So, yes there's a separate topic asking 'men, why won't you cuddle with other men', but this is a different spin on it. The topic focus is on men, but everyone is free to share their thoughts.
The gist per the other topic was...well there were a lot of different reasons. But some of it comes down to preference, and natural attraction. Sometimes bad experiences.
But here's my thoughts, I'm currently of the same opinion and feeling that my preference, at least for long term cuddling, is just with women. I can't say I feel comfortable much cuddling with men (intro hugs are fine), though on the same token I've never been much into contact sports, and my general experience is not receiving much physical affection in general.
AND YET, I noted a couple of guy's profiles on here, and some expressed their desire for cuddling, and how it helps lift them up and prevent depression, etc. Scientifically, there is proof that human interaction is important and has various benefits (oxytocin...and maybe like helping prevent illness, etc), and in general for myself, it helps me feel loved and connected. The point being, that even though it's not my preference, I can understand the need for cuddling, and that it is a pretty difficult thing to come by at times, and I personally feel like everyone should have a friend and feel loved.
That said, let's start a brainstorming session. I imagine most of us guys probably feel similarly unease with the idea. In spite of this, is there a cool, 'manly' or otherwise acceptable way that we could for longer periods, platonicly 'cuddle', or just physically interact, with each other / strangers? It's less socially common for sure, and bc of this men particularly have a hard time finding positive, platonic physical touch, at least that's been my experience.
A hug can be a good way to start, maybe an extended shoulder to shoulder hug, but more physical interaction between men will probably feel less weird if it's more brief. Keeping that all in mind, maybe there's like a sport or something that fits this bill?
Like playing catch and making it a point to high five each other on a regular basis throughout. That would have the added benefits of learning football skills, being kind of father/brother figurely, but then also get some positive and encouraging physical interaction. I'll brainstorm some more, but if you have ideas, or if you hear one and (as a guy) you're like "yeah, I'd be down or cool with that", feel free to add a comment.
Maybe like freeze tag and/or two hand touch football (but non-competitive and with no tackling in mind). Would other people in general (as adults) still be up for meeting for simple fun like freeze tag?