Old cuddlers

[Deleted User]CuriousPhred (deleted user)
edited February 28 in General

These pros appear in the "Nearby" feed on the website landing page when I log in in south Florida although they haven't been online in 3 - 4 months.
pros names and URLs removed. - BlueIris

They either have no karma or their last karma was from 2 years ago and these are just three examples.
If you're wondering why your profile isn't getting visited or you get no responses, this could be part of the explanation.
Probably the steadily increasing hourly rates and noticeable drop in folks being recently online contributes a lot too.
Just my thoughts.

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  • HappyHikesHappyHikes

    You cannot reference specific profiles in forum posts.

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    If you're wondering why your profile isn't getting visited or you get no responses, this could be part of the explanation.

    I don’t think they are wondering at all. There are several reasons for them not being on your availability menu that day—hiatus, family issues/responsibilities, job, divorce—the list is endless. These forums have had several threads like this in the past and it comes down to one thing—you don’t know. The follow up to you don’t know is why do you care so much about what someone else is doing? You are wasting your energy on something you can’t control.

    But I have had a few people that I have cuddled who have been on here quite awhile with little or no karma and when I asked why they are karma adverse they answered that they only do it on occasion or when they can and the less karma they have the less they are bothered. Usually this approach comes from somebody with kids and a full time job so their time is limited and valuable.

  • AdragayleAdragayle

    The nearby feed never changes. It shows members closest to your location regardless of when they last logged in.

    Using the search feature is a better option to use and will show active cuddlers in a specific area and can be customized to show those who logged on today, or the past week, etc.

    Also what @HappyHikes said, so you may want to edit your post and remove those links

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    Here’s a specific profile. Report it at your own peril:

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    @HappyHikes though is correct. You can’t post yours or anyone else’s profile on the forums. However my silhouette profile is easily found on the internet under Yoda.

  • BlueIrisBlueIris Mod

    Based on the post title, I thought this was going to be a discussion about cuddlers over 60. I'm so disappointed!! 😭

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel
    edited February 28

    @BlueIris i know. I opened it with a sharpened tongue if it was a slur against older cuddlers. But it wasn’t so my tongue is dull again.

  • MorpheusMorpheus

    I agree, thought the convo was gonna be about old farts like me 👋

  • HappyHikesHappyHikes

    This old guy is also bummed. 54 next Saturday.

  • BlueIrisBlueIris Mod

    @HappyHikes - Tower of Power would say, "You're still a young man . . . baby!"

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    @HappyHikes I thought the same thing until I hit 60. That’s when I really started to realize that I get to determine what is old to me. Your body may age, but maturity and perspective are always growing.

  • TxTomTxTom

    I don't emotionally invest myself in internet profiles, so it doesn't matter to me how long the profile has been around, or the last time it was active, or where it's located, or what the hourly rate is.

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    @TxTom I agree. Until the person materializes in front of me they might as well be a vapor as far as the profile is concerned.

  • JubalJubal

    Do we still have time to have this changed into a "bash old people" thread? .... oh, wait, according to AARP, I AM old people.

  • BlueIrisBlueIris Mod

    @Jubal - You're still a young whippersnapper as far as I'm concerned.

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    according to AARP, I AM old people.

    AARP are preppers. They start prepping you for your AARP geezer benefits at age 39. When I hit their magical “old” age for membership I quickly declined all services from them. It was a rejection of their relentless marketing and spam. That’s what gets old.

  • BlueIrisBlueIris Mod

    AARP has been bugging me to take out a membership ever since I was 50. I've never found they had anything to offer that I needed. A lot of the same stuff is available through AAA.

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    @BlueIris Yup. I have a AAA membership and I find it far more useful than AARP.

  • [Deleted User]CuriousPhred (deleted user)

    @Adragayle - thank you for your kind and informative response. Much appreciated.

  • TenderEmbracesTenderEmbraces

    Same. Lololol it appears we silver cuddlers think alike. Seasoned minds, looking for seasoned cuddles or so I assumed.

  • BearBear

    I thought it was gonna be about Old age cuddlers as well. I’m getting up there. I figured I’d look and it wasn’t what I was thinking and I forgot what that was and I just started reading until I got near the point where someone brought up that they thought it was about old people cuddling and now I’m remembered what I was thinking when I started.
    Just another old person rambling.

  • Goonie4lifeGoonie4life

    @CuriousPhred instead of using the pros nearby that is never accurate, use the search and choose "last signed in this week" or "last signed in less than a month ago."

    I thought this discussion was gonna be about people's opinions on what's the oldest cuddler you'd cuddle. 🤣🤣

  • AveryK84AveryK84

    I came to see if early 40’s was now considered old 😅

  • HollydollhugsHollydollhugs

    I also thought it was about older cuddlers 😂😂😂

  • biancalovecraftbiancalovecraft

    I ❤️ old cuddlers

  • chococuddler60chococuddler60

    I thought this was about older cuddles also. I am 61, I have had a few non pros contact and quite many more pros contact me. I just sometimes don't know if I can just chat with a pro without it costing me anything. I am not interested in paying for a cuddle. Especially when there are some non pros who I can cuddle with.

  • ShaneSchruteShaneSchrute
    edited March 4

    I am wondering about old cuddlers. Does being 51 make me an old cuddler? Is there a cut off age?

    Maybe it’s just the way you feel and act. In which case I am absolutely an old cuddler.

  • HollydollhugsHollydollhugs

    @ShaneSchrute then I’m a young cuddler at 56, Lolol

  • MonkeyNeedsAHugMonkeyNeedsAHug

    “Old cuddlers never die, they just rest in peace.”

  • great_pillow08great_pillow08

    Call me crazy, but “old” people are THE BEST!! They’re full of information that could be used to fix what’s wrong with modern society and they’re more likely to have ACTUAL morals and values relevant to what REALLY matters in life. They value things based on how useful they are instead of how they appear. And most importantly, they’re quiet, but nosey! The best home security system EVER is a quiet home surrounded by “old” people!! They freaking notice EVERYTHING and they gossip relentlessly. “Did you see ‘such and such’?” “Oh yeah! That was ‘so and so’…” I freaking LOVE “old” people!!!💝

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