Nothing crazy. Thought maybe I should bring a box of chocolates my first time. Don't want her to think I have any nefarious intentions with a bribe though
Boxes of chocolate have long been associated with romantic intent, definitely might send wrong signal and creep her out.
Good point 😬
I'd give the gifts a miss until you know her better. I often bring little gifts to someone I cuddle with, but she and I have become pretty good cuddle friends I think and we have enough history where we both trust each other.
Also some people are leery of eating food from people they don't really know.
Give her a free membership to Cuddle Comfort. Tell her it was part of your inheritance so you are actually giving her a piece of you.
I've given candles but that's about it it doesn't get the wrong intent
Coconut water
If you want to give a gift but are afraid it will come across the wrong way , just send it over to me . That way you feel satisfaction of giving a gift without being boyfriendish. I won't mind.
On the first time ? Nope.
I don't think gifts would generally be a good idea unless its someone you have been seeing for awhile, and you want to give them a token of appreciation.
I bring the gift of cuddles and fart jokes
I’ve received honey… beautiful flowers, a candle. I feel like when people tip that’s a gift. Much appreciated never expected. I’ve had people leave their hotel room to me in order to use the amenities. Which is super sweet. I received coffee as a gift pre-or post Beverage kits lol But at the end of the day, the best gift is true presence … at the time and during the session. 🤍
as far as given gifts I have given candles, a small birthday gift gesture… also a cupcake for someone’s birthday.. incense with the tray. Endless hugs - yes they count. lol and a keychain that reminded me of someone.
@BlessedEnergy4U
I can promise to bestow upon you the finest of fart jokes and premium squishes. Coffee is a given, and mandatory lest I be a grumpy cuds
I just gave a cuddler a Starbucks gift card (it was from my landlord for Christmas and I don't drink coffee). I've seen him for a few months though.
I have had people give me chocolate right as they met me and it made me do a double take. but as long as they weren't creepy in other ways it was a nice gesture
someone gave me a case of kombucha that was my favorite gift!
@theHugAlchemist .. I did receive a multi pack of Reese’s peanut butter cups and you’re right I waited for the creepiness he was not. I did end up eating one because of my alcohol tolerance after being a bartender for 20 years. I figured One wouldn’t take me out but all three would. lol 😂 other than that I’ve never taken any other chocolates
@pmvines … WHEN we Do get to cuddle I expect no less from You … topped off with sass - a bit of an attitude(depending on the time of day- as in if the sun is still up lol) The coffee will be mediocre “really good” I will bring my own creamer(obv), but the laughs will be endless, only topped off with the best hugs and I will be leaving with one of your hoodies. 😎😂🥰❤️💛❤️💅🏼
My most amusing gift received from a cuddler was edibles brought from his own business of a variety of products. It was much appreciated by me! He was visiting from Colorado. I received candles and cookies also. And this one really special cuddler came all the way from Alabama, brought dinner. I think his name was Paul something… Flower Stalk? No….Paul Leaves? Paul Grape something? I’ll think of it. Great Cuddler though.
I have given gifts to cuddle partners. I've received coffee or meals from them as well.
@g_w_t_w Hmmm I wonder who that could have been ? Alabama ? Paul ? Did he also happen to provide the finest of fart jokes 😂 fyi dinner was great and cuddles were amazing from what I understand 🤔
Dear PMV, Honestly he was such a perfect gentleman and conversationist and Cuddler, I believe he never once told any of those jokes.
I’ve never given a gift but I’ve had pros give me gifts. That’s probably sounds kinda crappy on my part lol I had a pro bring me a cute gift bag with assorted chocolates in it, I had another pro give me a framed pressed flower (which I keep on my desk at work), I had another for give me one of those bracelets like ravers wear, I think they call them Kandi bracelets. I had a couple pros send me cards afterwards. It’s all been quite sweet.
I have been given a candle, potted plant, perfume, backlawa platters, chocolates, sweets. Magnet and keyring souvenirs from the cuddlers home country. Best of all ... A rock! I have Definitely received more gifts over the years, but these were the ones I remember! ( Sone might not be legal. So I better not announce them, lol )
I’ve received honey… beautiful flowers, a candle. I feel like when people tip that’s a gift. Much appreciated never expected.
@BlessedEnergy4U Agreed! I love these sorts of gifts. 💖
I received mushroom chocolates as a gift. So I had another cozy night with just myself 😃
It seems like anything edible is a safe bet to not give off an underlying motive.
We were out in public and I complimented a woman I thought was gorgeous. Then I went up to a rainbow stand and started looking at the items on display while he was in another aisle. Later on I got a Walmart delivery that had some cat litter and a rainbow cowboy hat. 🤠 Most people would be thrilled. I however was not bc the delivery came at a time when I'm with young family members who's parents don't know I cuddle. So there I was having to explain a fib on the fly and would've been just fine without doing that. I share this to show others that if you really need to give a gift to a cuddler let it be in person. Pretty please.
I've received many cash tips as gifts and at any amount that is always welcome and very appreciated. A small gift card for chocolate shop might be better or for a coffee shop. I know I'm weird about accepting food or drinks especially from a new cuddler. If it was a regular I would be more apt to accept it.
Timing is key, right @MeltMyWay ?
I was given a potted orchid by someone when we met for lunch. He told me he had had a difficult time finding anyone who would respond to his messages and was so happy that I did. We didn't cuddle, just had a very nice lunch and lots of good conversation. After our terrific first meeting, I definitely would have arranged a cuddle if he had the time. He lived several states away and was in my area looking for a house to buy. He ended up in another state, too far away. I thought the gesture of the potted orchid was very thoughtful.
@Huggycatbear absolutely
I've had people send me a tip as a gift and I have had a repeat client grab their office and me a gift of 🍪 cookies.
first time cuddles, not that much.