How does one prepare for a hug? The science of hugging, should we study this? Is this something to be left to magic, as it seems to show the sum of the relationship. We have choices that include not hugging, or giving hugs. It is amazing that we have a website devoted to connecting huggers. Is a hug just a hug? I believe yes and no. There's an energy being shared, that has been broken down to a chemical, oxytocin that we can agree on. But is there more? Can our intent amplify this chemical? Or reduce its effects. If we could measure the effects what would it show? An emogee would be great as it communicates emotions simply. It feels so much more powerful to me. In retrospect, I believe pondering of the event would reduce its benefits almost certainly. Kind of a mind no mind type of thing. We've all had the side hugs, one arm thing, the list goes on, but I believe the preparation for the hug mentally is the key. How is this done? Expect nothing. (and always growl when you hug, people love that) (I'm kidding)..but the preparation seems to be the key.
I have a friend I've known for 5+ years..will not hug me...it used to really bother me now it's a game..I've mastered the no expression pleasant face. I put no effort into the gesture now and I'm not disappointed (it still really hurts) ..it's so odd. But..I do overthink things.
One day when the hug evolves because of websites like this, humans will get the message that our universe is immensely more powerful because of our sincere hugging efforts, and maybe eventually we will use hug energy to create and power things. Maybe a wristband that measures hug energy causes a bell goes off when the hug is perfect. (Congratulations that was a 6)
I dream.
Thoughts?