For The Lonely Guys..

March 2017

Height too.

March 2017

I do think height matters. to some degree. I don't want to cuddle a 6 foot 2 woman being 5 foot 9. Just some cuddle positions are difficult when the size is too different

I_am_Polylover · March 2017

I don't think it is a word, but I certainly agree with the meaning of what you said. Personally, I'll cuddle with any woman of any age, height, weight, ethnicity, religion, or any other trait, as long as she is warm, friendly, caring, and doesn't change me money for what is mutually beneficial to us.

March 2017

Hello. I'm new here to this site. I live in a mostly rural area with in 25 miles of a small city. I'm older, (60) and disabiled. I am not looking to be a pro cuddler nor am I looking for pros. Being on disability doesnt allow me any extra cash to be able to pay a pro and I dont think any women are going to pay an old guy to cuddle. Being very recently divorced from a 30 year marrige has me very lonely. She left because she says she cant handle my PTSD. It is what it is I suppose. Anyways I havent had any kind of intimate contact with another human in over a year. Including any kind of sexual contact. That would be nice but Im looking for hugs and contact and understanding, if by some wild chance sex comes up in the conversation I could be open to that, but I dont think so. At this point in life I just need a good friend that would like me for who I am and what I have to offer. My question is am I wasting my time here? I understand and I know this is not a dating site and I am not looking for a "date". I feel that i did an ok job with my profile and I have had a few folks take a look but those folks are pretty far away and mostly just curious about who i am I'm sure. Ive spent a lot of time the last couple days reading the forums here and i have a good grasp of what would be acceptable and whats not. I am a gentleman first. I would never cross boundrys and have the upmost respect. Thank you for reading. Peace

4cuddles · March 2017

Welcome X driver60.

Hope u find a cuddler in your area soon:).

What I'd suggest is to also copy and paste your message into the "cuddle request" section. (To increase the viewings etc). If you haven't done so already. Good luck

March 2017

Thank you for the reply Anni85, do you think I should just start a new thread? I cant seem to find anything at all in my area.

4cuddles · March 2017

There is a tab on the main page (cuddle request) best section to post it in. Perhaps under a title of your location. Something like "seeking female cuddler in ......".
Hope that makes sense.

March 2017

Thanks again Annie, makes perfect sense. I'll start a new thread then.

4cuddles · March 2017

Np.

snuggle554321 · March 2017

@Xdriver60 If you lived closer I'd be your cuddle buddy! HUGE HUG!!!!

snuggle554321 · March 2017

Actually, I just went to my first cuddle party on Sunday and loved it! You should look to see if there are any cuddle parties in your area that you could go to! It really was truly amazing!

March 2017

Snuggle554321 i have looked into that but it seems that they are sparce if any is my neck of the woods. Guess we don't have as much interest over here. At least with host(ess)s.

March 2017

Aww, thank you snuggles. A cuddle party does sound amazing. I will have to check.

docgatorb · March 2017

There's a member in the Detroit area who has been organizing them, but I don't know about Wisconsin.

March 2017

Nothing in my area docgatorb. I'll just keep looking I suppose Thanks.

pmvines · March 2017

I am a lonely boy, I suppose. I would like to think I'm not and that I am independent, lone wolf, able to manage in a cave in Mexico or a deserted island. Reality is that I really need human connection. I just don't want it all the time. I like to be able to retreat back to my space and myself. Honestly the thought of constant or long term commitment to someone, being responsible for their happiness and having to give and share myself to them is really scary to me. I have been married twice, both back to back, and for the past several years I am really getting to know myself and am learning to just rely on myself and learning what makes me happy. Just me, my son, dog, cat, and fish. But I do get starved for attention. That's usually when I schedule a massage, or contact a friend to hang out and cuddle with , or see my pro.

April 2017

I would kind of like to give a bit of an update:

I end up being pretty good friends with one of the guys who had contacted me through my ad. We don't really have much in common activity wise, but enjoy talking about philosophy, culture, and such. Besides getting over the passing of my mother, just having someone to call up and grab a beer has a done a lot to help me. In no way does this replace a cuddle or the touch of a woman. But nor am I lonely or angry or frustrated with the lack of the latter.

I hope everyone is finding new male friends, or at least making positive steps to get there. I'm kind of waiting for the weather to get a little better before I cast the net again to find someone I can actually do other things with besides drink. lol I also kind of wanted to just stop in because this thread has totally gotten off track. I haven't been as active in the threads and perhaps things have calmed down and perhaps this is not as relevant.

Hope everyone is doing well.

April 2017

I'm like @pmvines I'm really a loner and like to retreat and hibernate. It's funny, I went to this charity event at an elementary school yesterday where we painted murals all over the school. I was probably the most engaging and talkative person in my group. I thoroughly enjoyed the event but was so happy when I got home and was able to shut the world out lol

April 2017

@NJCuddleDevil I'm impressed and encouraged that you are being proactive and willing to seek out male friendships - that's really fantastic! And I'm so pleased to hear you ended up being pretty good friends with one of the guys who contacted you through your ad. It's really wonderful to see guys making an effort with their friendships, as I don't think it happens enough.

April 2017

I'm actually kind of new here, and this was literally the first thread that I saw on the site. Not exactly encouraging for a newbie here like me who's loneliness is physically starting to take its toll on me. No, I'm not joking. I too have been trying to seek out friendships outside and while it provides temporary relief, I barely touch anyone and still end up feeling down at the end of the day.

iceman235 · May 2017

Hey Everyone. It's good to hear that I am not the only guy going through these struggles.

I am new to this site, and am looking for someone to hold. I'm open to trying a professional, and will respect boundaries. It would also be great if I could just find a female friend/cuddle buddy.

I'm not necessarily looking for a relationship from this site. But if I meet someone and things go in that direction, it would be great.

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