Do you prefer to cuddle at your place 🏡 their place 🏠 or hotel 🏨 … why?
Their place, as I am unable to host right now. I don't mind hotels like when people from out of town are staying here, but I'd prefer not to book a hotel myself. In the future I definitely would be glad to host and have people over. Though I may still opt for going to their place just to save on travel costs, unless of course they don't host.
I usually prefer to host and like to find unique airbnbs and places that are cozy for a cuddle! But open to others hosting at a neutral location.
A hotel. Neutral territory, like a getaway, and less chance of distractions/interruptions.
Hotel
Hotel life, for sure. PRO hosts are top notch but I hate showing up and running into their roommates and family lol. I always ask "Are we going to be alone or do I have to beat up your boyfriend at the end of this?" To avoid all that,, I typically pay for the PRO AND a temporary hotel room when I agree to cuddle 🙃
My place. Leaving the house is difficult or very difficult for me, so it just makes it easier. Also, the extreme familiarity helps with being relaxed.
However, I'm more than happy to cuddle at their place or indeed almost anywhere. Once you are snuggled up together it doesn't really make much difference.
Somewhere really nice outside is probably my favourite, now I come to think about it. Hotel is my least favourite.
Host at my place. I can easily keep everything clean, warm (or cool in the summer), and fully stocked with bottled water or whatever else. Public cuddles are also good, like a restaurant or a park.
When I’m traveling it will still be at my hotel and I’ll do my best to make it a comfortable environment.
Love this topic, @cuddles_ndream
I currently prefer to do individual cuddles in public spaces. Since I began cuddling in the summer, that was almost exclusively parks, on a picnic blanket. (Check out this post for some pictures of the gorgeous settings!) I did park cuddles well into the fall, up until my little toes went numb and the mist rolled in.
Now that it's fall/winter, I aim for coffee shops with comfy couches or movie theaters with reclining loveseats, where you can really nestle down. I would love more ideas for indoor, public cuddle spaces! (I have done tourist attractions, restaurant booths, etc.)
I have done some cuddles in peoples' homes, though I now reserve that for people whom I have met with about half a dozen times (or more, at my discretion), for personal safety. Group cuddles of any size in someone's home are heaven.
Hotel cuddles are not currently on the menu for anyone. I am certain I will do them in the future, especially with trusted friends, but the idea of doing them with anyone I am not familiar with makes me feel extremely uncomfortable and is a definitely hard limit for me.
I do not host, for a host of reasons. First off, I live in the middle of nowhere in the mountains of Wyoming, and there's not a single member of this site within almost two hours of me. I am an extremely private person, and hosting does not appeal to me under almost any circumstance. I have a rescue pup who I adore and who is a beautiful, loving angel with my boyfriend and I, but who is a demon to strangers and anyone who dares to trespass on our property. So needless to say...traveling for cuddles just all-around is the best option for everyone. When I visit Colorado, as I frequently do, I stay with family who have health issues, and hosting is not an option.
During travel outside of my current and home states, I haven't yet attempted cuddles, but I would have the same boundaries regarding my own hotel room or AirBnB, as mentioned above, and would continue to go for public cuddles until I knew someone very well.
~ Sunset Snuggles
@SunsetSnuggles i really appreciate your very detailed reply, (I love reading and getting to see someone’s thought process & perspective 😛)
I see you really enjoy public cuddles, I myself have never done it, where I’m from there’s hardly any open scenery / setting, besides Central Park … I guess?! Lol but I do wIsh there was more of this here, also, I have a very specific idea of public cuddling which I don’t know if others are into, like cuddling under a billion stars 🌌 I know this sounds cheesy as hell but oh well I like what I like 😂
I’m sooo glad that you took your time and now are embracing this awesomeness , also, I never thought of the different possibilities like bookstores (which I absolutely love but hardly go to) or a nice cozy low key coffee shop (which I hardly ever go to as well lol but its so comforting) …
I’m now checking out the link to the post, ty! 🫂
Wherever I am whenever I'm with an amazing creature
In bed 100% I like to be comfortable
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Since I do not host, I prefer a Hotel.
My cuddle space.
@Syins Whoa I adore that blue!! 💙 You're welcome to add it over here! 😃
This is no better place to enjoy a cuddle than within the confines of a HOTEL!!!!!! Especially if you travel a lot!!
I prefer the woods/park/campground
No cars, no people running down the halls. One big hammock or two smaller ones side by side near a body of water with the sounds of nature all around.especially if the air is just a touch chilled.
Right now a hotel or their place. My place is needing work.
Bed or hammock
My favorite (when weather is appropriate) is outdoor cuddles in a park, especially one spot I have found along a river bank in a state park. I love being out in nature and feeling the gentle breeze and the warmth of a cuddle partner’s embrace while listening to leaves rustling and water flowing over rocks… it is a symphony for the senses!
I have only hosted a couple of times and only with 1 cuddle partner. Most of my cuddles have either been hosted by a pro or in a hotel when I was traveling.
In a big soft bed with comfy pillows.
Host at my place. It has everything I need!
@Syins your cuddle space - WOW! I’m obsessed with brick 🧱 walls inside houses / apartments / ect, the word “Cozy”, inside this space is so comforting and inviting …. I love the dvd collection of movies / games … The neon blue color makes everything so special! I love simple and nice and you did it! Your cozy room and pmvines back yard is serving as a strong inspiration for me 🌌
Either at their place, hotel/motel or public (excluding cold weather). I wish I could host some select trust worthy individuals but I can't because I live with my parents and you all can imagine, it wouldn't exactly be ideal to host while living with parents.
Anywhere as long as we both feel comfortable and safe. I do prefer in bed though.
@Syins that looks like a very cozy cuddle space. Is that a fireplace too. Cuddling by a fire is the best!
I normally go to their place - either because a pro has already the whole place set up for a session, or if my cuddling partner feels more comfortable to have home-court advantage ;-) On a bed, ideally. I can host in my place too and, if I'm on the road, the hotel room is always an option or even outdoors, like a park.
This is an interesting thread. Unfortunately, beeing blind, I'm limited by mobility issues. As such, I generally host. I would be somewhat open to a public place, but it would have to be in the city and inexpensive, as I'm on a low fixed income. I would also be open to visiting the cuddler, as long as they were in the city. I'm limited to the city since the disabled adult transportation service only goes within the city of edmonton. Although my home may not be ideal, [no couch and only twin bed], It's clean, cozy and familiar.
I think suspended upside down from the ceiling is best because the chances of a random chub is eliminated because the big brain bogarts the blood in that position. A by product is fewer boner threads if everyone cuddled in that position.
Then enhanced risk of stroke and heart attack in that position is a chance many are willing to take to avoid awkwardness. No one can say I don’t spitball possible solutions to cuddle challenges.
@FunCartel I noticed that people ask questions that they actually want answers to and you just comment something ridiculous instead....do you ever actually try answering their question?