Tonight I supposed to try it out for the first time- as a host- after meeting in public.
He freaked out when I asked him to bring identification.
I got extremely uncomfortable 😣
I think the main reason women have a hard time at this is because when we finally see someone we might want to try this with, there is lack of empathy for how a person feels inviting a new person to their personal space.
I explained that it was for my peace of mind only and he canceled- I feel much better that he did actually.
It’ll be a very long time before I’m willing to attempt again, but I still need to complete this study haha.