Hello everyone! First time poster here, so please forgive any oddness/breaches in forum etiquette
So I’ve been on the site for years ((lurking)), in between relationships. I finally had my first cuddle the other day and it was fantastic! Gave me so much hope for future wonderful cuddles.
But since then, i’m finding myself too anxious to pull the trigger on meeting anyone else. I don’t feel safe. Seems like most guys I talk to give off bad vibes. And the female cuddler I was interested in, actually closed her account before we met because she was assaulted by a male cuddler.
So, women of CuddleComfort, what makes you feel safe to meet with someone? Is this just part of the cuddle process, learning to feel comfortable with strangers? Was there an initial fearful period or did it come naturally to you? Any advice is welcome!