How Many Times a Week Would You Like to Cuddle?

BlueIrisBlueIris Mod
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Ideally, how many times a week would you like to cuddle? Assume that you had a cuddle pal who was also available, and you did not have to pay. How many times a week and for how long? Fewer times a week but longer times? Shorter sessions but more frequently?

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  • [Deleted User]Prm5441 (deleted user)

    If I had to choose, I'd say fewer times , longer sessions

  • quietman775quietman775

    Probably once per week. Ninety minutes to two hours.

  • BlueIrisBlueIris Mod

    @Prm5441 Ok. But how many times a week, and for how long each time?

  • itcrowdfanitcrowdfan

    Twice a week would be great
    But only if I get a discount. Otherwise I will go broke.

  • DaSuTroDaSuTro

    I'd cuddle three times weekly, for at least an hour but no more than two.

  • [Deleted User]Prm5441 (deleted user)

    @BlueIris maybe a couple times a week for maybe the length of a movie or two

  • MailleweaverMailleweaver
    edited October 2017

    This is a difficult (possibly impossible) question to answer for those of us who have had little to no cuddling experience. When I had a girlfriend I would have been happy for her to cuddle up to me all the time. I loved it when she hugged me while I was washing dishes, and playing video games with her on my lap was doubly fun. She was uncomfortable with most touch, though, so cuddling didn't happen often, and she is the only cuddle partner I've ever had.

    I don't know how cuddling a platonic friend feels compared to cuddling with a romantic friend like her, but I think I would like two or three platonic friendly cuddle sessions a week, two or three hours at a time. I have no experience to back that up, though, and it's difficult for humans to know what we really want until we have experience with it -- difficult sometimes even when we do have experience. If I had ice cream every time I "wanted" it I'd get tired of it despite it being my favorite food. Maybe cuddles would be the same.

    I'll just enjoy whatever comes my way for now and worry about rationing myself later if I ever find myself with an overabundance of cuddle opportunities. God is pretty good about giving me just what I need (even if it's not what I think I want) and holding back unnecessary excess.

  • mellowmellow

    In that ideal scenario I would do a couple of hours once a week and an overnight once a month. And if more is needed then just call your buddy for an emergency cuddle session.

  • SideonSideon

    I'd like several times a week, and 90-120 mins each time. Even once a week would be fantastic.

  • BriGuyBriGuy

    If I had a cuddle buddy close by I would say once a week during the week, after work, for a couple of hours. If there is a bit of travel involved, once a month durimg the weekend for most of the afternoon and early evening.

  • willmott2k10willmott2k10

    The more the merrier for me, but at the same time too much and your body and mind get used to the hormones and sensations that you feel when you cuddle and then you just feel terrible whenever you're not cuddling so there's that to consider too I guess. If I had to choose between several short sessions and fewer longer ones, I'd always go with the latter any day as otherwise by the time you're really enjoying yourself and getting into it it's over. I wouldn't really be entirely certain what to say if I had to put a number to it though...

  • ScarletteScarlette

    Everyday for 2 hours. Easily. My regular cuddlers know that if I don't have a cuddler for a couple days I call them to cuddle...free. Also, my hr cuddles typically turn into 2 hrs and 3 hr cuddles into 4 hr cuddles. I am definitely not a clock watcher. Cuddling is my happy place !

  • JasonCuddlesJasonCuddles

    I am with you Scarlette. I could easily do it every day for a few hours. Or, at least I think I could.

    I am in the boat that Mailleweaver is on. I have little experience so I can only go by what I think. I really did love the snuggles though when I had them.

  • ScarletteScarlette

    I cuddle alot and it's never enough. My regular cuddles would laugh and agree. Sometimes at the end of a cuddle I'm like "let's order pizza"! We eat then cuddle more.

  • funandadventurefunandadventure

    In my normal working day I cuddle 8 to 9 hrs with my young friends ( 65 to 90+ years old) and 8 hrs with my partner and friends at home so I get on average 16 hrs a day, Is that to much.
    Love peace and friendship John and his trees. Auckland NZ.

  • [Deleted User]Greybeard (deleted user)

    Assuming the lack of an ongoing romantic relationship, once or twice a month is plenty for me. If I were ever to be in relationship, I’d hope we’d approach 7 day’s a week.

  • scottbernard22scottbernard22

    Cuddling twice a day would be wonderous

  • Austin92Austin92

    I don't mind cuddling all week because something different and great fast and fun way to make money! Plus your making people feel good!

  • [Deleted User]DeliMan (deleted user)

    @blueiris you are always giving us some great items to think about. I would love to cuddle about 2 times a week for between 90 Minutes and 2 hours. With an occasional overnight cuddle.

    Thanks for this thread.
    Dale

  • LonelyMedicProfLonelyMedicProf

    Under those terms? Every day. The exact mechanics involved, though, I've no idea. Considering how things are at home... I'd probably have to leave work and hope that I could immediately start.

    Heh. As tired as I am, I'd call it a "Post-Work Cuddle Nap". Certainly sounds good - and it'd be nice to have someone's arms around me as I fall asleep.

  • [Deleted User]MichaelFJudd (deleted user)

    WAYYY more than I'm getting, lol. I really freaking crave it and I can't have it and it's making me irritated. ;(

    I would cuddle maybe 3-4 times per week, 90min-2hr per session.

  • MakeTeaNotLoveMakeTeaNotLove

    Possibly 1-2 times a week for about an hour-or-so? I've a cuddle deficit, but I'm also unsure how much would be stretching my introvert social interaction limit... I'm new to this cuddle-buddy thing, so I haven't figured out my parameters completely yet.

  • waywardchild80waywardchild80

    I would cuddle everyday if I could! I just met my first cuddle buddy from the site this weekend and I had a really hard time leaving. If I could have maybe two to three longer sessions a week that would be awesome.

  • [Deleted User]Adamleigh (deleted user)

    I think it depends on the day, but to be honest a good cuddle always makes it a good day.

  • I_am_PolyloverI_am_Polylover

    I'd like to cuddle a couple of hours before falling asleep and cuddling through the night, with maybe an hour or so of cuddling in the morning. Ideally, I'd have at least 2 or three cuddle friends to alternate nights with. I'd also be up for cuddling during the day if anyone needs that. I'm retired, so i have a lot of time available to cuddle.
    <3 Jim

  • SideonSideon

    Based on the last two weeks from hell, I'm going to go with "yes, please, every day, several hours a day." I'd even pull out the old fresh-chocolate-chip-cookies-and-Guinness-beer routine.

  • BlueIrisBlueIris Mod

    I have deliberately avoided answering the questions I posed for awhile, wondering if I have a problem! I could very easily cuddle 3-4 hours a day at this point. But life gets in the way, so it might be "only" five days a week. I am in a major touch deficit at the moment, and I imagine my needs might lessen in a few months. Or not!!!

    Thanks @I_am_Polylover and @Sideon for prompting me to come out of hiding!!! LOL!

  • [Deleted User]moonshadow (deleted user)

    Approximately 100-200 times per week, 20-22 hours per day would be acceptable.

  • JasonCuddlesJasonCuddles

    @moonshadow I too would not mind altering experienced time for the sake of cuddles :D

  • tallteddytallteddy

    24/7

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