How do you feel about someone using terms of endearment in their very first message to you? Do you find that too familiar? I'm also interested in how the pro cuddlers feel about it and how clients feel about it.
I'm very friendly, and it's not unusual for me to use terms of endearment with people I like a very short time after I've gotten to know them. However, in a first message as a professional cuddler, I wouldn't. It can be misconstrued as romantic or unprofessional. I don't mind if people use terms of endearment with me after a short time of getting to know me. But in a first message, depending on what's in the rest of the communication, it can give the wrong impression.