Why is it that you tell a man that you don't do sex or making out.. he doesn't want to cuddle.. are you ladies have sex with these men?
Report those guys. They're at the wrong place and they get banned pretty swiftly. Many guys are truly here just to cuddle.
Heck naw we not putting out. They will gaslight you to think everyone is doing it. Report them to keep us all safe!
@CuddlingRed1970 Report them. You can do it right from the message page.
They will try to gaslight you just stand firm with your boundaries and tell them you only work under the rules of CC.
Although, I'll say it's still a surprise to me when I go to my inbox and see someone who was chatting with me and following all the rules are suddenly banned🤦🏼 but it happens pretty frequently. I'm just happy I didn't meet them.
I wish you luck!
Yes. Please stay safe and reinforce the boundaries and get these boundary crossers off the site.
@CuddlingRed1970 Just a suggestion so please take this with a grain of salt, but I had a look at your bio and this line stuck out to me as something that may be giving clients the wrong impression: “ P.S. I'm a curvy woman...I do offer an overnight session.”
While I totally understand that you don’t mean it suggestively, creepy men will absolutely see that as an opening to see what they can get away with. Not your fault at all, but it may be helpful to restructure your bio so that mentioning you’re curvy and offering overnights don’t seem related.
But yes, like everyone else said: REPORT!!!
@CuddlingRed1970 I am very sorry that such bad behavior (that would get any of us banned), has been part of your experience here. And sadly, that the women I have had direct interaction with here have all told stories of having had to report people for similar, or worse, infractions (you are not alone). You'd be doing us all a favor by reporting him. But if you're unsure, after reading the posts here, what the next best steps are for you, I invite you, sincerely, to send me a message (I have visited your profile, so you're welcome to do so), and we can walk thru your choices (and even solicit more feedback from additional members, who might not have had the time to read your post). If you think it would be helpful. While I will support you, whatever you choose to do, isn't it important for all of us, of every preference and gender, to support the CSA (here) and be explicitly clear in what we post and share, that we are here to have platonic experiences, and that any manipulation, overt or otherwise, to promote romantic or sexual motives will not be tolerated, by any of us? Because, at the end of the day, if we're not all safe, doesn't that negatively impact every one of us? Thank you for having the courage to be willing to share so honestly. 🙏
Thank you all for your help. I have went in a redid my profile. I hope it's better.
@CuddlingRed1970 I would like to believe the majority of the Pros are not including sex with cuddling services, BUT I have been chatting with a few Pros who have been banned which makes me suspect they weren't following the TOS and probably offering "extras". A Pro has never disclosed that she has, I am just coming to my own conclusions. I agree with others, that some clients want to push boundaries and make you believe that other Pros are breaking the rules which may not be turn. The best way to proactively keep this space safe for all is report them. I hope you meet better clients.