Any non obivious do’s and dont’s that experienced cuddlers would like to pass on?
Welcome to the site! Start by checking out this post. There are lots of tips available.
https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/2711/cuddling-discussions-and-resources
I have a tip which works very well with my clients. I typically play "spa" like music or you might find it called Soundscapes. Some of the instrumentals can almost put you and your cuddle buddy in a trance. It is very relaxing and I have yet to meet anyone who doesn't like it. In addition, many clients now prefer to cuddle to this music and ask their other professional cuddlers to play it.
Another great tip is knowing what kind of touch your cuddle buddy enjoys. For instance, I work out regularly and I am very strong. I have a tenancy to to use my arms and fingertips to press firmly on my clients' body. However not everyone enjoys a firm touch. Some people prefer soft almost air like touches. Personally, I prefer a firm touch as soft air like touches tickle and I do not like being tickled. Know your who you are cuddling.
Lastly, great conversation. Cuddling is a very intimate experience. Open yourself up to an array of ideas, thought provoking conversation and of course hopes and dreams. Nothing is more gratifying than sharing. Of course only share what you are comfortable with.
Well that's all I got. Best of luck in your cuddling endeavors. Hugs!!!