I'm new to this and figuring out the best way to do it. How do you pick a cuddle partner? I've already seen some profiles of people who I don't immediately click with. I want to trust the cuddle partner.
I've only ever really cuddled with partners, or my family when I was young. Friend cuddles have only been very momentary.
My first idea is to pick someone I'm attracted to, but to not do anything sexual/romantic with them during a cuddle session. I can imagine this scenario would be easiest if it was someone I was attracted to but wasn't attracted to me (maybe because of their sexuality), so that nothing sexual would happen. I have a lot of self control. Is this weird or wrong?
I think I would be potentially fine with a romance developing as long as it was discussed outside of cuddle sessions and there weren't any moves made during the session.
How do you pick a good cuddle partner? Do you pick people you're potentially attracted to in a romantic/sexual way? I would like to pick someone that I am attracted to in a friend way, if that's possible.
I think it might be more difficult than I anticipated to connect with someone I'd feel safe with for cuddles.