@Mike403 People are hard to "read"! If you even question whatever was said in the slightest, just move on! This site's supposed to be about comfort, not drama!!
Btw those men do understand the word “platonic” but many men get off on pushing women.
@bobadevotee Very true!😁👍 Those are the ones that I delete and block the most.😏
Lol I hate it when people act like you need to be attracted to cuddle.
Thank you!👍
I too can't stand that kind of logic, I have connected with many men (and I have rejected many) who think that way.🙄 I understand preferences (as I have read comments from men here who have said "I prefer cuddling women that I find attractive ") but I'm not interested in being attracted to my cuddle buddies. I am interested in getting acquainted with them as people (with the possibility of a friendship) and then moving on to cuddling. 😁 As long as they're respectful of me and my boundaries, are NON-SMOKERS and have awesome body and oral hygiene habits...Then we can definitely cuddle, not a problem. 😁
I didn't join up on CC to date or marry anyone🤚😑, just to cuddle and watch movies.😁👍
Hopefully to just watch horror movies one day while cuddling , BUT I haven't connected with any horror loving cuddle buddies yet.😌 Lol! Still hopeful.😁👍
@Katota lol you’re a kinder soul than me. I stopped respecting preferences long ago, and instead I ask that we all think deeper and analyze why anyone has a “preference” 🤔 Because I’ve seen some people have racist and bigoted views due to “preference”, thus I don’t respect the whole preference assertion anymore.
Any man who’s actually honest about why he prefers cuddling those he’s attracted to, knows the answer is never a good or innocent one.
Big reason I love the guy I’m with. He interrogates deeply held beliefs and arrives to the actual, dark conclusion. He knows for a fact that you don’t need to be attracted to cuddle someone. He understand it’s actually platonic and if he had cuddle needs outside of me, it could be an overweight man he’s not attracted to, and that would satisfy the cuddle need. He’d cuddle anyone if he JUST needed the cuddle. He knows the issue with all these bozos demanding their cuddler be attractive is just a problem with most men over sexualizing things. Lol sorry got off topic but I love my man 🥰🥰🥰 Wishing peace and love to you
@bobadevotee I very much appreciate everyone that cuddles overweight men they are not attracted to because I have gotten to cuddle so many people and I am positive it’s not due to any attraction they may have 😅
@CharlieBear as a fellow chubby bearded bear of a fella believe me when I say that a little personality goes a long way . And I wouldn't count us out as unattractive , there's a website for everything and you and I would be kings on some that I've seen 😂
@pmvines Hahaha I have never seen these sites but now I’m intrigued 😂
And I gotta say, the anxiety and fear that I would normally face when meeting someone is not present here because attraction is not a factor, and I am all for it. I don’t think I’d be able to meet anyone if that’s why I was doing it. That is way too stressful for me.
@CharlieBear maybe it's age but I just have gotten to the point where I give zero effs about what anybody thinks of me , including appearance . I think once we break through that wall anxiety and self consciousness is no longer a barrier . As much of an acquired taste as he was , Chris Farley is an excellent example of this . He owned his appearance and had the confidence and attitude to pull it off .
I ask that we all think deeper and analyze why anyone has a “preference” 🤔 Because I’ve seen some people have racist and bigoted views due to “preference”, thus I don’t respect the whole preference assertion anymore.
Agreed. CuddleComfort™ should do away with all profile photos. Photos only serve to reinforce those -ism based preferences.
Nobody should see any photos of anyone else until after a booking is made. Then, for safety reasons only, a quick thumbnail photo is permitted to be exchanged between the two parties.
And CuddleComfort™ should carefully scrutinize the profiles of all "straight males" to make sure these bozos are also cuddling with an overweight man he’s not attracted to, and not just... say... for example, an attractive 20-something woman with selfies of herself in a pretty white dress.
Photos are completely unnecessary for platonic cuddle/s.
@bobadevotee Even if I did the necessary soul-searching and worked up the wherewithal to cuddle with another man from this site, there's still the fact that I'd have to meet an individual who's statistically several times more dangerous than those I'd prefer to cuddle with anyway. No thanks
@SergeantCub yet you expect a woman to meet up with you and encounter that same danger?
Hilarious, every small minded male response just reminds me why I love my man and […] 98% of the rest of em 🥰🥰🥰 Keep em coming boys, it’s great material for me and my partner to laugh at
Reported and reviewed. Removed a word. [CharlieBear]
OMG! @pmvines and @CharlieBear ! You guys made me snort reading those!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
And after finally getting the (too short) opportunity to have cudds with PM... He's absolutely correct about personality and the energy a person brings to a session!! Nothing matters as much as those things for an awesome cuddle together! I don't turn down anyone as a client (barring those who give off "non-platonic" or "ax-muder-y" vibes) and I always come away with super positive experiences! 😎😁
@RedFox16 too sweet of you to say. And yes time was way too short but we will always have waffles and grits ...
@bobadevotee your posts are just as good of a laughing material. So keep em coming as well.
I'm an overweight middle age man
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@lonelytauros What?!😱 So you're NOT a tiger in a tree in real life? There goes my "cuddle fantasy" of tiger cuddling with random strange tigers in a tree. 😁🐯
Bummer.😔😜
Sorry @TxTom , we will invite you to the next one.
as a fellow chubby bearded bear of a fella believe me when I say that a little personality goes a long way
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@pmvines Lol! As a another fellow fatty, I agree with that too.😊 Personality trumps looks any day, that is very true.😉 As one of your cuddle buddies, I adore your marshmallow physique and winning personality to match.😁👍
And I wouldn't count us out as unattractive there's a website for everything and you and I would be kings on some that I've seen
THIS is true!👍👍👍
A lot of men and women prefer bigger bodies over not so bigger bodies when it comes to dating or even marrying.😁
Many years ago, I was active on a dating site called BBWRomance (I think that's the name?🤔) it was dedicated to just fat people (men and women) looking to date in various ways.😁 Myself, I never found "love" or long term relationship with anyone in real life on there. However I did chat with many men from various states, but seeing that I wasn't interested in the "long distance stuff" all that occurred was just chatting. 😁
I'm no longer active there, I left the site many years ago.😉
Lol!😆 But yes, there are dating sites open to dating and/or marrying fatties like us out there. There are also interracial dating sites, Dog Lovers dating sites, even Headbanger dating sites🤘😝, if you're a major metal head and want to date another metal head to go to metal concerts with. 😆 Yep, there's a lot of dating possibilities out there just put Google to the test and you'll find them!😁👍
@CharlieBear Psst!🤫😜 There's even a Werewolf🐺 dating site out there, YES I did check it out cuz I'm weird like that. 😁🤪😜
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@Katota Flagging for leg humping and grabbing my taser.
@bobadevotee Nope! I don't expect any woman to do anything. I'm just providing my perspective on why it's not as simple as "Oh, you don't wanna cuddle with dudes? You must be a homophobe, so get over it. Kthx."
@Sooson Fine!🙄 Is this better?😁
I forgot about the taser haha. Will fat dudes feel the taser?
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@Katota lol well it seems platonic and semi consentual so I'll give it a pass
@Sooson YAY!😁
@Katota well every once in a while, I might climb a tree to save a kitty and I do eat frosted flakes and I do like Tony the tiger, so I’m guessing that’s close enough? 🤷🏻♂️😂