@cuddlefaery what an eloquent wise woman you are. Enjoyed reading your comments.
I started reporting members who ask for non platonic services. So far three banned.
@Tatsy 👏👏👏 Keeping these streets clean. I do think cuddling is an exercise of creating and enforcing boundaries.
In other news , about 15 years ago on this day, Shane Mosley pulled a major upset and kod Antonio Margarito to win the #1 welterweight crown for a year. Who knew Mosley would reclaim such heights some 7-8 years past his prime ?
I sure hope platonic cuddling exists on here, because I'm here on my couch with my blanket with sleeves watching movies and posting all over this site to pass the time hoping I can someday meet another woman forsome platonic cuddles. 😎
Literally all I'm looking for . New friend, calm ,chill ,cuddle ,laughter,company,but with acceptance we not looking for more
Hey:) I know platonic cuddles exist because I have a childhood friend whom I used to babysit, and we stayed platonic and cuddly like watching films cuddling.
I am also a health care worker and cute little old ladies pull me into cuddle them when they scared and I am given almighty big hugs after patients relieved after a procedure gone well 💖 😊
Also recently experienced my 1st proper booking as a new professional cuddler here, and I thought I took my time ( 2months)!! To get to know my 1st client so well, I was still worried about what if he or I!! Start fancy each other, after all we both human: but NOPE, no worry there: it was amazing how automatically we cuddled in a way where no physical issues were present and sooo strange but sooo beautiful how much we both enjoyed the cuddle session and did not want it to end, but no sensual feelings were there ie it was perfectly pure, soul nourishing for both of us. So now I know how genuinely lovely health and well-being benefits can be achieved by innocent cuddling 😊
It doesn't exist for me .
To answer the thread, yes. You can figure a lot out through messaging, audio or video calling, meeting. Repeat as required if uncertain, terminate if in doubt.
I wouldn't even mind vetting messages people get and being an observer on calls but I probably wouldn't be considered trustworthy or a reliable vetter being so new, without a picture and little karma. Also it depends how many people need it, odd one happy to give my view, loads I couldn't as my time is massively restricted as it is so would need to charge.
Over time people may figure it out themselves anyway although it only takes one ruinous experience so care is needed.
I’ve had mostly the same experience on here, which led me to close my account completely a few years ago. Hoping that there are some genuine clients in need of actual cuddle therapy out there, so I’m starting over with a new accusing. I had two amazing clients on here so far, and about 20 failed screenings.
Yes!! I created an account 11 days ago. I've already had 3 sessions with pro's. All with explicit boundary rules, written and verbal. It was easy to stay within those boundaries and have awesome cuddle time. I like the clear boundaries to cuddle within. There's no guesswork of "Is this Ok?" Or committing a violation because of vague rules. I would advise all cuddlers to have a zero tolerance policy. End session immediately. Make it clear ahead of time that is what you'll do, and have already done in the past. Be fierce. As a gentleman, I really gravitate towards strong, purposeful women.
@Expecting_Magic perfect! 🤗🤗🤗 I envy anyone who gets to cuddle you.
From a once physically very active male - Cuddles are very important!
Now that I am semi-disabled due to serving. I have fought in desperate places but meeting a cuddle partner is terrifying.
Us guys have to screen female cuddly buddies too.
@Cuddles1971 First off, thanks for your service and the sacrifices you’ve made for our country. It’s a reality for most of us to be terrified of that first-time cuddle session, It’s a bit scary, even more so if we have any disabilities! What you said about screening females is definitely true, really really important to be careful and we can’t assume everyone is here for the right reasons! Lots of 🤗🤗🤗 for you.
It is really upsetting that I have to walk away from this platform as I really do not want to spend time and energy to weed out horny dudes on the site that is strictly platonically intended. It’s not right that I have to do all of that in a space that is intended to be safe. When someone messages you they agree to cuddle rules so why are they thinking they can bend or break them?
@Tatsy - They think it's a game and love the thrill of rule breaking. It's disgusting especially when there are other websites to go to for their non-platonic needs.
I'm sort of surprised this is a significant issue because there's already websites for sexual activity all over the place and someone can get in serious, serious trouble for the wrong touch when all that was agreed upon was cuddling.
I feel compelled to also add that I saw someone mention that asking for boundaries was a red flag. I think all men should ask that very question in this situation. I don't think it is silly to consider the possibility that someone may not like having arms around their tummy or their waist, not like their shoulders touched, not like to hear deep breathing, etc. The way the world works sorta makes it incumbent on men to seek to accommodate the physical boundaries of other people. We are usually bigger, stronger, and all that. Also, men have a body reaction and whether or not they get up or move around should be influenced by whether the cuddle buddy is fine with just ignoring it, which is a boundary issue. This would not be a situation where you want it to happen because it can creep out someone and no good could come of it popping up, but its not shameful.
@Alec483 exactly my thought- so many other sites for sexual activities.