A potential client wants me to go swimming with them is that okay?
If there is any cuddling, it should be fully clothed. Tagging the mods since they should be able to give a more in depth answer.
@Charlie_Bear @netrunner @Shake49 @Mark
I mean I wouldn't but that's me
Swimming isn’t cuddling last time I checked. This website has gone off the rails with the original intentions of the site. Basically pay me and I’ll be your friend and do activities with you for a couple of hours. SMH.
@mike and don't forget the Burka
What does your gut tell you? Is he looking for a companion to do something he enjoys, or just trying to get you in a swimsuit? Have you cuddled with him before? Does he have any karma?
@WriterGF Yes to all that Very great advice
@Midnight01 https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/16723/secondary-services-our-policy
Where do you see the site going off the rails? If you see pros offering services that that are not aligned with that post linked above and you do not think they are here for the right reasons, feel free to report.
Also swimming would not fall under platonic cuddling as wearing only bathing suits are not platonic attire; at least for the purposes of this site.
@Charlie_Bear Thank you! I'm new to this site specifically so I wanted to make sure I was following the rules
Yeah I like cuddling and I like to leisurely float in the pool; doing both at the same time doesn’t even sounds appealing to me.
This Summer I went swimming This Summer I might have drowned But I held my breath And I kicked my feet And I moved my arms around I moved my arms around.
Swimming? What madness ! Next thing you will be walking, or skipping rope , or riding a tandem bicycle like they do in fancy Euro countries.
Yes, this site is supposed to be for cuddling. I don't understand when they offer to be a plus one. Dinner date, travel partner. Now you are hiring a dating escort.
I couldn’t say anything better then writerGF.
@MaxCuddle Adding on those things means adding on time, which means additional money.
Swimming is an excellent way to destress. If he/she is looking to have you join them for a swim pre-cuddle, consider it an ice-breaker prior to you guys cuddling. What you do prior to cuddling to get to know each other or warm up to the notion is completely up to you guys. Swimming is relaxing and comforting so I wouldn’t pass on it. If there’s any worry about wearing a swimsuit that’s revealing, there are such thing as body suits or wet suits that surfers and triathlon athletes wear all the time, some Olympic swimmers even wear them. You could easily swim in one to cover your body while you enjoy your swim. It should t impede a relaxing swim with someone. I consider it as therapeutic as taking a walk with a cuddler by your side, except that there’s water and lanes
PrettyLuv makes good points.
Based on the reports we see, their intention is probably not just swimming. Please consider your safety and the reality of their intentions if they are paying to spend time with you.
@PrettyLuv If it’s enthusiasts cuddling sure, though this was asked by a pro and would not be allowed for them.
@Charlie_Bear I am going with a pro tomorrow so I snapped a pic to see if I am within CC TOS: