@hugo_stieglitz You have no idea where I actually am. But you live in the US where the whole Roe v Wade thing just happened and you can't think of the last time women lost a right? Hmmm Yeah, the US likes to tell it's people they're the freest in the world. Keep thinking that.
@hugo_stieglitz - I'm sure that's what rapists say to their next victim. I'm not saying you're one, but they don't know you from an axe murderer.
Okay to clear this up real quick. I thought it was very obvious I was being extremely sarcastic. I thought it would be beyond obvious and I apologize. I thought by saying I can't remember the last time Women had a right taken away which was two and a half weeks ago Would have made it obvious and I apologize once again.
@hugo_stieglitz woah. That was not a comment I was expecting. Good luck with that 😬
In other news, I see why trolls troll. It was kind of fun.
@hugo_stieglitz my first version of my comment was going to ask how much sarcasm was being used. Shoulda went with my gut 🫠
Drop some coin and get some practice lol. You can have the pro of your dreams. I have.
@Moxytocin - ...but Americans still get to keep all their guns. Every time a child gets shot at school, the argument is always, "The gun didn't walk itself over to the school and murder someone." It's tiring.
@Charlie_Bear : Yes, the entire thing was sarcastic. I was going to ride it out a little bit longer But anything I would say even though it would be sarcastic would possibly add fuel to the fire. Plus, if anybody read my responses above, it would be very obvious that I do not feel that white middle-aged men have it bad
@hugo_stieglitz ha that’s why I was so taken aback. I had to do a username check cause I was so confused
I’m sorry you had that experience, did it get any better for you?
@hugo_stieglitz to answer your question. June 24, 2022 was the last time women had a right taken away and not men in the United States.
@Mike403 : listen the only thing that stops a bad guy with a gun... Okay, I can't even say it without doing like I'm going to puke.
@MxSmith : fake news.
In all seriousness, I know the day it was. As when I woke up I read about it. And it was also the first time I took my daughter to see a band play live. So definitely a bittersweet day
@hugo_stieglitz /s can designate text as sarcasm since there's no verbal inflection or facial expression to go on.
The whole abortion thing is kind of a sore spot for a lot of women.
I know this. I really thought it was so over the top that it would be obvious. I apologize once again.
removing my comment. I didnt catch the sarcasm
** I'm also removing my comment. Because her and I are best friends now. : P . Hopefully we can agree upon who gets the BE fri side of the necklace and who gets the other side**
@hugo_stieglitz - I get banned on Facebook all the time for being sarcastic. Latest one? I said, "I will kill to go to that concert." Seven day ban for condoning violence. Maybe it's best to leave sarcasm to the real world.
@hugo_stieglitz Not everyone reads the whole post sadly. I often don't admittedly
@hugo_stieglitz I like sarcasm but your remark went over my head as not sarcasm. That doesn't mean anything. I often don't understand what is going on in the forum. Unfortunately, there have been some posts made here in the past by men that sounded similar to this and they were not joking. So now a lot of members are understandably wary of posts like yours. Some of the old threads are severely eye-opening, to say the least:)
@hugo_stieglitz I realize our messages overlapped and I did not see your claim to sarcasm. That being said, this is a bit too painful for me to register jokes.
@mxsmith: I don't think any of it is funny. I was making fun of someone that was pointing out women having leverage.
But this is not a hill I want to die on. Particularly since I'm willing to guess you and I probably share almost all of the same points of view ( from an objective stance. I obviously do not know what it's like to be a woman).
I think this thread has pretty much run its course. Nobody is contributing anything useful anymore.
I will try to write something more substantial later on, but here are some short thoughts:
Sorry, didn't mean to go on a rant. I actually have some deeper analyses in store. Thanks everyone!
CuddleDuncan Perhaps the OP was speaking from a sense of entitlement or he could just be stating his experiences using this site. To me, entitlement is the 'right to have something because it is deserved'. My impression was that he expressed his desire to cuddle enthusiasts on the site and it did not work out so it caused disappointment. I don't think he was implying that he deserved or earned the right to be cuddled but I don't know his intent. I see how it can be interpreted as 'entitled' from your point of view.
In regard to your success, you are likely an anomaly. Based on the raw numbers you are a statistic outlier because of mass competition. In addition, if this site has similar statistics to other social sites, you are way out of the norm. Your information may be helpful, but I consider you to be the exception to the rule and not applicable to most men. There may be things that may improve your chances of success, but it still boils down to supply and demand. Congratulations for finding success.
hugo_stieglitz On similar social sites, the majority of men are invisible because of supply and demand. Women can afford to be picky with who they cuddle with-especially enthusiasts. There are things in life that we have little control over. Personally, I suggest working on oneself which includes financial literacy as it may help you get the outcomes you want. Someone else mentioned "go where the women are" which may be applicable to you.
I'm willing to bet that most women stopped even opening up messages from somebody they don't know. How many photos of penises can they look at before they finally get turned off?
@Rezz "While it may seem like you're paying us for affection, that's untrue. You're paying for our time away from other work, hobbies etc."
I always come back to that way of looking at things ... in fact what makes a great professional cuddler is that they are genuinely affectionate, loving and giving people.
@August1 : what did I say that prompted you to bring up financial literacy? Why do you suggest that I learn about that?
Some of ya'll are just too much. Take that however you want.
Anyways i feel pros are so much better and satisfying than enthusiasts anyway (atleast from my local experience)...especially when you find the right pro for you or a few that you can go to in need. Save by stop eating out or ordering pizza, and have those ramen noodles or that bologna sandwich once in a while to save for an hour of two of cuddles if you need it that bad.