Guys Please respect boundaries!!

MelancholyMelancholy
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I'm really ticked off at some of you right now.
If a woman clearly says she has boundaries and is ONLY here for platonic cuddling, which is amazing since so many just want relationships or new boyfriends, then why the heck don't you respect that?
Now we lost another potential cuddler simply because she got fed up with you all trying to get into her pants.
Thanks for ruining it for the rest of us.
She was like a unicorn, I think she legit just wanted cuddles, nothing more. :(

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  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    I don’t think she was a unicorn. I have met many like her.

  • KatotaKatota

    I don’t think she was a unicorn. I have met many like her.

    @TheFunCartel Exactly! 😁👍

  • ladybug7ladybug7

    I don't ever EVER want another relationship. Friends is it. Stuffs stupid.

  • wilderdudewilderdude

    I don't think most of the people that do this sort of things are on the forum.

  • SunsetSnugglesSunsetSnuggles

    @Melancholy
    I'm sorry someone with pure intentions seems to have been driven away by the creepers.

    This is why when I click with someone, I like to get their contact info...this site is a revolving door, but that doesn't mean the friendships begun here have to be.

    ~ Sunset Snuggles

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  • musicfan32musicfan32

    Do you know how many of these cuddles are the ones offering more once the convo goes offsite?

  • SunsetSnugglesSunsetSnuggles

    @musicfan32
    Those ones definitely exist, which is why it's always best to stay on-site until you've gotten to know someone...and always book on-site, if dealing with Pro's.

    But there are also lots of sweet people who have been scared off, driven away, or flat-out assaulted, and thus left the site because other people won't respect the word "platonic".

    Thankfully we have the mods to tell the difference.

    ~ Sunset Snuggles

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  • [Deleted User]WriterGF (deleted user)

    To wilderdude's point, if those people are seeing your post, they likely don't care. If they had the capacity for shame, they wouldn't be on here looking to break the rules. All you can do is report and get them banned.

  • KatotaKatota

    I don't ever EVER want another relationship.

    😁

    @ladybug7 I'm alright with at least one more romantic relationship, as long as it exists within a Werewolf mating commitment. 🐺❤️😁

    I'll only platonic with humans now, no more beyond that. 😊

  • BlessedEnergy4UBlessedEnergy4U

    Too bad we can’t have a wall of shame … lol Ijs !!

  • MTexMTex

    Next time my boundaries are not respected I will be leaving immediately! I gave the last guy a chance & ended up bruised & sore from fighting him off. Never again!
    He was Banned but it doesn't change what he did.

  • DarlingNikkiiDarlingNikkii

    @MTex did you file a police report? That is sexual assault, and battery. I'm sorry that happened to you.

    @Melancholy A lot of women lie about these things for sympathy, and to go off site. Be careful, I don't trust when any guy comes out here with a sad story on behalf of a woman.

  • Mike403Mike403

    Why do guys get off on sexually assaulting someone? Most the fun is knowing that the other person is also into it otherwise it just makes you a creep. There are plenty of other websites to go to for those types of encounters. This isn't it.

  • MTexMTex

    @NikkiFM Yes, I contacted RAINN & they directed me to the local agency. I think it's considered kidnapping too because he wouldn't let me leave. We'll see what happens with that.

  • [Deleted User]WriterGF (deleted user)

    @Mike403 They come here because it's not allowed here. Part of the "thrill" is knowing they are breaking the rules.

  • jmdankjmdank

    Things like this can be reiterated but I doubt it will do any good, I don't know if it's a lack of emotional intelligence or morals, possibly both but it will take a drastic change in their mindset/beliefs for this to be corrected.

  • FixerOfPewsFixerOfPews

    Goodness @MTex I'm so sorry to hear that!
    I hope that sick freak gets locked up til the jail rots on top of him.
    Ugh.

  • MTexMTex

    @Specialist_Log thank you, I just don't want him to hurt anyone else.

  • wilderdudewilderdude

    @MTex that sounds so awful. So sorry you had to deal with that nonsense.

  • NickoliNickoli

    @Melancholy Where are all these women looking for relationships/boyfriends ? Asking for a friend.

  • SunsetSnugglesSunsetSnuggles

    @MTex
    I'm so sorry that happened to you.

    You posted: "He was Banned but it doesn't change what he did."

    This is so true. I once had a very creepy, erratic customer stay for hours at my Starbucks with only myself and my female barista closing up. A cop came and sat in his cruiser in the parking lot for us, but I couldn't help but think how useless that would be if this guy shot or stabbed either of us... Justice doesn't change the past. 🫤

    @Katota
    Ooh la la, for me it's Anubis...

    @Nickoli
    😂 Hopefully on a dating app, where they belong.

    ~ Sunset Snuggles

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  • MTexMTex

    @wilderdude thank you
    @SunsetSnuggles Very true 😵‍💫

  • KatotaKatota

    Next time my boundaries are not respected I will be leaving immediately! I gave the last guy a chance & ended up bruised & sore from fighting him off.

    @MTex

    Never again!

    I wouldn't blame you at all. 😔

  • KatotaKatota

    @Katota
    Ooh la la, for me it's Anubis.

    😁👍
    @SunsetSnuggles

  • MTexMTex

    @Katota Next time I will use my pepper spray!

  • SunsetSnugglesSunsetSnuggles

    @MTex
    Go grizzly...use bear spray. 😈

    ~ Sunset Snuggles

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  • MTexMTex

    @SunsetSnuggles Good idea 😁

  • OhioMikeOhioMike

    @NikkiFM yep same thought ! 👍

  • [Deleted User]WriterGF (deleted user)

    I often worry when I see people advise female cuddlers to "just get up and leave" ... what if he won't let you? You have no idea who this person is or what he may have done in the past. Even if he seems harmless in your public meeting ... so did Ted Bundy.

  • KatotaKatota

    @Katota Next time I will use my pepper spray!

    👍👍👍👍👍

    @MTex And if that's not enough, go McGuyver and make your own mini flamethrower! And burn his ass! 😁🔥👍

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