somewhere PUBLICLY FIRST, after we exchange face pics and first and last names. 😊
I don't ask for pictures of driver's license either. Nope, don't need to know all that info, as I prefer to host from my home. And before we meet up, I send their face pic and name info to my Safety Call Person which is usually my Mother. 😁
I can count on Mama, to take that info to the cops if anything bad ever happens to me due to my CC in-person connections here. 😊
Mama will avenge me! ✊😁
Lol. 😆
Again this is how I DO it, plus again I reject A LOT of "offers", it's okay to reject offers to. I go with my gut feeling so yeah, I DO reject a lot.
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I don't know if you are a Pro as I have not looked at your profile. But I'm an Cuddle Enthusiast, I don't get paid so it's easier for ME to reject. 😁
Many have rejected me, again another win-win. Lol! Take a win-win whenever you can get it.
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You can take some tips (from my way or not) to sorta "perfect" your own Safety Protocol Plan and vetting process... Either way, just be safe out there! 😊🫂
very good info, thanks so much
I filter out the ones with ill intent before a session is even booked. I stress the session is strictly platonic and that prior to a session etc, I require a photo of them holding a sheet of paper with my name and today’s date on it. Those without any photos, must send me a video saying my name and this day’s date. Those with ill intent always refuse and always have the same excuse saying for their professional reasons they can’t send any photos or videos.
@EarthGoddess Good plan.
Those with ill intent always refuse
Yep, always refusing don't they? 😆
and always have the same excuse saying for their professional reasons they can’t send any photos or videos.
😆 Oh it's definitely either "work related" or "marriage related"... Lol! 🤣
@EarthGoddess Right, and if they refuse to adhere to MY vetting and Safety Protocols with their tired excuses. Then we're not cuddling, simple as that! 🤷😊
People should respect boundaries always, but at the same time there are a few pros that break those rules and give a bit more to customers and then they expect the same thing from other pros. It happens, just report them either customer or pro. Same respect on both sides. For the ones who cannot follow those rules, there are other web sites for that.
Thanks for the advice. I should meet people in public first beforehand. I thought of it but let my guard down. We talked for a bit before. But not as extensively.
I’m a pro by the way. 💙
This is so true!! I almost deleted my account two days ago because of this! It’s all over my bio,. Reiterated multiple times and still it’s “let’s see what I can get away with”
@EarthGoddess great ideas. I get people on apps outside of here that want to chat. They never want to video chat.
I’ve even been sent really bad videos of a prerecorded fuzzy call.