Those of you who frequent the forums may have noticed a little more "peaceful" feeling here the past month or so. I discovered that is because a few of the more insidiously "vocal" contributors were given a "time out" for a bit for being overly aggressive.
Personally, I will admit that I am not a fan of the people who were given a time out. I basically equate them to bullies because I feel their comments were often, at best, baiting and, at worst, mean-spirited. My observations were they had to "hijack" almost every post, chiming in with their sarcastic barbs thinly disguised as "wit", often at the emotional expense of the OP and/or another member.
I took them on a time or two and have had other members reach out to me privately that they used to chime in on the forum but didn't anymore because of these members. Or they had thought about posting but did not want to possibly endure the heat of ridicule and scorn.
Since the time out, I've been encouraged and happy to see quite a few new "posters" on to the forum and many really thoughtful and wonderful posts with lots of positive engagement from members. THANK YOU to those that have stepped out in vulnerability to post! I also have actually gotten to "know" some members a little better and have enjoyed participating in discussions.
I don't know what will happen when those members are allowed to return to posting but I am asking those of you who have enjoyed the atmosphere the past month+ to continue to support an open, inclusive, positive forum experience and, if shenanigans ensue, to stand on the side of not allowing a few people to cast a pall over the forum community.
Thank you for your time and attention. This ends my TED Talk.