What does energetic connection means to you? What are great ways to energetically connect with someone during a session? Let's help each other.
I always like to have the following during a cuddle session for optimum energy connection with someone:
1) Jumper cables 2) Defibrillator 3) Lightning cable 4) and I always make sure I’m connected to a 5G network
lol, Tor...you crack me up.
@renaissance369 first off, sorry that some people here continually turn a sincere post into a joke.
I’m trying to think of certain intentional behavior in the session that could create that energy. Is it a physical (platonic) or mental connection? Sharing energy or chemistry in a session, I think I get what you’re talking about, and I think a natural cuddle chemistry would (or not) just occur between two people.
I don’t know if it can be predicted through a text, phone or video chat. (But I believe it’s possible that the words written or the way they communicate might reveal there could be chemistry.) I really look/hope for that also. Sometimes we just might magically click! And to me it’s not especially about appearance But some kind of attraction would probably help, it’s just the way we react to each other when together.
I have a pacemaker/defibrillator. Cuddle sessions with me are "shockingly" amazing 😂
@lonelytauros 😄😄
I'd rather have a solid, relaxing connection than an energetic connection for a cuddle session.
When you say energetic.. I'm assuming you are talking about energy exchange? If so yes it can be very powerful. I actually felt it from someone so strong I had to ask if they were into energy work or reiki. But they had no idea what I was talking about🤣 So it's good if both people understand and are in tune with the concept. But I tend to believe in all that froo froo stuff😁
I took it as meaning inactive mental exchange of energy, not physical workout exercise energy lol. Some people here… 🥹
I have a troubled relationship to spiritual/mystical beliefs & practices. The idea of something being energetic in a spiritual or emotional way is difficult to pin down. Shaman, gurus and others use this word as if everyone just instinctively knows what it means. But as someone who leans more towards fact based thinking I wanted a definition; not an assumption. So I came up with this:
Energetic is when a force is present that is sometimes exerted upon the non-material aspects of the physical world and/or other dimensions including its own parallel spirit world. This force affects the mind, body, spirit, and/or intellect of any living thing including corporeal beings (who may or may not be aware of it) as well as non-corporeal beings who can also control or affect this energy force in part or in whole. This force can interact with material inanimate nonliving objects but this is an exception. Energy can be stored in objects and/or act as conduit through a shaman, other energy worker who is working through trauma or other powerful actions.
I hope this helps.
To me, energetic means high physical activity and I don’t want a high physical activity cuddle session. The opposite is preferable, the lower the better.
Which version was OP asking about? The comments here are all over the place.
@robroo
Cuddle sessions with me are "shockingly" amazing
There's an eye catching phrase for your bio 😆
What does energetic connection mean to me? When I try to visualize "energetic connection", I picture being in a defined space with another person where we flow in and out of each other's aura in sync. This could be physically, mentally, or emotionally. We could be moving parallel to each other or in a yin and yang fashion. And the feeling created by this mimics balance overall.
What are great ways to energetically connect with someone during a session? Combing my thoughts, it seems the greatest sessions I've had where there was an energetic connection, we were able to connect over a common thing. Music is popular for me. Sometimes even a particular topic of conversation. Whatever it has been, it has generally been a positive issue and I and my cuddle partner have been able to bounce off of each other without creating wide gaps and/or meet at a common point and move parallel. There are some instances where this just is not possible - the energy is just OFF and there is no connection whatsoever. I just don't cuddle with that person anymore.
Makes sense to me! 😂 💜
Eye contact. Active listening. Say their name. That is how you form genuine. connection.
What if you can't do eye contact?
@Bripic @IronLemon Too much eye contact and overuse of one's name tips the scale to the kiosk-at-the-mall-guy trying to sell you lotion with his fancy accent, though. 😆
They can be powerful tools, but only if used judiciously.
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I tend to rarely use people's names. A name is a very powerful word. One shouldn't overuse it.
To me, energetic connection would pertain to a metaphysical one. Especially since I do energy, healing and energy work. Some of the ways I connect in this manner would be to hold space for somebody. To ground them and relax them. To be a nurturing presence.
@Bear Yes you do and you are and it's appreciated! My empathy makes me naturally aware of people's energy, I've attuned myself to read that energy, then perceive some bit of someone's strengths or challenges. When a cuddle client is receptive to this type of connection I either share some wisdom or just flow my own happy peace into their mind or heart or shoulders for example. To me that represents stress, loneliness, and hard work. Usually the things I perceive relate to those three. I always speak of things in a positive manner. For example-"Cuddle friend, your mind is telling me it's always active with critical thinking and problem solving, let's share some ways you can calm and quiet that busy mind" I love when this exchange opens up deep talks and shared healing 🙏🏻
Yeah, not looking for an energetic connection. Looking to relax.
It depends on the cuddler. Some people just have the energy you need to exchange with while others don't. I've had a couple and it was great, I've had others less energetic but they were cool too. Probably like a psychedelic drug, it will affect you differently how, when and where - also the who matters. I don't think it can be standardized. So many factors when it comes to people. Size, smell, smile, tone, attitude all factor in to what you need at what point.
I'm actually a bit surprised that anyone would take "energetic connection" as anything other than metaphysical. Cuddling and calisthenics simply do not mix.
@IronLemon I'm a bit bemused by that, too, but I imagine it's due to very logical/literal thinking, or a conservative upbringing, such as mine. (I've been learning sooo much, the past several years. 😳)
As for the OP's question, I don't look for any type of energy...I still don't know much about the concepts of "energy", "vibrations", etc.
I just love connecting with people who are genuine, and who care about reciprocating and not simply taking. 🔄
@Bear I’d love to hear more! It’s so cool to see that you’re an energy worker! I’ve started doing energy work recently, too. It’s something I started doing spontaneously after I had a particular experience of spiritual awakening a couple months back. It feels like I’ve unlocked a new skill, and I’m not really sure how to incorporate it into my cuddle sessions yet. However, I can’t seem to avoid doing it when I’m giving a shoulder rub, for example. 🤔💕⚡️