I've been exchanging messages with a few guys from several states away who say they're interested in visiting me. I know one who won't visit a pro if she's much more than an hour away, and I know a couple who either have or are planning to go on road trips to visit one or more cuddle buddies or pros. I haven't been invited to visit anyone far away yet, but I've always been up for adventure and have a lot of free time on my hands. I'd definitely drive all day to see someone if I were intrigued enough and thought we were a good match.
How far would you travel to meet a potential cuddler?
Might fly all the way to the US of A
@steve_m Oh, would you, now??
I have driven a few hours, but not just to meet a cuddler. I plan other things to do and then meet a cuddler where I am visiting.
Between 0 and 700 miles - which I fly weekly between the East Bay in California and Phoenix.
I could probably do up to 100 miles. If I could manage it by public transportation and carpooling.
Honestly, since I have a completely open schedule, as long as travel expenses are covered...I'd say I'd travel to anywhere in the US. I would just need to know the client and be comfortable before hands.
For a cuddle only about 20 miles.
If I have business out in that area then 25.
I wouldn't drive more than about 30-40 minutes to meet a cuddle buddy - and I'd prefer they be closer, like 10-20 minutes away.
Apparently I'll travel from California to Texas. I'm flying there in the morning for my 98 year old mothers funeral. she passed away this evening at 8:22 pm central time. I could sure use some cuddling while I am there, if there are any non-paid cuddlers willing to see me on short notice. There isn't much time for me to get to know you, since I'll only be there a week.
Not sure how far I would go prob about 45 min to an hrs drive but prefer closer.
However I cuddled one time with a woman who was traveling thru my area and now she is honestly looking at traveling 18 hrs drive to come back for more cuddling.
I prefer distances that don't take more than 30mins but I am willing to do anything up to an hour max if the travel is compensated for.. as a professional, I normally ask not to be too far before requesting services or take the incall at my location instead but if folks offer to pay the travel or the travel fee, I would happily accommodate since i am being taken care of gas and car maintenance wise. it works out. LA, where I am, is such a huge area so I try my best to work with all of LA county.
I'm still really need to this, but I wouldn't drive more than about 25-44minutes to meet a cuddle buddy - but I'd prefer they be a little bit closer, like 5-20 minutes away.
@OzVisitor The circumference of our planet on the equator is only 24860 miles which means you're willing to travel off of our planet for cuddles. Pretty hardcore :P
For me I would prefer to travel to somewhere on my own planet....actually I would prefer to stay within convenient reach by public transit for environmental reasons.
I'm so flattered!!! No one has ever sought me out from the other side of the world. Regardless I can't wait to see you again next month :-)
I hope you are able to find some one local, I will be the witness to say that OzVisitor does come that far to see me :-) and feels guilty I have to drive an hour to get to him. He is one of a kind!
@JasonCuddles - I apologise, I got my units wrong. It's actually 15,612 kilometres which equates to 9701 miles, so somewhat less. Though that's how far it is as the bird (admittedly, a very long-range ocean-crossing bird) flies. Factoring in flight paths it's longer and further
@AlexBabyBoo23 - You're awesome
Oh, I have to get home again, so that actually makes it 19,402 miles
I don't think I would meet someone on the other side of the planet. I don't think anything would go wrong, as most people here seem genuinely interested in cuddling. But if it does go wrong, I'd like to be able to travel back home so I could sleep in my own bed. 2 hour journeys would be fine, I guess.
Me personally, I would travel to any place in USA. Airline travel is super affordable with the right bargain hunting. I have the means and resources to make a long distance trip worth wild as long as the compatibility was there. Really depends on a lot of factors such as prior commitments and boundaries with said person.
On the other hand, if I have plans to be 1003 miles from home, I might well shop around for a cuddled buddy important my travel destination city.
I would travel a few hundred light year- kilometers to hug barbarella
@OzVisitor ahhhh good call I didn't think about the return trip
I just made the journey again. Phew! Long flight - my arms are exhausted haha
I’ll travel up to an hour if travel is compensated . Prefer local 20-30
I'm reminded of life's wisdom by the Black Eyed Peas: "Can You Meet Me Halfway."
I don’t mind half way and I give first hour free if they get a room
About 50 minutes of public transit if I already know the person and they're also willing to make the effort for me.
Though generally I try to keep close because traveling to far places exhausts me and coming back is tiring too which could very well defeat the purpose for me...
Though if I see they're really worth it and we've such good connection I could do about 50 minutes max of traveling for them and they for me.
90 minutes, if I’m convinced they would travel the same distance to me. So ummm if we were 3 hours apart, I’d even meet in the middle. But I’m at the western edge of metro-Chicago. So 90 minutes east might well be 35 miles to Chicago’s lakefront in heavy traffic. But going west or northwest I could get well into Central Illinois (Peoria?) or into Southern Wisconsin. So there you go folks...let’s get something going!
I've driven up to an hour to a client. Also, one of my loyal clients flew from Las Vegas to cuddle with me here in Colorado:-)
There's a big difference between being motivated to travel to see a cuddle companion vs. traveling to visit a pro or a pro traveling to visit a client. I would go much farther to visit a cuddle buddy that I had a good connection with than I would for a client, unless I'd seen that client before. Even so, I've crossed state lines to visit a cuddle buddy. Don't think I'd do that for a client.