It would help save a lot of time if you read the profiles of the pro you’re interested in booking.
It has the answers you’re looking for…
Best of luck 🤞🏼
Yes, I keep all the crucial information in a bullet point list at the top of my profile and still get tons of people who don’t seem to realize I have a two hour minimum and require at least 24 hours notice
There is a significant number of people who will not read profiles under any circumstances, and another group who will not do it unless forced to. These people are perfectly capable of reading, but not willing to do it. This is nothing to do with cuddling or this site, it's a general phenomenon.
There is a significant number of people who will not read... perfectly capable of reading, but not willing to do it... it's a general phenomenon.
Exactly.
Reading requires patience and an ability to comprehend. Who could possibly be bothered with that?
Yes I agree, I always read one several times before I reach out.
TLDR.
Some of this I am sure is just because people are lonely. I can't see this changing and don't think it is solvable.
And then they report you for being rude 😖
Honestly my favorite is when they tell you specifically, "I didn't read for profile but can you please tell me (x y z)" all of which is all clearly stated on your profile 😅
Yes, I read multiple times looking for grammatical errors. Sometimes I make suggestions on words that I would take out or words that I would add.
And if only pros would read the profiles of their clients, we would be in a perfect world.
@lonelytauros LOL there’s always room for improvement, right? 😅
@Morpheus I completely agree with you, it goes both ways.
I just assume that those who don't read or follow along with how to book probably have something else in mind. My policy is, if you can follow simple rules, you'll always get a response.
@CuddleDuncan Week said ! I would say more folks than not either do not read my profile before messaging or simply miss information within it. Some profiles can be quite long so I can understand where someone might be very excited or hyper focused on one thing or another and miss a detail.
And I gently berate those people, because they're grown adults and honestly... Just fckn do better. 🙃
I like it when a cuddler embeds a codeword or puzzle somewhere within her profile as a reading & comprehension screening tool.
@TxTom - I've done that before and I'm considering doing it again. 🙃
I will tell my story again which I’ve told more than once because this topic continually comes up.
I have hosted multiple times and when pros arrive, they will see that it’s obvious a female lives in my home, who do I live with and when I say my wife, they seem shocked even though for the last 9 years, my profile has said that I’m married.
I’m willing to bet that more pros don’t read clients profiles thoroughly than the other way around.
@Morpheus I've initiated contact with a Pro, messaged back and forth with the Pro, booked the Pro, and finally cuddled the Pro.
Never once, that I can tell, did she ever visit my profile.
@TxTom
Sounds about right
I take the time to read and take the time to add remove or clarify on my profile. When I had it up, I didn't have much time to add to it. so the new method has been working a bit better,
I didn't even know there was stuff to read, I just look at the pictures. Thanks for that info. good to know.
@Sooson Pictures can tell a whole story. And the words don't always match.
Some Pros save me a lot of time by having no profile.
Thank you!
Funny thing is, there’s more to deter me away from a pro in her profile than there is to entice me to book them.
@starrynitecuds haha no comment
Well as an Enthusiast, I have been asked this annoying question lately:
"How much do you charge?"
🙄🤦♀️
I just ignore and delete such questions now. 😊
Same @Katota! People seem to have stopped alternating their copy and paste messages.
Or messages that could ONLY make sense if there had been previous conversation before.
@Morpheus yeah, I’ve been screened by a fair number of pros that don’t even bother to look at my profile 🤔
LOL - Back when I was hiring pros, less than half of them even visited my profile before accepting a booking request (or us meeting for a cuddle). Maybe some of the drama over mismatched expectations we hear so many complaints about could be mitigated if BOTH parties read each other’s profiles.
From what I’ve seen, most men have very short profiles in comparison to most pros and if the man is asking to book, it MIGHT be worth at least taking a look at his profile before letting him into your home or meeting him in a hotel. 🤷♂️
I believe this issue is closely connected with another common complaint expressed by some people on the forum. People hiring pros SHOULD spend the time to read every word of a pro’s profile, even the profiles that that are well over 2,000 words (you know who you are). BUT pros have no obligation to respond to a message with even a simple, “no thank you” or “I’m not interested” because their time is too precious to waste responding to everyone who messages them.
Again, just seems like a double standard. 🤷♂️