Is there any indication clients are being ignored due to race, gender or sexual orientation?
To me it's better that all serve the same purpose it weeds out the ones that want to cuddle and those that are justa taking up space. CC could do something like send a notice via email in response to these message nit being recieved and /or not being active the purpose is to keep active ppl on and weed out the ones that are just thwre because they can
@carino
What part of not every pro on this site are full time providers are you not understanding? Some may work 1 day a week, month or year. We are independent contractors. We set our own rates and hours. CC doesn't dictate how quickly we need to reply to our messages.
It's easier for you to just move on to someone who does respond than it is for our volunteer moderators to police how frequently a pro is working and their response time to inquiries.
@Rezz that's no excuse I'm sure many ppl have had lots of patience pros and non should not be on this site if they are not active nor responding as a courtesy if this is hitting home to you like I think it is because your taking it personally from your corresponding message then you need to be active or send ppl who respond to you in a timely fashion.CC shoukd do something about this too all members here pros or not weed out the ones that dont
People that don't respond to days on end or even not being on this site for months or years shoukd be gone
It's just bad luck
@carino That would mean adding something to TOS that you have to log in every so many weeks or months to keep your account here. I can't see that as being very popular, especially since there are people who drop off here for family reasons or other things they cannot control.
if they are not active nor responding as a courtesy if this is hitting home to you like I think it is because your taking it personally from your corresponding message then you need to be active or send ppl who respond to you in a timely fashion
I have 70+ karma. That's 70+ individuals I have messaged and cuddled from this site. I CLEARLY reply to inquiries, even if it's to say
Sorry, I'm not interested.
You have no idea what is going on in our personal lives to attempt to dictate how quickly we should be replying to you.
Enthusiasts have zero obligation to read or reply to your message. Your one of 10s or hundreds blowing up their inbox.
You can sort your cuddlers by last login in and ignore / avoid those who are currently inactive.
I have 20+ .pros and non that don't respond or inactive shoukd be gone permanently
@carino I want a supercharged Lotus Elise. Maybe Santa will come through this year. 🤞
In the meantime sort your search of cuddlers by most recently active and don't camp your inbox for a response that may never come.
CC should start cleaning up all these non repliers ,inactive ppl on this site and make it better for those that do
@carino, as @Rezz points out correctly, you can filter pros by those last logged in. If not logged in in the past month or past week you can filter them from search results. That will make sure you are only messaging active pros. My strategy is to message all the pros in my price range whose profile appeals to me. Then I choose among those who have responded in a few hours. When I first got on here, I would message and wait for a response before messaging the next pro, but I soon learned it's more effective to message everyone and pick amongst the responders.
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@Travismo - there is nothing wrong with your profile. 😊
I see that some practitioners of the dark arts have resurrected this thread and now it’s kinda smelly and gross. Let me just say that by no means would I be upset with someone for not responding, I was just genuinely concerned that there might be something wrong with my profile as I was rather new to the site at the time. I myself have been guilty of not responding to messages on occasion, mostly because trying to figure out what to say makes me anxious. I think the takeaway here is that people could have a number of reasons for not responding and becoming a pro should not strip you of your right to choose how much of your time and energy you spend on the site.
@Travismo 👏👏👏
Travismo - I experience the same issues - a lot of non-replies. I do get 'some' replies, but likely close to 50/50 it seems.
My suggestion to the CC admins would be to provide a statistic of Pros: a measurement of (initial) reply percentage. For example, if a Pro has a "reply rating" of 70, that could indicate the Pro replies to 70% of initial messages. In theory, this would only apply to the initial message. This is just a thought. It would be helpful to know if a Pro rarely responds to messages. Just my $0.02....
It sucks that I never get any response! Ready to delete my account from this useless website!!!
this website so useless!! Plan on deleting your account!!!
You already said that here and in another thread that you started about the same thing. You’ve made your point. Move on or get put in time out. - Babichev
Well I cuddle full time and don’t have much of a life outside of it so if anyone wants to cuddle with me I will be sure to respond.
I think the healthiest way to view this site is it potentially gives you a better chance to find a cuddle partner than you would have on your own. But it neither guarantees or entitles you to anything.
@xandriarain 👋 me too. 😆 Putting together my destination cuddle spot in central Virginia. I hate hearing about people's negative experiences with other pros. 😝
I’m so sorry you had that experience. I’m a pretty new Pro cuddler and it’s been my goal to respond to every message. There are lots of reasons one might not respond. However, I agree it can feel defeating. Hang in there!
I understand the annoyance in not responding in a timely manner however I’m sure I can speak on behalf of everyone In Existence when I verify we all have lives separate from this site. Life gets busy.
I work full time and schedule sessions for weekends. Sometimes I accommodate through the week, but I also don’t accept sessions all the time. My sanity is what is most important to me and people drain me. When I book a session, it’s because I am feeling my best. When I respond to a message, it’s because after a 16 hour day, I have a moment of free time to do such.
I always speak my own narrative on the forums so I’m sure I come across like a dickhead but it’s highly unfair to feel entitled to an immediate response from someone, when life keeps us all busy
@Travismo it looks like your patience with Pros this year has been rewarded! 😊 Congratulations on your wonderful Karmas you have received! Cuddle Comfort is far from "useless" and you are a shining example of that.
To all Pros out there, thank you for putting up with us and dealing with some of the nonsense on these threads. So happy you are there for us all! 👍
You’re absolutely right, @OhioMike, I feel very fortunate to have met some truly exceptional people and I’m glad I found this site. The connections I’ve made here are treasures which I value dearly!
@Rezz a Lotus Elise??? NICE, my dear!! Shotgun!!!
Hi @Rezz responding to "When I say lack of interest here I'm speaking on behalf of the pros in my area, not myself."
I get what you mean...and I didn't mean to suggest you yourself do not communicate, I didn't articulate that very well. 🙂
I don't necessarily believe lack of, or staggered responses from pros necessarily means they are irresponsible, selfish or uncaring. Like a lot of people say here, I have been messaging a pro and suddenly communication stops, yet see they have been online on the site since my last message to them. It can be upsetting and even deflating. But I can't be certain it has anything to do with me. I'm sure some pros are irresponsible, I guess, but I imagine a bunch are inundated with messages and trying to schedule sessions and lose track. Some pros may be really excellent at it, and some may not be so It's a reality I think we pro seekers will have to deal to a degree.
Yeah. Let me tell my private investigation law firm I work for, oh sorry....I have to respond to 50+ messages on here first. 😂😂😂
I, at least try, to write a note on my profile if I'm unavailable to respond right away. I care deeply for an individual, but I do not give too much energy to others that are pushy or do not respect my time that is clearly stated, I'm not available.
It's not my responsibility, as a pro, or as an individual, to manage how others react to a rather simple thing. If I am not available at a drop off a hat. It's not personal. And I respect those that communicate the same to me, either way... El Fin.
If you cannot respect the boundaries of an independent contractor on this site, just move on to someone new. There are plenty of choices out there.
No one owes anyone, anything, at any point in life. If you think so, that's on you, not the person in your crossfire. Stop treating people like they're robotic and show compassion if you want that in return. That easy.
SMH. 🙄
Some pretty nasty responses lmao