I disagree. Cuz lots of time i realized the other side experiences temptation so i will never go over 3 hours. Plus overnight is just too much and i am already in relationship and my boyfriend is aware of everything. I would feel guilty if i do overnight cuddle. That is special and only for my boyfriend. I honestly also don't know cuz I never tried it.
I would think morning wood would be an issue.
Wow it took over 30 posts to arrive at that! Got to be a record!
@OhioMike I know right. ?? Why do we not have a boner thread stickied yet on the general forum? Jk only a little.
Oh no, this thread is about to be closed.
I have to say yall have open my eyes on this topic since i been thinking about hiring my favorite pro for over night .
I dont sleep well alone due to my depression and anxiety. So i truest the pro i have hired meany times. She like my bestfriend that lets talk and dont judge me for me a Otaku. Ive been isolated from people for while and my therapist advised me to try this so im happy i fond pro that understood my needs. I feel like my pro is my bestfriend
Overnight can definitely be more pricey and harder to do without proper preparation. I usually have to leave a little earlier than most due to having morning sessions to attend to later but overnight sessions are most often reserved for repeat cuddlers. it requires a level of trust because often times I've received inquiries for overnight that say something like "well if im paying for that much for overnight, I should get a little more don't ya think?" insinuating sexual activity. not ever the case... even if we went by the hourly rates, lets be real. but these are great sessions for folks who are having difficulty sleeping without someone present. some folks, even if they don't cuddle all night together, have an easier time sleeping if they had someone's presence near them. even without touching, you can sense when someone's there next to you.
I've never done this but I'd love to, so long as I know that my partner won't cross my boundaries or try and slip away with my belongings in the dark of the night. I'd only do this with people I KNOW I can 100% trust.
I CAN see how it can be a problem. I move around a lot in my sleep and this may wake my partner in the middle of the night. One of my partners--she always falls asleep in my arms--twitches a lot in her sleep. This could wake me up in the middle of the night and once I'm up for too long or wake up too early then I can't go back to sleep. I'd end up sleep deprived. Then there's the planning ahead what with timing and hygiene. I work early in the mornings and would have to leave a "stranger" in my home while I'm at work (or I'd wake them up while I'm getting ready and I don't like doing that 'cause I don't like having it done to me.
TL;DR -- I'd TOTALLY do this depending on the individual and the timing.
Why is maintaining hygiene for one night a challenge? Bring a toothbrush and toothpaste and maybe deodorant, shower well beforehand...what else is there to worry about? I mean, I hate bar soap and don't trust men to have a clean hand towel from experience (I don't wanna dry my hands on their one single penis/butt shower towel ha), but other than a few toiletries (that you could just back in your overnight bag to be on the safe side) I don't know what else could be a problem.
I love cuddle-sleeps theoretically but haven't been able to do them for a long time. I cannot stand the sound of snoring AT ALL, and almost every single person I cuddle with snores. And I almost never fall asleep first. But I'm cool with a potential long cuddle session without actually sleeping together/staying overnight. I hate when people just fall asleep, it's really awkward and can get uncomfortable -- and I don't feel great about waking them up and making them drive sleepy so I feel stuck.
@ubergigglefritz that's great, would like that, just that I'm over the pond. I did sleep back to back with CC pro, after our long multi-cuddle session, few hours sleep in her bed - no charge extra - was just lovely - then shower and go home time.
@poolman This thread is so old. 😂 Since that time I have moved into a motorhome, moved out of a motorhome, back into a house, and completely restructured my overnights into my current setup. Lol. 🤣 I'm doing a ton of them though!
I have had a few overnight cuddles, one was a Pro. They were great, some heavy snoring, but it was all good.
Yes I have done 2 overnight sessions on a different site. I truly enjoyed both of them. Overnight sessions can be one of the most rewarding experience anyone can enjoy. I say GO FOR IT!!!
I've been a pro cuddler for a while now, (new on this platform) and I offer this service. In my experience, it's the best service to offer. My clients have a better night's rest. It's important to have a person to wake up to, pharamones and oxytocin is released. It's really the most mentally stimulationg and relaxing way to start the day. Cuddling all night helps my clients with insomnia.
I’d love to try this, but it’s way too expensive by pros, and I doubt enthusiasts would select me. I’m scared to try because I’d probably like it and resent its absence.