I would love to be present and cuddle in a field in a meadow miles away from any artificial light and watch Halley’s Comet go by. Alas, I would be 99 years old for this to happen. But…my granddad and grandmother lived to be 99 and 98 respectively…so I am saying there is a chance.
Trans-Atlantic flight while in one of those pod things. I mean just traveling like that would be amazing but cuddling through turbulence sounds even better.
@ShaneMTB those are really comfy, would definitely reconsider if able
@ShaneMTB I take over 200 flights a year and turbulence has never been an attraction. What level of turbulence is acceptable to you considering it is really out of your hands.
@ FunCartel it’s not that I’m attracted to turbulence I just thinking cuddling while going through turbulence would be enjoyable.
@ShaneMTB What you call turbulence others call clinging on for dear life.
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@FunCartel >200 flights a year??? Gee, are you a pilot? I fly an average of 80k mi/year. Don’t think about cuddling during turbulence, although I’ve had very few lately. Back to the question, I’d be interested in cuddling in a park, during a festival with some nice live music?
Zero gravity cuddles.
Imagine floating in a shuttle just outside of Earth's atmosphere. Positions can be held for longer periods of time without discomfort, no numb limbs or stiff necks. Watch the Earth and other celestial bodies from an entirely new perspective. Outside is the cold and crushing void of space. Yet you are safe and warm in the embrace of your partner(s). 😌✨
@MxSmith I would also like to cuddle in Japan! Seems like a potentially touch-starved culture.
I love this thread! @xandriarain thats the best bucket list I’ve ever read!
I've always wanted to build out a van to live out of while traveling. After discovering cuddling, I had the wonderful idea of traveling around the country, to meet other cuddlers, in my own cuddle van.
@xandriarain your list brought such joy to me, especially the part about cuddling the would-be mass shooters and terrorists. As a school nurse, I was the designated on-campus hugger. I regularly got to see how hugging my troubled students or the disciplinary students changed their whole day. I happened to see one of my former students, a troubled one, one that every thinks would be a school shooter one day, at a Christmas party. We both cried as we hugged each other.
I have seen the healing happen, right before my eyes, as children would come into my office and would leave healed, after I offered them a bit of physical touch. I saw it in the teachers and administrators who would be at the end of their ropes with their students; they'd come see me on their breaks and everyone knew they could guarantee feeling better after they came to see "Nurse Jen". Our touch truly does heal, it heals deep deep parts of the humans we choose to touch. You're making such an impact in the world, just by being a safe place to receive and give touch.
Ok back on track! The number one thing on my cuddle bucket list is to cuddle on a porch like on this Pinterest board: https://www.pinterest.com/crunchymamajen/cuddle-jen/ I'm obsessed and can't wait to make a cuddle corner like this on my future homestead!
My cuddle bucket list is to cuddle with just one person. The pros in my area are unresponsive and the enthusiasts apparently are either gone or think I'm too old. Just one, for one hour. I haven't cuddled with a woman in years and I started late because I was focused on other things until in my thirties. I was oblivious to the signals given by women. So not much going on here.
I found another good one. I discovered that many airports are starting to have these "sleep pods" or "nap cabs" for tired travelers. I'd like to have a cuddle session in a sleep pod plz. Imagine if they just had those all over the place!
I'd like to attend a meet and greet
I would love to attend a cuddle event with tons of cuddles . Just a place to relax and meet different people in the lifestyle
Perhaps a member you would love to cuddle but haven’t?
I shan't say whom.
The responses in this thread are really sweet. 🥺
Right now my only “dream” for cuddling would be to find someone who wants to be a regular cuddle partner (1-2 times weekly) who would want to watch new shows with me while we cuddle on the couch. 💜
Do a Disney park day
Cuddle in the International Space Station
Cuddle in a waterfall, cuddle in the snow. Cuddle with only 4 people in the room. Cuddle on plane, train and bus. Cuddle in Nepal, Egypt and Ireland. 🤗
This may sound a bit boring but I’ve always wanted to do a theme cuddle. Example would be matching pajamas or let’s say we were watching a sporting event, matching or opposing team colors. I know a lot of pros don’t entertain outfit requests but I think most pros would think this idea was kinda cute.
How does a group cuddle work? Is there some kind of fee associated with registration?
To go to a cold, isolated mountain, not deal with the outside world, never be found by anyone, be totally off grid, and while I'm there, be held by someone who truly loves me for who I am, ideally while being given headpats too.
That's my fantasy.
I have had a few good cuddle experiences. Once in a field we just put a blanket down and lay there gazing the sky and the clouds move. It was fun, peaceful and beautiful. Once on a flight. Met a complete stranger. We chatted and then once comfortable we cuddled right through the night. It was an experience meeting a total stranger on the flight n then cuddling. Once on a cruise ship. We took part in dance classes that the cruise ship gives for the guest. We became friends and that night we cuddled n watched outdoor movie on a big screen. Cuddling has been a good therapy with the cuddlers here specially when I lost my dog after 15 years and I had to put it to sleep. It was challenging but a few cuddlers here during that period were a good help.
@N8urboyStargAzr Sounds magical. ✨