If you request to cuddle and you don't hear back, should you try one more time or just move on?
I wouldn't send another message, plus you should be talking to multiple people. Are you talking about pros or non pros, either way I wouldn't send another message until they reply.
Thanks! Pretty much what I thought.
To quote myself,
I'll message once, and if necessary, wait a few days, and then reach out again. If still no response, I'll wait a month or so and then try messaging her one more time.
And,
Always be polite, brief, and very patient. Do not ever expect a response. But if you do receive one, treat it like a gift. Don't rush her. Go at her pace.
@jmdank good advice. Very often, in today’s culture, No answer is an answer. I wouldn’t keep messaging if there’s no reply. @TxTom 3 times with no answer?? My reaction to that is it’s a bit excessive, borderline desperate & creepy? Maybe you’re joking?
@g_w_t_w I would have ultimately missed some wonderful cuddles with a repeat Pro of mine had I not sent 2 or 3 messages.
She told me that, with a flooded inbox, my initial messages got lost. Then she got behind on her replies.
So, no, I'm not joking.
@g_w_t_w newbie women are always inundated, but after a month, it tends to slow way down and they start paying more attention to the nee messages that come in. It gets him back to the top of her DMs and can feel like an authentic interest in the sea of 1-message profiles with BANNED, Deleted and Deactivated next to them.
Yes makes sense possibly but that’s happened to me with a few people excessively messaging, it felt uncomfortable to me.
ETA I think that for me personally - I don’t do well with aggresion and I might react to the multiple messaging that way. That’s just me, others might love all that attention.
@g_w_t_w I'll be sure to send you only one message!
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lol actually, I think we’ve had more than one message haven’t we? I can’t remember, I’m sleep deprived.
I've noticed in the forum it always falls back to women lol. Strange, because I get a message from a guy, I message back then he goes ghost, happens at least three times daily ( low guess)
I have done @TxTom approach. I've had similar positive experiences that way. Someone else had mentioned at least two messages because of the inundation of Cuddlers somewhere in a previous post. Reasons people have mentioned that they couldn't reply right away.
Dealing with a heavy life and heavy workload. Dealing with a sick Or somebody passing away recently. The person not feeling well at that time. Been inundated with lots of messages.
There can be all kinds of reasons why they don't answer, not just lack of interest or similar.
If someone sent me a proposal and we haven’t spoken before and it was only a proposal that was sent, no details, intro or information, then I decline it and keep moving.
If they reached back out to me trying to inquire about a session then I’ll engage with them.
I find out where they live and stand outside their window with a boom box John Cusack style playing Peter Gabriel until they realize how much they love me
@pmvines change it up, Sledgehammer and Shock the Monkey are some of his finer songs, not like the sappy In Your Eyes love ballad.
The Perfect Opening Message (to a professional)
I'm a non-pro woman on this site, and here's what I look for in a first message.
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@pmvines Smh...That is SO LIKE, 80s Dude!🙄😁
Pay attention cuz, I used to "think" like YOU...😜
Nah, you gotta up your game now...I say that you splash on into the 90s with Mickey and Mallory Knox sh🤬t! LOL ! 😆
I mean nothing, NOTHING says I love you until a man delivers meat to MY HOUSE, takes me out on a midnight drive and makes wild monkey love to me. 🐵❤️ Brings me back home to help me kill my entire family (Lol) and then we go on a killing spree unto we finally get arrested together. Just to escape prison with a "Geraldo wanna be type talk show host" leading the way by shotgun! Lol 😆😆😆
Cuz, that's love man! THAT'S LOVE! 😆😆😆😆
I mean , I do drop a quick "hey baby, wanna cuddle" in their inbox first and give them 72 hrs to respond but how much patience does a dude need to possess in the age of the interwebs
Sledgehammer and Shock the Monkey are some of his finer songs, not like the sappy In Your Eyes love ballad.
I will admit those are excellent choices...For the 80s!😋👍
@starrynitecuds Nah for this, it's L7 and Marilyn Manson all the way!
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I mean , I do drop a quick "hey baby, wanna cuddle" in their inbox first and give them 72 hrs to respond but how much patience does a dude need to possess
@pmvines I mean that's "all good" for a start and all, but you gotta leave that boombox standing outside of windows schtick behind! Lol 😆😆😆
From here on out, think chaos and mayhem and you're on your way, my Dude! 😁👍
So the ladies trust chaos and mayhem more that John Cusack and Peter Gabriel? Noted
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@pmvines Lol! Yep, and meat and wild monkey love!🐵❤️
Don't forget that: MEAT 🍖 AND WILD MONKEY LOVE!🐵❤️
Write it down, if you have to. Lol! 😆😜
@pmvines Make sure the love is monkey, don't try to skimp on that with another animal...Cuz we know about that trickery!😜😆
Lol! One dude, try to "disguise" wild monkey love with wild alligator love...😬😬😬
I have not spoken to him since. 🤐😶
Gotta be monkey, no substitutes! 😁🐵
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Meat and monkey love wreaks of non platonic lol
@pmvines Lol! 🤣🤣🤣 True! 🤣🤣🤣
@pmvines But then again so is chaos and mayhem!😁
I think it's ok to send a follow- up just in case they may have over looked the message. Also it could be that they set up their account but just forget to log in or don't check their emails. Or could be a little overwhelmed with messages. Either way hope it works out for you. Virtual cuddles went 🤗🤗🤗
I have received more repeat inquiries than I have sent. And no, it's not a Chuck Norris joke.
@pmvines But MEAT can only be nonplatonic, if you HAM it up!😃
Ha! Get it? Lol 😆 😆 😆
I find out where they live and stand outside their window with a boom box John Cusack style
@pmvines So THAT'S where the music was coming from the other night!! 🤔😏😉
MEAT 🍖 AND WILD MONKEY LOVE!🐵❤️
@Katota OMG that killed me! I can't breathe from laughing 🤣🤣🤣