Would you cuddle you? 🤔

cuddlefaerycuddlefaery
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Thought experiment for y'all:

If you came across a cuddler with all the same traits and behaviors as you, would you cuddle them? (Be fully honest with yourself here)

Would you cuddle 5 year old you?

Did your answer change, and why?

Knowing your answers to these, might it change how you approach other cuddlers?

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  • KatotaKatota

    Would you cuddle you?

    Yes! I will cuddle me. I will cuddle me...So hard!😁😜🤪

  • Minestrone101Minestrone101

    @Katota

  • JubalJubal

    I would not cuddle adult me with the same traits and behaviors. Now if other adult me had complementary traits and behaviors, my answer would be different.

  • HoosCuddlingHoosCuddling

    Tricky question. My first answer is that I'm not looking to cuddle other men, so I wouldn't be interested in a MAN with the same traits and behaviors as me.

    But if I saw a woman with a polite, respectful profile like mine? I'd be interested. And, if I cuddled someone who was a nice cuddler, had completely platonic intentions, and was a good conversationalist in our session (I believe I'm all those things) then I would definitely want to repeat the session, too.

  • SuperManCuddlesSuperManCuddles

    Yes, I cuddle “Everyone”, so would definitely cuddle someone like me or me at any stage of life. Some ideal characteristics that I look for in cuddle buddies are positive energy, empathy/caring about others, understanding, accommodating and respectful.

  • CuddleHugs01234CuddleHugs01234

    @Jubal 💯

  • Snickerdoodle17Snickerdoodle17

    I make every effort to be a good cuddle buddy. I would definitely cuddle myself, at any age.

  • AuroradreamAuroradream

    I would cuddle me at any age! I think some of the past versions of me could have used more cuddles at different life stages. Also I think it's lovely and rare to cuddle a soft and sensitive sweet and funny lady. I would love my hugs 🤗🤗🤗

  • JustPlaneCuddleJustPlaneCuddle

    I absolutely love this thread topic! This is something I have discussed with many clients in the market to become cuddlers themselves and I think it needs to be talked about more frequently.

    I would absolutely cuddle myself. I think 5-year-old me would be so enthralled with my cuddle environment and the fidget options I have for the neurodiverse to feel more at home. I might not get out of a session what others could because I had a boatload of touch in my home and felt safe in my childhood, but I would not have any issues with my practice. My answer as I age would only change for the better as I could more completely understand the profoundness of human touch. 21-year-old me needed the service I provide and it would have healed a space in me, perhaps my inner child, that was wounded at that time of my life. I 110% would cuddle me so hard!

    I’m interested to see where this thread goes and how others respond.

  • Matt462Matt462

    Me and myself are too much alike, I think we’d clash!

  • [Deleted User]emotionalsponge (deleted user)

    If I got to talking with myself and realized the difficulties and struggles and insecurities, yes I would do my best to try and give a little escape time.

    But at the same time, different people have reacted differently to me. I have introduced myself in different ways, gone through different stages where I certainly had some weird tendencies, and I'm sure there were times when I approached someone and everything all spilled out wrong and they were maybe creeped out or turned off by it. (I think that's how you use turned off? English yayy)

    I do think a lot (maybe too much) about how I come across both in public and private settings. There is definitely maturing to go through and one can never learn too much about how to act around others, politeness and kindness and those internal changes that happen to make you a genuine person and not just someone being polite for the sake of it.

    But I do think I would cuddle me (:

  • biancalovecraftbiancalovecraft

    @Katota you know I had the same damn thought 🤣🤣🤣 so glad it wasn't just me!
    Gonna go dance with my Stevie Nicks shawl now😂 goodbye horses....💃

  • sunnysideupsunnysideup

    I also don’t like cuddling guys, but I would cuddle the female version of me

  • [Deleted User]MaverickLegend (deleted user)

    I have conversations with myself I hold my own hand I walk with my shadow, so yes, I would cuddle me now or five years ago

  • ShaneSchruteShaneSchrute
    edited October 2023

    No. Because I’d be too busy making awesome YouTube prank videos where people think they’re in the Matrix because they are seeing me in two places at once.

  • SnugglyMelSnugglyMel

    Absolutely :)

  • TxTomTxTom

    I would block me.

  • delightedonedelightedone

    @SuperManCuddles excellent choice. I feel similar. I am respectful, accommodating and I met my partner where they are at.

    @emotionalsponge yesss! I spend way too much time thinking about how others perceive me. I try and just relax and be there for my cuddle partner to the best of my ability. It seems to work😊

  • CharlieBearCharlieBear Mod

    I would definitely cuddle current me. As for five year old me, I might be too busy trying to get him to understand which companies he needs to invest in.

  • JubalJubal
    edited October 2023

    Just had an irreverent thought regarding the guys responding with "I would cuddle a female version of me" (and this applies to me too lol):

    Loki Laufeyson and Sylvie Laufeydottir

  • achetocuddleachetocuddle

    I would like to have met someone like me at any of my ages to cuddle and be friends with.
    @TxTom LOL.

  • LovelightLovelight

    Yes! I actually thought about it before and wish I could create a duplicate of myself. 😅

  • stormydaycuddlestormydaycuddle Mod

    Absolutely not. 😂

  • Mike403Mike403

    I avoid me like the plague.

  • RunawaycuddlesRunawaycuddles

    I would absolutely cuddle another me!! The only reason I wouldn't cuddle five year old me is I'm 30, that ain't my kid or a close friend's kid and cuddling random five years olds is fucken weird 🤣

  • sunnysideupsunnysideup
    edited October 2023

    @Runawaycuddles Yeah, I would find that odd. I also don't like holding other people's babies, yet it was forced upon me at one of my friends Thansgiving get togethers

    @cuddlefaery being more self aware of what I look for in a cuddle partner makes me more aware of what others might look for in me, for sure

  • KingsportCuddleKingsportCuddle

    "Sometimes when I'm alone, I just love to cuddle!"
    -Fez, "That 70s Show"

  • Mela_BMela_B

    I would absolutely cuddle me. I love me.

  • WestsideMarcWestsideMarc
    edited October 2023

    @cuddlefaery I would definitely cuddle a female version of myself. I might even go as far as to say that that is my purpose for being here. I like who I am, and what I have to offer here so the answer is a definite yes.

    As far as the part about cuddling a five-year-old version of oneself I’m not really sure I understand what you’re getting at.

  • CSnMUS87CSnMUS87

    Nah, not unless it's a variant like Loki and Sylvie. I doubt 5 year old me would want to sit still for that either. 😂 Probably would just end up playing video games together.

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