Hi, is there anyone in Sydney has ever truly meet up through this website and have a good cuddles without any complications? I am still new and quite scared to meet strangers... Please share your experiences if you don't mind...
I'm not from Sydney but I can tell you that I've had some wonderful experiences. Usually I message the person I'm going to meet a few times to get a good feel but all the ones I've been to, the guys have been gentlemen. They've been so nice and respectful. It's good when they have karma that you can read that way you know but I always have a couple of friends that know where I'm going and for how long, just for safety. If a person makes you feel nervous just by chatting on the site, keep chatting and try to get to know them more. I JUST had to cancel 2 upcoming sessions because of this. One because he asked if I was going to wear lingerie and the other because he asked if I liked massages and he could bring oil if I did. Now why would anyone bring massage oil? You have to have your shirt off to use that! Ugh! So I had to explain (like always) that I'm strictly platonic and I do not remove my clothes and I do not kiss and I only offer what the website offers. One understood but I still canceled because I didn't feel comfortable going into that situation and the other (oil guy) acted upset and offended but as a woman, I will NEVER put myself in any situation where I will feel uncomfortable and unsafe. The true, respectful people that actually use this website for what it's for will never get upset when you go over the rules and they'd never ask for anything extra! I'm so lucky I have had the amazing in person experiences that I have had. I've had a total of 3 so far and my 4th one is scheduled today. I could've easily have had so many more by now but again, if they sound sketchy at all, I'm not booking. It's all about using your womanly instincts and women have great instincts and intuition. I love cuddling! I love that I found this website, it has absolutely been the best thing for me in this part of my life. I can't wait until I can get more in person sessions and hopefully some repeat clients! I've only been on here for a month so I think I've done pretty good! LOL. Good luck! I really hope you do so well but always follow your intuition.
Welcome, @FriendlyAwkward.
The first thing is, YES, a lot of people have met others through this site and had wonderful cuddles without any complications. I am one of them, although sadly not in Sydney. We have had people in Australia active on this forum in the past, though I'm not sure if there are any at the moment. (The vast majority of Cuddle Comfort members don't visit the forum, and most of those who visit simply lurk and never post.)
You are right to be cautious about meeting strangers from the internet. I think of it as being a bit like crossing a busy road. If you just walk out into the traffic something might go wrong, but if you look left and right first you'll be fine. There are a lot of hints and tips scattered around the forum, just take your time and explore. There is no rush.
Another good trick is to look at people's profiles, read their Karma, and then follow things through to discover who wrote that Karma. This can be much more illuminating than just reading the Karma alone.
The cuddle world rewards patience, effort, self-awareness, respect and thoughtfulness. Your profile demonstrates several of these, so you are already on the right track.
I suggest you consider booking a cuddle professional for your first cuddle experience. Choose carefully, and focus on relevant skills and experience. It should help you get off to a good start. It is very common in the cuddle world for women to cuddle with women.
In the meantime, if you receive messages from idiots, be quick to use the Block and/or Report buttons (under the 3 dots). The site is very good at dealing with them.
TL:DR don't worry, you're in the right place.
@Rai_C I was writing while you were posting. Sorry you had to deal with that. I hope you reported both these guys. The one who understood might just manage to learn, but the sooner the upset guy is banned the better.
I’m from Sydney and it’s hard to meet with people as they don’t come online much, they reply and then don’t come back online for a few weeks or so My profile has everything completed in it, what else can I do?
I'm looking at travelling to Sydney within the next few months and I loveeeeeee cuddling !!!
Nothing but good vibes
@CityGuy1980 you may find these threads useful:
How I found happiness on Cuddle Comfort
How I Found Happiness on CC Part 2: The First Meeting
How To Choose Your Professional Cuddler
I have had some wonderful by talking to pro cuddlers in areas where I am traveling and that I think might have common interests. Only when they are willing to chat or at least engage me, then I book a session. Some have been good, and others have been truly fantastic. When in doubt, go with your gut, temper your expectations and you'll do fine.
Interesting mix of people do far. Seems legit for the most part but like most things in this country you have liberal cuddlers, conservative cuddlers, forum clicks and just plain old hustlers. If you can sift througg all that you find the gem that seems to be getting lost. It takes time and common sense but to teach person is their own sonthe time may not be worth it. Ex. A person came on at the beginning of the year, did everything correct, participated in the forum, had eyes pictures, good conversation, was real looking for real. I noticed a week ago SHE left. This site can be overwhelming because you will see how people who have been here awhile will get along. If your new those people may not even acknowledge you, unless its negative and assuming. Be yourself, even though some think its a bad term to use, and either you will like its after time or leave. Its always your choice anyways regardless.
@BgstickTeddyBea Well said. You see the whole pic with clear eyes. It makes me sad about that woman leaving even tho I don't know who she is.
@achetocuddle appreciate you.