@Morpheus I just went ahead and updated my profile please feel free to look it over see if there's anything I need to add or take away.
When the client arrived I greeted him explained that I had the couch ready for the session as my bedroom was a mess, he asked if he could strip down to his boxers. I declined he said he felt uncomfortable ( because I said no to him stripping to his boxers haha )
@g_w_t_w no the only paid me half of what the full session was.
Mind you my apartment is clean clean. Like I spent this morning vacuuming disinfecting my furniture and making sure there was no cat hair ( I have 2 cats) Ive got a designated parking spot and I don't live in a bad area. So I dunno. I don't feel like I did anything wrong on my end.
@SheaBear36 Ugh, I think you may have dodged a bullet there. He was testing the water. He would have tried something I am pretty sure. Stay smart and safe.
@gem7 oh, he most definitely was. I don't disagree with you there.
@SheaBear36 He felt uncomfortable because you said no to him stripping to his undies??! I see why you laughed. The audacity & piss take! I Good on you! Jusy too ridiculous.!! I'm glad you are ok and hope you are truly. Hope you have a better experience next time.
@4cuddles me too. This is very easy work and helps my mental health too! I just don t tolerate people pulling shit anymore haha
I am very sick of people who want to talk nonstop before the cuddle. I'm like book it, we exchange info, be there, talk then. Pay me. Bye. As much as I care for people I am sick of people who want you to be at their beck and call forever over the 200 they gave ya.
@BerrySweet you can always ask them if they have a gf/bf/partner already, if a person doesn’t have one, they would be horny as hell. So some platonic cuddling is impossible. And have you ever cuddled with some people that just want some cuddle. For me if I can find one cuddle buddy, I would stick with the one. Make time for each other.
Isnt the whole concept of this website to waste time?
if a person doesn’t have one, they would be horny as hell.
Nah!👎
@magpie17201 Lol!😆 I have known SO MANY married/attached people (men and women) who are very horny...They're just not horny for each other!😆😆😆 And many of them refuse to divorce/break up, it's hilariously sad that these "couples" exist in reality, but they do.🤷♀️😊
So some platonic cuddling is impossible.
No! It's very possible to those who actually want that.😊
have you ever cuddled with some people that just want some cuddle.
Yes I have!😁
Nancy and Dale Gribble are an example of such a "couple".😁
And YES married/attached "couples" like this do exist in real life not just in cartoons.😊👍
@SheaBear36 I'm with you!!! I won't tolerate that bs anymore either
Being asked to cuddle “skin-to-skin” instantly makes me want to vomit. I’m on the asexual spectrum so I never assume anything or intentions of the person I cuddle, but I’m also not naive. Even when potential clients ask me about what I wear during the session, it’s a red flag.
I’ve sort of been taking a long hiatus from the cuddle realm but I think I’m back now. I sort of just base my decision on my energy at this point.
A lot of people don’t even read my location/age or the first sentence of my profile. It’s continuing to happen right now. like the one I got today “can you cuddle right now?” He’s in Texas. I replied “sure come on over” waiting for him to ask for my address. I’m sorry, but there are a lot of very low (lacking intelligence) level people on this site. Constantly shocks me.
Men will always be thirsty. It will always be this way. Sorry your time is being wasted though.
Love how trying to help a newbie turned into more man bashing.
Not really seeing men bashing? That comment screams "not all men!" Which is so irritating to me.
All of these people who are talking about their negative experiences have had positive things to say about the site and obviously cuddle with men successfully.
Newbies should absolutely be warned of the fact that this site is not guaranteed zero danger. I've had weird experiences with men on this site myself and I'm not attractive or a woman, lmao.
One of my pet peeves is when people are talking about their negative experiences and someone comes in and defends themselves "I don't do that! Not all of us do that!"
Better to assume a man is going to hurt you and be wrong, than to assume a man won't hurt you and be wrong. It sucks but that's the state of our society right now. I just know who I am, so when someone wants to say bad things about straight white men I'm not offended. When a pro cuddler has a 10 item list of rules for their own safety, I don't take it personally. I'm happy to oblige.
No reason to defend anyone here, I don't think anyone specifically attacked you but maybe I missed a post.
I am very sick of people who want to talk nonstop before the cuddle.
Could you politely inform them of a pre-booking messaging limit beforehand, and enforce it if they go over?
I'm like book it, we exchange info, be there, talk then. Pay me. Bye.
I love the focus on making a genuine connection with the client.
As much as I care for people I am sick of people who want you to be at their beck and call forever over the 200 they gave ya.
Have you considered raising your rates?
@lonelytauros , Monarch of the Memes.
@SheaBear36
This is very easy work
Thanks for being a pro who admits that. Most pros come on the boards and complain about how challenging and difficult pro cuddling is. It’s refreshing to see someone say otherwise.
@RachelSnugglesi
I’m pretty sure that if any potential clients read your lovely comment, you just lost them.
@needahug987
Men will always be thirsty
Does that mean women will always be thirst traps and try to work men for monetary gain?
@Morpheus Does ATM stand for Always Thirsty Men?
@TxTom and @lonelytauros , LOL. You two are riff royalty and I'm not worthy, lol.
@mulftor I just read your comment. Good point well-made.
I once had a client (not from here) tell me that he just got out of a sort of relationship and was looking for something or someone to replace that (i.e. - me). That immediately put up a red flag. Sure enough, he tried to touch me inappropriately and I had to ask him to leave. Dude was in his 70s, too! 😑
@mulftor So well-said, 💯 The reality that many people here need to recognize, but refused to.
@PixiePassions I’ve had that happen with Boomer men Quite often, it’s how they were raised.
I probably end up reporting 50% of the ones who contact me for all the seggsual suggestions. Another 25% get banned before I can even report them because they’re doing this to a lot of women. And out of the last 25%, I’d say 20% of them waste time or never respond after the initial contact. I cuddle once every 2-4 months MAYBE